For new parents, the arrival of new life brings joy at the same time, but also accompanied by the tediousness of bringing a baby. Babies cry when they are hungry, cry when they want to sleep, cry when they are uncomfortable...
Novice parents who lack experience with babies, the most wonderful moment of the day, is probably the "sound sleep time" after the baby has eaten and drunk enough, right? But the child's sleep does not mean that the parents can completely relax their minds, and various conditions after sleeping are also endless.
The new mother group sends out a "distress signal", what should the child do with the bed rolling on the plate?
At the moment of "free hands freedom" after coaxing the baby to sleep, I began to brush my mobile phone as usual, and happened to see the hot discussion of the baby's sleep in the group of mothers.
The cause of the incident was that Aya, a new mother, sent a "distress picture" in which her eight-month-old son slept on all fours in the middle of the bed. Aya helplessly pleaded with the "senior mommys": "Children always sleep on the bed, how to deal with this kind of land occupation behavior?" ”
Then someone kindly supported it: use a pillow to isolate an area from the child, so that he did not have the opportunity to roll around so badly. But there are also those who oppose it: thinking that a child rolling over the bed may be an uncomfortable manifestation and should be taken seriously.
As soon as the conversation began, everyone was talking about it, and Aya couldn't help but get nervous, asking everyone if the child slept all over the bed and rolled around, and the limbs loved to move, was there really a problem? I also asked everyone if they should take it to the hospital for examination?
The nervousness of the new mother is understandable, but because the child sleeps dishonestly, it is inevitable that the "indiscriminate" going to the hospital will also seem "fussy". When should I go to the hospital? Parents need to read the message behind this dishonest behavior of their children.
Usually children sleep in full bed because these four aspects are wrong. Moms don't overlook:
The environment is not comfortable, and there is no deep sleep
Babies, like adults, do not have a "full bed roll" situation after entering a deep sleep, so it is likely that the uncomfortable sleeping environment causes them to be restless, and they can only be released through action. The uncomfortable sleeping environment may be one of the causes of problems with your baby's sleep.
Especially in the neonatal period, because the baby's own body temperature ability is poorly regulated, the external environment that is too hot and too cold will make the baby sleep restlessly.
The baby's sleeping environment must be maintained in a comfortable constant temperature state, and the clothes and bedding that are in contact with the baby's skin should be selected with strong breathability to help the baby sweat. At the same time, we must ensure that the environment is quiet, and the noisy environment will also affect the baby's sleep.
Send out a request for a pillow
There is no need for a pillow in the neonatal period, but as the age increases, the baby's head has the need for support, otherwise like adults, no matter what sleeping position feels uncomfortable.
Encountering the baby's full bed rolling situation occurs frequently, after eliminating environmental problems, mothers can try to prepare a comfortable, breathable small pillow for the baby, and the baby may immediately be quiet.
Manifestations of insecurity
The baby sleeps on a full bed, in addition to objective factors such as the environment, there may also be psychological reasons. Babies who habitually curl up in the womb and sleep in the womb do not have enough security after birth, and the wide bed makes them feel that they have lost their dependence.
The ultimate reason they are rolling around the bed may be looking for the warm embrace of the mother, so when the current two-point method does not work, the mother may wish to hold the baby for a while, or sleep close to themselves, and you will find that the baby miraculously sleeps peacefully.
Manifestations of physical discomfort
If the baby's bed-full behavior, tried the above three methods can not be solved, then parents must pay attention, it is likely to be the child's physical discomfort released by the signal.
Observe if the child still has a furrowed brow, curled limbs, or a bowel ringing in the abdomen, or if the baby is crying continuously? Children in infancy and infancy cannot express their physical condition in words, and it is also necessary for parents to pay attention to whether they are rolling around the bed. If this situation is not alleviated for a long time, parents will consider taking their children to the hospital for professional examination.
The behavior of children sleeping in a full bed and rolling on a plate mostly occurs in infancy before the age of one year. As children grow up, their own temperature regulation ability, adaptability to the environment, and psychological security increase, and the baby's sleeping position will become "honest".
Raising a baby is not easy, and every small step of a child's growth condenses the efforts and efforts of parents. From changing diapers and sleeping, to education and school selection, it is a parenting experience that requires novice parents to continue to accumulate and summarize bit by bit.
As a responsible novice parent, in the process of taking care of children to eat and drink Lasa, we must carefully observe the dynamics of children's behavior, explore their life rules, and summarize their habits. In this way, when the child is rolling over the bed, parents can quickly find out what is the cause.
Since ancient times, there are clouds: "Poor parents in the world"! With this article, I would like to express my highest respect to the parents who have worked hard for their children all over the world!