Since ancient times, people have paid attention to the door to the door. Family economic conditions, their own ability, body and appearance are relatively matched is what everyone thinks of as a door-to-door pair.
When you are young and ignorant, you are fearless, and you feel that love is against everything. However, as the experience grew, when I saw too many devastated loves, I found that the original door was really important.

Xiaozhou (pseudonym) is a rural guy, the family conditions are average, his parents rely on desperate farming to provide him for college, Xiaozhou is also angry, after graduating from college has a good job. He secretly decided in his heart that in the future, he must buy a house for his parents, take them out of the small old house, and filial piety to them.
He worked hard, and soon after he met a beautiful and generous girl, he fell in love with her, but because the girl was a city person, he did not dare to show it, and only silently cared about her, but the girl also valued his diligence and honesty, and did not mind his origin.
After being together, Xiaozhou felt that he was really happy. He works harder and wants to give his girlfriend a better life.
A year later, he took his girlfriend home to meet his parents, who were happy and reserved, and they had lived in the village all their lives and did not know how to treat people in the big city. The girl also respects her boyfriend's parents, but in the end there is no topic to talk about because of the different living environment, fortunately, they are safe, and the two return to the city to work a few days later.
Later, the girl also took her boyfriend home to meet her parents, and her parents were also more satisfied with Xiaozhou, a diligent boy, and agreed with the feelings of the two.
Just when Xiaozhou was full of joy and ready to propose to his relatives, his girlfriend's parents made a request, asking Xiaozhou to buy a house in the first-tier city where they worked.
This requirement Xiaozhou also knows that it is very reasonable, after all, the girlfriend's family conditions are good, she herself is excellent, she deserves it, and she deserves it better.
However, the housing prices in first-tier cities are too high, and a house is at least a few million, which is out of reach for him, how many years will he have to work hard to achieve it?
Even if they buy a house in the city, what should parents do? They have been in the countryside all their lives and are reluctant to come to the city to live.
Xiao Zhou felt very painful, he could not wronged his girlfriend and could not abandon his parents. The girlfriend does not want her boyfriend to be embarrassed, but she also has her own considerations. Both of them were struggling inside.
In the end, Xiaozhou still proposed to break up, he could not selfishly grievance his girlfriend and live a hard life with him, let alone abandon his parents.
The girlfriend agreed, and the education and ideas she was exposed to made her unwilling to be a housewife or too far away from her parents.
They have not changed their feelings, but they still can't compete for reality.
In marriage, two people who are equally matched can live a more stable and long-term life.
Even if two people at different levels are married, the long-term discord between the three views will only lead to contradictions.
Love is a matter of two people, and marriage is the exchange of two families, and it is particularly important to be the door to the door.