Speaking of education, because each parent's own personality and temper are different, so there are different ways of education for children, although every parent loves their children very much, but it is precisely because of the difference in education methods that the children they have created will also have different worlds.
Some parents treat their children very strictly, there are no rules and no circles, when the child's behavior is inappropriate, they will not indulge the child's wrong behavior for any reason, and will use themselves as an example to teach the child how to increase their sense of responsibility. But some parents are the opposite of their children, often putting their children still young in their mouths, allowing their children to grow freely without educating them, but they do not know that it is this way of doting that will push their children to the place of no return.
Recently, a netizen witnessed the process of a bear child demonizing while waiting for the ride at the high-speed rail station, and deeply carved this matter into his heart.
It is reported that at that time in the waiting hall, a man with a small boy was also waiting for the car, but did not know whether the child's wishes were not met or for some other reason, and then the little boy lay on the ground and cried, crying for a while may see that the parents did not move, so they were more energetic, pulled up their throats and cried.
And the little boy was crying at the same time, shunshi lay under the chair placed in the waiting hall, and took his foot to push the chair into the air, the chair is more common to everyone, three people sitting together, its material will feel very cold when sitting up in winter.
As can be seen from the video, everyone is wearing cotton clothes, the weather is still very cold, although the little boy is also wearing cotton clothes, but lying on the ground will be very cold, and it is inevitable that he will get cold and get sick after a long time. Although the man saw the child lying on the ground, he did not stop it, perhaps not realizing this at the time.
If the man did not stop the child from lying on the ground because he was careless and did not realize that the ground was cold, but when the child pedaled the chair with his feet, he supported the chair with both hands, for fear that a chair would accidentally fall down and hit the little boy.
Such behavior is really puzzling, the child does not stop when he is a demon, but when the child may be in danger, he indulges the child to spill, I don't know whether this is to love the child or harm the child?
And this man's inexplicable behavior is not only this, the man in the child to support the chair, but also looked at the child's feet, confirmed that will not be pressed to the back of the heart, the expression on the face is extremely relaxed, and even smiled, and from time to time to look around, the meaning expressed in the eyes is very obvious: very satisfied with their own children, but also never think that their own children are bear children.
Even while supporting the handle of the chair, he also gave the child a boost from time to time so that he could pedal more easily.
Lao Yu wanted to say
When our parents' generation was young, the family's economic conditions were not good, there were many brothers and sisters in the family, because of the hardship of life, they generally matured earlier, and at that time, the parents really did not show mercy to the disobedient children, I believe that many people have been beaten for disobedience.
But with the development of society now everything is different, there are fewer children in the family, the economic level has improved, the treatment of children is more and more loving, reluctant to fight and reluctant to scold, even if the child has done too much things will be forgiven by parents for the reason that the child is small and ignorant.
However, these parents do not realize that what they think of hurting their children and loving their children is not real love, it is coddling, and unconditional coddling will harm the child's life.
Of course, there are also many parents who hope that their children can grow up to be mature, thinking that it is a good thing that the children are strict when they are young, although the process is very painful, but the children will understand the parents' good intentions for themselves when they grow up, and then they will feel that everything they paid was worth it.
What do you think about that?