Host: "Are you a passionate lover?" ”
Guo Xianni: "It used to be." ”
Guo Xianni: "I think all young girls pursue love." ”
Guo Xianni is known as the "most photogenic Hong Kong sister".
She was very hot when she debuted, and many rich and popular male stars have pursued her.
There are also many of her "gossip" boyfriends in the outside world, Such as Gu Tianle, Wen Zhaolun, Tao Dayu and so on.
But Guo Xianni is not interested in well-known people in Hong Kong circles.
Even if he has no money and no culture, he is willing to marry him against all opinions.
As for the reason, there is no romantic love story, just because she had a meal in the countryside.
01
Guo Xianni is of mixed Chinese and English descent.
For as long as she could remember, Dad often didn't come home.
Mom and Dad often quarrel, Mom works hard to bring the baby alone, and Dad is out all day and happy.
In order to support the family, my mother went to help others do odd jobs every day.
Help the hotel move goods, help others to do needlework, help others clean.
In order to save money on electricity, my mother was reluctant to turn on the lights even when she was doing needlework at night.
Therefore, my mother broke her eyes at a young age.
The efforts made by her mother for life, Xiao Guo Xianni looked in her eyes.
She always wanted to do something for her mother, to make her less hard.
When she was 5 years old, her father threw her and her mother out of the house.
Mom and she didn't even have a place to live, mom originally had a low income, and now she has to spend money to rent a house.
Life that was not rich was even worse.
Mom went out early every morning to work, and at night she brought back a bunch of fabrics to help people sew clothes.
The father never gave the mother and daughter any help.
Fortunately, Grandpa Guo Xianni has been subsidizing them.
Grandpa repeatedly instructed Guo Xianni:
"No matter how poor you live, you have to keep finishing your studies."
Because of this, Guo Xianni never thought of giving up her studies at any time.
After graduating from the college entrance examination, Guo Xianni took the money her grandfather and mother collected for her and went to Study at Simon Fraser University alone.
A few years later, Guo Xianni successfully obtained a double degree in economics and psychology.
After Guo Xianni returned to China, she worked as a flight attendant in an airline.
The flight attendants' income is not enough to change the family's financial situation.
At that time, various draft competitions arose, and the prize money was very rich, and Guo Xianni was ready to sign up for a try.
In 1999, Guo Xianni signed up for the Miss Hong Kong contest.
Also competing with her was Hu Xing'er.
Hu Xing'er said:
"We have more than 20 contestants, we can't compete for the championship at all, we can only compete for the third place and the second place, because the champion must be Guo Xianni, she is really too beautiful."
The 25-year-old Guo Xianni successfully won the Hong Kong Sister Championship that year.
A year later, Kwok represented Hong Kong in the Miss Chinese International contest and won the championship again.
As soon as the competition ended, Guo Xianni was signed away by wireless.
02
In 2001, 27-year-old Guo Xianni partnered with Gu Tianle and Lin Feng to star in the TV series "Looking for Qin".
How much does Wireless attach to Guo Xianni?
Just after her debut, he let her play the heroine, and also let her play two roles alone.
Guo Xianni's star path is smooth and smooth, all the way.
Just as her career was steadily advancing, Guo Xianni was blinded by Wen Zhaolun's sweet words.
Despite the objections of his friends around him, he also wanted to be with Wen Zhaolun.
Wen Zhaolun was the idol of the young girls of that era.
Handsome is really handsome, and scum is also real scum.
The girl who has been in love with him has not had a good ending.
Either they have been blackmailed or they have been discredited.
Guo Xianni's end is still good, because Wen Zhaolun's scandals continue, and the TV station has to take down her new drama "Cowherd Weaver Girl" that she and Wen Zhaolun cooperated with.
After being repeatedly deceived by Wen Zhaolun, Guo Xianni stopped the loss in time and proposed to break up with Wen Zhaolun.
Since then, she has concentrated on her career.
But she is too beautiful to look at, and there are countless suitors around her.
Guo Xianni was not moved, she had witnessed her father's ruthlessness since she was a child, so she did not have any illusions about marriage.
All the Hong Kong sisters have not been able to have a relationship with the rich, but Guo Xianni does not love the rich.
Since she won the championship, countless rich people have pursued her, and every day various sports cars are waiting for her downstairs in her company.
Luxury cars, diamond rings, and flowers were given to her every day, but she didn't care.
She can earn money herself and doesn't need to rely on others to support her.
She only likes steady boys, and marrying into a rich family is not her dream.
Because of her father's reasons, she hopes to find a boyfriend who cares for the family, filial piety, loves children, is single-minded, responsible for children, and responsible for the family.
Unfortunately, many people just have a talking mouth, and Guo Xianni is easily confused by their superficial phenomena.
For example, "Master Milk Killer" Tao Dayu.
Tao Dayu is very good at chasing girls, and he has seen a lot of girls like Guo Xianni, who are extremely vigilant.
It didn't take him a few days to break through Guo Xianni's last psychological defense line.
Guo Xianni desperately came together with Tao Dayu.
At this time, Tao Dayu had a wife.
Guo Xianni was scolded as "naked".
For a long time, Guo Xianni did not dare to fall in love again.
Despite this, Guo Xianni's reputation in Hong Kong has fallen into chaos.
After that, Guo Xianni left Hong Kong and went to the mainland to develop.
Producer Deng Xibin and Guo Xianni are good friends, and he introduced Guo Xianni to the "Palace Lock Heart Jade" crew to shoot.
Guo Xianni has an action scene, but she has not been able to shoot well after shooting more than 20 times.
At noon, when everyone was eating, she practiced in the corner by herself.
But the action was always wrong, and Guo Xianni was so anxious that she squatted in the corner of the wall alone and cried.
At this time, the martial arts instructor of the crew, Zhu Shaojie, came over.
He handed Guo Xianni a box lunch, crouched down beside her and said to her:
"Let's eat first, and I'll teach you one by one."
After eating, Zhu Shaojie began to patiently guide her movements.
After the end, Guo Xianni quickly thanked him.
After this exchange, the two people did not see each other again.
At the time of the killing, Deng Xibin said to Guo Xianni:
"You've been single for more than 5 years, haven't you?" You see you're 36, let me introduce you to an object. ”
When she heard that the other party was an outsider, Guo Xianni hesitated.
She said to Deng Xibin:
"Well, let's see if he dares to hold my hand."
Guo Xianni felt that he was joking, and she did not think that there would really be outsiders who would dare to fall in love with her.
Because she feels that falling in love with artists is very tired and will be paid attention to by many people.
She felt that the other party would not have the courage to be with her.
Deng Xibin still insisted on taking her to the restaurant and meeting with the other party.
As soon as they saw that it was Zhu Shaojie, both of them couldn't help but laugh.
It's just that neither of them has had much dealing with each other, so there aren't too many topics.
Zhu Shaojie has an introverted personality and is very shy, and he has not spoken much all night.
After eating, Zhu Shaojie sent Guo Xianni back to the hotel.
When he got out of the car, Zhu Shaojie suddenly shook hands with Guo Xianni.
And very officially said:
"It's a pleasure to meet you."
Guo Xianni felt very strange.
Like business cooperation, I also shook hands and said goodbye in a serious manner.
Later, Zhu Shaojie told her:
"I shook your hand that night to tell you I dared to hold your hand."
Guo Xianni cried and laughed at this matter.
After meeting this time, Guo Xianni returned to Hong Kong.
She also did not think that she would have the opportunity to meet Zhu Shaojie.
Coincidentally, Guo Xianni had just returned to Hong Kong, and the company arranged for her to go to Shanghai to shoot a scene.
Then Zhu Shaojie chased all the way to Shanghai.
When zhu shaojie and Guo Xianni were in Shanghai, they confessed:
"Would you like to be my girlfriend?"
Guo Xianni agreed.
Within a few days, Zhu Shaojie took Guo Xianni back to his hometown of Zhengzhou.
Zhu Shaojie's parents have been living in the countryside of Zhengzhou.
Both of them are ordinary farmers who have been growing crops in the village.
I have never been far away in my life, I can't speak Mandarin, and I have been speaking Henan dialect.
Guo Xianni went to Zhu Shaojie's house, she has been trying to speak Mandarin, Zhu Shaojie's mother can understand Mandarin, but can not speak Mandarin.
Guo Xianni's Mandarin was not very good, and she couldn't understand Henan dialect.
She has been relying on Zhu Shaojie to translate for her.
But Guo Xianni knew that Zhu Shaojie's mother liked her very much.
Zhu Shaojie's mother was very satisfied with Guo Xianni, and she kept smiling and closing her mouth.
Guo Xianni saw that Zhu Shaojie's mother had been cooking in the kitchen, and she took the initiative to go in to help.
Zhu Shaojie was worried that Guo Xianni would abandon rural life.
I didn't expect Guo Xianni to live happily in the country yard.
Guo Xianni and Zhu Shaojie's parents sat together in the courtyard eating vegetables grown in the countryside.
She wasn't a little picky, not a little unaccustomed.
Zhu Shaojie has been worried, worried that she does not like the coarse tea and light rice made by her mother.
Guo Xianni knew what Zhu Shaojie was worried about.
She said to Zhu Shaojie: "I know what you are worried about, although I have not been here, but I like your parents very much, they are very simple and kind." I'm comfortable with them, don't worry too much. ”
Zhu Shaojie was touched by Guo Xianni at that time.
Then immediately ran to the city to buy a ring.
After buying the ring, he proposed to Guo Xianni.
They had known each other for only 3 months, and Guo Xianni was also stunned.
She had never imagined that anyone would propose to her so firmly.
Guo Xianni nodded in agreement with tears.
Not long after, Guo Xianni took Zhu Shaojie back to Hong Kong to see her mother.
Zhu Shaojie is very filial piety, not that he buys how many nutritional products, but he will take care of the elders in a little detail.
When she goes out, she will help Guo Xianni and her mother-in-law carry her bags and cook for them.
Guo Xianni's mother has seen her former boyfriend, and she is not as steady and steady as Zhu Shaojie.
Mom said Zhu Shaojie was the most normal boyfriend she had ever seen with her daughter.
At first, Guo Xianni's mother did not like Zhu Shaojie very much,
Zhu Shaojie is 6 years younger than Guo Xianni, and he has no fame or diploma.
But when she knew Zhu Shaojie as a person, she was also touched by Zhu Shaojie's kindness.
In 2011, Guo Xianni and Zhu Shaojie married.
Guo Xianni deliberately held a wedding in the countryside according to the customs of the village.
The winner of Miss Hong Kong held a wedding in the countryside, which shows that she is really simple in her heart, does not love vanity, and does not pursue material and form.
After marriage, Guo Xianni herself spent 5 million yuan to buy a marriage house in Hong Kong.
Usually, Zhu Shaojie will come to live in Hong Kong.
When Guo Xianni is on vacation, she will fly to Zhengzhou and then transfer the bus to the village to see her in-laws.
Every time she went to see her in-laws, she would carry a lot of things in large bags.
There are nutritional products for in-laws and clothes for mother-in-law.
In 2012, Guo Xianni's daughter was born.
There is also a small episode about the birth of a daughter.
Guo Xianni was looking for a hospital in Hong Kong.
From payment to hospitalization, she handled it alone, spending a total of 190,000 yuan.
On the day of the caesarean section, Zhu Shaojie rushed from the mainland.
When I arrived in Shenzhen, I found that my visa had expired.
Later, after several twists and turns, Zhu Shaojie came to the hospital.
Cut the umbilical cord for my daughter himself.
Guo Xianni was originally a housewife, who went home after work and did not like to go out to socialize.
She stayed home for a week without going out.
After getting married, she had almost no other activities than work as a daughter.
Because the old house where the in-laws lived in the countryside often leaked, Guo Xianni bought a suite in Zhengzhou city and took her in-laws to live in the city.
The in-laws have been in the village all their lives and are not used to living in the city.
Guo Xianni said that she wanted her in-laws to help her take care of her children, so that she could take her in-laws from the countryside.
After her mother-in-law came to the city, Guo Xianni took her mother-in-law to the mall to buy clothes in three days.
Guo Xianni herself has no desire to shop, but she loves to buy things for her mother-in-law.
Every time Guo Xianni bought clothes for her mother-in-law, her mother-in-law would wear them out to show off to the neighbors.
My mother-in-law often said to the neighbors in the village: "My daughter-in-law is very kind to me, buying a house for our old two families, and often buying me clothes, just like my daughter-in-law." ”
Guo Xianni has loved the feeling of eating together as a family since she was a child, and she will do the same when she grows up.
She doesn't like to drink and eat outside with her friends, and she enjoys and cherishes the time she spends with her family.
Guo Xianni is very good at cooking, and she is very good at Western food and Chinese food.
She often studied recipes at home and then made them for her husband and in-laws.
Guo Xianni has never quarreled with her mother-in-law, and the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law get along particularly well.
She regularly takes two elderly people to the hospital for medical examinations.
The housework at home was all cleaned up by Guo Xianni.
Because her mother worked outside the home since she was a child, she was alone at home to clean up the housework.
Later, when she became famous, Guo Xianni did not like to ask for a nanny, she liked to clean up her own room.
She is different from other female artists in the circle, she does not like to drink afternoon tea with celebrities.
I don't like to go to the gatherings organized by the regal.
She likes to wear affordable clothes, likes to go to the wet market, likes to go to the supermarket.
Once she and Zhu Shaojie were shopping and saw a dress, Guo Xianni liked it very much, but when she saw that the price was thousands of yuan, Guo Xianni turned her head and left.
She has no material requirements and does not love brand names.
There will be brand sponsorship at the event, and there will be companies wearing jewelry in Taiqing.
She had worn tens of millions of necklaces, and she wouldn't feel much happier when she wore them.
She always felt that matter was "illusory",
Only by buying a house, a stable life for the family is happiness.
She needs a very stable sense of security, and zhu Shaojie can give her these feelings.
Zhu Shaojie is very family-oriented, filial piety, and loves his daughter very much.
He never only thought that Zhu Shaojie would cheat, she believed in Zhu Shaojie's character.
Zhu Shaojie has never passed on gossip in the crew and other actresses.
Zhu Shaojie is very hardworking and hardworking, he is not only a martial arts director, but also a producer and director.
Guo Xianni was very distressed that he had multiple jobs, and many times advised him not to do so much work, just do one.
She wanted Zhu Shaojie to have more rest time, but Zhu Shaojie was reluctant to rest in order to let his wife and daughter live a better life.
Zhu Shaojie has certain achievements in his field, but he is very low-key and does not like to be in the limelight.
Therefore, people often think that Zhu Shaojie has no job.
Zhu Shaojie has many works, that is, it is too low-key.
"Qingyunzhi" starring Li Yifeng, Zhao Liying, Yang Zi, Cheng Yi, Qin Junjie, Mao Zijun, TFBOYS, Tang Yixin, Shu Chang and so on is directed by Zhu Shaojie.
"New Dragon Gate Inn" starring Qi Wei, Bao Jianfeng and Shen Mengchen is also his work.
There are also "Guardian Beauty" starring Wu Jinyan and Zhang Yi.
He often thinks about others without thinking about himself.
There is a film where he is busy from beginning to end, but at the end of the director's column, someone else's name is hung.
Guo Xianni was both distressed and angry when she knew.
At first, she was very angry and said to Zhu Shaojie: "Please, have you made a mistake, this is the fruit of your labor, how can you let others take it away?" ”
Zhu Shaojie explained:
"After all, he is older than me, and he is also my predecessor according to the generation, so if he wants to hang up his name, let him hang it."
Guo Xianni's breath dissipated after listening to it, she knew that Zhu Shaojie knew etiquette very well, but she didn't want him to suffer losses.
Guo Xianni said in the show: "Maybe I am a few years older than him, more than he has experienced, so I taught him how to do things, I told him that seniors should be respected, but this kind of thing can not be given to others." ”
Guo Xianni respected her husband very much, did not accuse him, did not order him what he had to do, she just expressed her opinion.
This mode of getting along is very good, Guo Xianni and Zhu Shaojie communicate in this way every time they encounter a problem, avoiding solving the problem by throwing a tantrum and arguing.
They feel that quarrels will not solve the problem, but also hurt their feelings.
So they never quarrel.
Guo Xianni and Zhu Shaojie seem to be "a match made in heaven".
Both people are very fond of children and are very filial.
Zhu Shaojie was busy with work every day, and Guo Xianni reduced her filming, and then took care of her in-laws at home.
Guo Xianni is as good to her in-laws as her biological parents.
Every time she bought her mother what kind of gift, she would buy her mother-in-law one exactly the same.
She can balance the two parents, and she loves the atmosphere where the big family lives together.
Her efforts can also be responded to, and her in-laws are also very good to Guo Xianni.
Every time Guo Xianni went to work in other places, her in-laws and in-laws were always worried about her.
Every few days, they will talk to each other on video calls, and Guo Xianni will send red envelopes to her mother-in-law every New Year's Festival.
As long as she returns from out of town, she will definitely bring gifts to her in-laws.
Outside of work, Guo Xianni hardly participates in other activities or visits luxury stores.
Actors in the same group often say, "After filming this play, I want to buy a sports car, buy a new designer bag..."
Guo Xianni did not have such thoughts.
She saved all the money to prepare for her daughter's future.
She prepared a lot for her daughter's studies.
When her daughter is a teenager to study abroad, she will quit the circle and follow her daughter to study abroad.
The focus of her life is all on her daughter, and she doesn't want to miss any of her growing moments.
Guo Xianni is a good mother, a good daughter-in-law, and a good wife.
Looking back at Guo Xianni's road, she was born poor but never gave up her principles, and worked hard just to give her mother a better life.
She has not forgotten her original intention because of temptation, and has been looking for a true love that does not add any impurities.
After marriage, let both parents enjoy their old age in peace and wholeheartedly accompany their daughters to grow up.
Stumbling along the way, she finally lived the stable life she had dreamed of.
Finally, in the boundless sea of people, find the person who cares about her.
As Teresa Teng's "I Only Care About You" lyrics:
If I didn't meet you
Where I will be
How are the days going
Whether life should be cherished or not
Maybe you know someone
Live an ordinary life
I don't know if it will
There is also love as sweet as honey
Let the time pass in a hurry
I only care about you
Willingly infect your breath
The geometry of life can get a confidant
It is not a pity to lose the life force
So I beg you
Don't let me leave you
I can't feel it except you
A touch of affection
If so one day
You said you were leaving
I will lose myself
Step into the boundless sea of people
Don't make any promises
Just be together every day
I can't just rely on it
Pieces of memories live
The love story of Guo Xianni and Zhu Shaojie is not romantic or vigorous, but companionship is the longest confession of love.
Don't make any promises, as long as you are together every day, let the time rush to go, I only care about you, this is Guo Xianni's greatest happiness.