With the release of the second child, the appeal for the third child began.
In the end, because the current birth rate is really too low, it is very much in need of new life.
The birth rate is so low because the number of young people is not as good as before, and it is because many young people are not in a hurry to get married, and they are not so willing to have children when they get married.
Young people are reluctant to have children, many people do not understand, what is the reason for this, it seems that getting married and having children, it is just a very natural thing, everyone should be so.
However, perhaps for the post-70s, they do have such an idea, but for the post-80s and post-90s or even the post-zero, today's young people do not have such a concept.
Today's young people, in a more open era, have their own ideas for themselves and their children.
The material conditions are not good, and I dare not easily go to life.
The generation of parents will always say that at that time, they didn't want anything, they got married early, they had children early, and as the days passed, the children also grew up, and it was not so difficult to raise children.
But nowadays, it is not always the original era, raising children is really not so easy, it will take a lot of money.
Such as various tests and nutrition during pregnancy, various costs of giving birth, after giving birth, the child's milk powder and diapers, after school, in order to be able to receive a better education, it takes a lot of money.
Even if the child grows up, to a certain extent, it is necessary to prepare a house and a car for the child.
Think about it, raising a child, it not only requires a lot of energy, it really needs a lot of material foundation, and now young people, in the face of high housing prices, too many people have tried their best just to survive, and there is not much balance at all.
In such a situation, many people really do not dare to have children, after all, it is easy to give birth to children, but to really raise children well, it is really a bit inadequate, so simply do not consider having children.
Worried about not raising well, still busy with self-realization.
For raising children, material is on the one hand, and more importantly, it is also in the spiritual and spiritual aspects.
It is said that parents are the best teachers for children, but many parents, even in their twenties and thirties, have not even understood each other's own life, do not know the meaning of life, and have not yet found a better way to survive.
Along the way, they are still busy growing, busy finding themselves, even they don't know how to live, they don't have so much control over their feelings, and for a while, they really can't meet a new life.
Therefore, rather than when they are not ready and then have children in a hurry, they are more willing to take care of their days first, deal with their feelings first, and let themselves live a better life first.
One day, when each other's feelings are really stable enough and their bodies and minds are ready, they will think about having children.
Before that, men are busy with their careers, women are also busy realizing their own value, and they don't want their children to trap themselves, and they are not so concerned about having children.
Change of concept, do not feel how necessary the child is.
Men and women in the past probably never thought about why they should have children, but they just felt that raising children to prevent old age and passing on the generations is a natural law, and others should live like this, and they should do the same.
However, nowadays, too many young people have long been accustomed to it, even if they raise children, children may not be able to take care of their parents' old age, as for the bloodline inheritance, many people do not feel how necessary it is, how worthy of their own bloodline.
Rather than spending their entire lives on children, one generation is living entirely for the next generation, and more and more young people are beginning to live for themselves, just wanting to spend all this life on themselves.
They don't want to be bound by children, and they don't have so much sacrifice spirit, they just want to be able to see more scenery, meet more beauty, and live as much as possible in these short decades.
It seems that their ideas are a little selfish, but they are also more sober than too many people.
In their conception, children are not appendages of parents, but independent individuals, if they have children, it is that they want to raise a life, not expecting the child to give back anything, and if they do not have children, it is just their choice.
Young people are reluctant to have children because of stress, but also because their ideas are very different from before.
In the same era, whether rich or poor, some people are equally willing to have children, thinking that children will complete their lives, is their own hope, is the inheritance of life, is the testimony of mutual love.
There are also people who really don't want to have a life regardless of the conditions, and are more willing to spend their time to complete themselves.
No matter what kind of idea, in fact, you can understand that in your own life, everyone has the right to choose.
Anyway, no matter how you live, it is a lifetime, the key is to like it, don't regret it.
Of course, if you can, in the case of everything is ready, I still hope that more people will have their own children, the birth of a new life, it will be a little hard, but it will also bring people endless happiness and happiness.