After becoming a mother, I realized that these small things are really luxuries

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After becoming a mother, what do you think is the most luxurious?

The transition from a girl to a mom is enormous. After becoming a mother, work, life, and hobbies may all change, and some things that used to seem ordinary have now become extremely luxurious.

Have you ever felt this way? For you, what is the most luxurious thing to be a mother?

@Wangzaizai

I used to scratch my bed because of a harassing phone call in the middle of the night, lose my temper at home because my parents disturbed my sleep, and even moved out of the bedroom because my roommates influenced me to sleep...

But after becoming a mother, I learned that not being able to sleep is the norm...

What is a phone call in the middle of the night? Every 2 hours in the middle of the night, getting up to pump, warm milk, coaxing, washing bottles, and disinfection has long become a fixed process. This power is equivalent to: you have a hard time falling asleep, your mother slaps you awake, and then lets you sweep the floor, wipe the table, come back and sleep.

If you can lose your temper with your own mother, you can choose not to do it, not to get up, not to hear, but not with your own baby.

But have you ever thought that your mother has also stood in the same position as you, trapped in the eyelid fight, but can not put down the baby in her hand, it is difficult to close your eyes, not long to get up again, go through a cycle again.

What makes people grow old is not pregnancy, not having children, but sleepless after that.

From Lilac Mother Planet "After becoming a mother, I knew that staying up late would not die"

@Jingjing

After becoming a mother, the most luxurious thing is freedom.

From the moment of pregnancy, the freedom to eat was restricted. Because it is the first child, it is more cautious. Some people say that guiyuan and lychee should eat less, watermelon and crab should eat less, peppercorns and star anise should eat less, barbecue, spicy and hot eat less, milk tea, cola eat less... The list was a long list, and I suddenly felt that happiness was far away from me (in fact, due to the severity of morning sickness, I did not eat well).

Until I was breastfeeding, I didn't achieve "freedom to eat."

Not only is it the freedom to eat, but sleep has also become a luxury. When the baby was young, she always tossed at night, and she had to drink milk once every two hours. Every night when I was breastfeeding, I was so sleepy that I said that Kobe Bryant had seen four o'clock in the morning in Los Angeles, and when he was a mother, he had seen it every day at one o'clock in the morning.

When I go to work, I do "back nurse mother", and I have to go to the mother and baby room to suck milk regularly every day, and there are often awkward moments of milking. When I go to work, I suddenly feel that my clothes are getting wet, and if I am in a meeting or making a presentation, don't mention how depressed I am. At that time, I always thought about when I could wean and give my body freedom, no longer a "cow".

From the lilac mother planet "When I became a mother, I knew that the most luxurious thing turned out to be..."

@Cloud Flower Appearance

The most extravagant thing is to buy what you like at will.

After pregnancy has no fixed income, buying something has become cautious and expensive. After starting a family, it is not as free as reading and falling in love, especially after becoming a mother, it is a kind of "self-awakening".

The income of two people is reduced to one person's income, and the expenditure of two people becomes the expenditure of three people, especially the things needed by the newborn all need to be re-purchased, not to worry about the hardships of their pregnant bodies, but also to the mental pressure of their husbands and the quality of life of future babies. This does not come from one's own "can't think", or life does not allow it, but from self-awakening, it is the responsibility of the new life, and it is the psychological unconscious budding of the idea of calculating and planning for the new life.

A few days ago, I bought a babycare cheese stick, I was reluctant to eat a bite, my husband saw that the baby did not eat a bite, directly ate one bite, so angry that my tears flowed directly.

Yes, after becoming a mother, money became more precious than before.

From Lilac Mother Planet, "After being a mother, what do you think is the most luxurious?" (Part 1)"

@Marchmama

After becoming a mother, it was too luxurious to eat a safe meal.

I don't know why, once it comes to dinner, how can this little guy have so many "drama"? She will have to eat, she will drink soup, it is difficult to serve the little ancestor well, she is going to take a nap again, sometimes people just don't sleep, they want to toss you, what do you do with her?

Sometimes she's full for you to play with, and I take her up to my lap, and the little guy is pitiful, humming, and asking for a hug, which is not enough, and I have to drink milk, and I often gobble up and eat while feeding.

In short, eating a safe meal is too luxurious, more difficult than eating a full table...

From Lilac Mother Planet "After becoming a mother, everything is luxurious..."

@Little Gina's big friend

A few days ago, when I was packing up my things, I suddenly found that I was bored at home and bought but didn't do a good felt handicraft, and sighed: "How long has it been since I did something alone with peace of mind..."

I thought I was a person who couldn't stand loneliness, and it would never happen to me to be alone in a daze. Now that I think about it, sitting on the toilet alone in a daze, it is simply not realistic for me as a stay-at-home mother...

"Mom, what are you doing?"

"Mom's going to the bathroom."

"Then I'll close the door for you." (Note that we are locked in the toilet together)

"Mom, I'll help you get the paper."

"Mom, are you done?" Can I flush the toilet?"

Full supervision, intimate help, so that people are simply powerless...

Suddenly, I understood the phrase of the previous "person who came over": "When the baby can talk, you will be annoyed to death."

A stay-at-home mom who meets a sticky baby who needs to sleep with really doesn't have any time for herself. Nostalgic for the leisurely time of the person before giving birth to a baby...

From Lilac Mother Planet "I learned after being a mother, it turned out that being alone was so luxurious"

After becoming a mother, a lot of things have changed

What is the most luxurious thing for you?