11 sisters made up a dowry of 320,000 yuan to buy a house for their brother to get married, and the younger brother was beautiful and the sister was uncomfortable
What is the most terrible patriarchal phenomenon ever seen? In order to have a son, a couple gave birth to 7 "fairies" in a row, but they could not afford to raise them, and sent three daughters to someone, until the 8th child gave birth to a son, and then they "stopped" in fertility, and later they were all kinds of eccentric adopted sons.
However, after seeing the family of 12 children, many people's "records of what they saw" were refreshed.
After 11 sisters cobbled together a 320,000 dowry and bought a wedding house for their brother, how was life?
Marriage is a great joy, relatives and friends like to share on the Internet, a man with a high surname in Shanxi and his family shared this happy event.
However, the focus of netizens is not on the luxury or bustle of the wedding scene, but on the groom's family - the groom actually has 11 sisters, and the 320,000 dowry money for the marriage is paid by eleven sisters together for marriage and housing. Some netizens therefore called these 11 sisters "super brother demons" and strongly condemned this patriarchal family.
It is understood that the father of this family with a high surname gave birth to 12 children in the 27 years of marriage, the first 11 were girls, the last one was a son, and only stopped having children after giving birth to a son.
For many years, the family has been fined for violating family planning and the cost of raising 12 children is extremely expensive, so the family's financial conditions have been poor.
When the son got married, the 11 daughters had already started their own families, but because of the poor conditions at home, they could not get the 320,000 needed for the bride price, so the 11 sisters each paid for the bride price.
On the day of the wedding, the 11 sisters put on customized red T-shirts together, in order to distinguish the order, the sisters' clothes were marked with the corresponding serial numbers, and when sending blessings, they went to the stage one by one to send blessings to their younger brothers in the order of 1 to 11.
The sister pooled the money to marry her brother, and the family was questioned
Although netizens also sent blessings to the couple, but also expressed their incomprehension and doubts about the family, they believe that this family is patriarchal, obviously the economic conditions are not good, but in order to have a son in a row to give birth to 12 children, in the end let the married sisters spend money to "help" the younger brother, pooled money for the younger brother to marry.
Moreover, this "sky-high" bride price does not rule out the possibility that parents may "sell" their daughters (let their daughters marry early) and return to subsidize the family in exchange for bride price.
Many netizens also question the ability of this younger brother, the sister is willing to spend money to marry the younger brother, indicating that he is very spoiled, it can be speculated that his parents usually love him.
Since you know that it costs so much money to get married, and the situation at home is not good, has this younger brother worked hard? At least save enough "wife Ben"! Or are you used to waiting for the "help" of 11 sisters? If you really don't have the ability, it is not only "nibbling on the old", but also "nibbling on the sister"!
There are also many netizens who are very distressed about these 11 sisters, and I heard that the tenth sister gave up college in order not to add a burden to the family.
Nowadays, they have become a family, but they still have to pay money to help their younger brothers in the family, the younger brother is beautiful, but the sisters are uncomfortable? What does this make the in-laws think? Although people don't say it, they still feel a little uncomfortable in their hearts.
The sisters came forward to answer: Parents are not patriarchal, and helping our brothers is voluntary
In the face of netizens' questions, the sisters said that their parents did not have the idea of "son preference" as netizens said, and wanting a son was just the thinking of the older generation, they thought that there was a son who lived more steadily, and the family had successors.
Moreover, the parents usually do not particularly love and favor the younger brother, in the process of growing up, the sisters and brothers get along very well, and the good for the younger brother is also out of the sister's love, are the family naturally can help, not to mention the younger brother, usually the sisters often help each other.
The younger brother also said that the 11 sisters have hurt him since childhood, and what is good will be given to him, and he is also grateful to his parents and sisters, who will be good to them for a lifetime.
The happiness of the family is exchanged for each other's efforts!
Whether it is a son preference, only this family knows, netizens do not have to worry about others.
From this "misunderstanding", there are some questions that are also worth thinking about, why is it that the sister helping the younger brother is called "helping the brother demon", while the younger brother helping the sister is not called the "sister supporting the demon"? Why should the sister sacrifice some of her own rights and interests for the benefit of her younger brother? In fact, these are the points that netizens question.
In fact, the happiness of a family requires the mutual payment of family members, if only one party pays unilaterally, such a family is unhappy, such as sister to pay, brother to enjoy, this needs to be condemned.
The real family is not afraid to sacrifice and pay for the family, but they are afraid that after paying, the family will not be grateful and do not know how to return, so in the face of the family's payment, we should all know how to be grateful.