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Many people always feel that men are willing to spend money for women to prove their love, in fact, such a statement, there is no basis at all.
A man doesn't mind spending money for a woman, either because he has money or because he doesn't care about money. When he feels that money is nothing, in order to achieve his own goals, investing a certain cost is not a big deal.
What kind of people care about money? The answer is people without money. You don't have money, so the people you feel willing to spend money on you are just loving you, and for those who have money, it's not worth mentioning at all.
Everyone's situation is different, and the standards and conditions for measuring love are naturally different.
No matter how willing a man is to spend money for you, if he can't take the initiative to give you the following, it may not be true love. Only by maintaining such sobriety and sanity can you allow yourself to love blindly.
One: Give you respect
A man who doesn't know how to respect you won't put you on an equal footing with him, and you're not so much a lover or couple as you are her nanny.
This is the case with Lin Qingkun in the TV series "Perfect Partner", who has long ignored his wife Wu Min, thinking that she is just a dispensable housewife.
Wu Min did not know that she was pregnant, which led to an accidental miscarriage, when in the hospital, Lin Qingkun's face did not have a trace of pain, but blamed her for why she was so careless, Wu Min cried for a long time, Lin Qingkun said to her: "You still go to the bathroom to wash your face and then go home." ”
Wu Min looked at him desperately and said, "The doctor ordered me not to touch the cold water now, didn't you hear?" ”
Lin Qingkun did not care about his wife's inner helplessness and pain at all, and went forward angrily, even walking out of the door of the hospital, unwilling to help the other party open.
When Wu Min did not follow, Lin Qingkun turned around again and said, "The doctor told me not to touch the cold water, can't you open the door?" ”
At that moment, Wu Min's heart was completely broken.
A truly literate man who does not speak harshly, especially when dealing with people he loves deeply, will pay attention to whether his words will hurt his lover. On the contrary, if he has selfish blood in his bones, such a man will only blindly blame his partner for being wrong, and never know how to reflect.
How much can a man who doesn't know how to respect you love you? Even if he has money, he can't give you the emotions you want.
Two: Give you loyalty
A man who truly loves you, from the moment he is with you, develops a sense of responsibility. He will not make you think much, will not make you insecure, and will pay attention to maintaining measure and distance when dealing with other members of the opposite sex.
In a way, the key to seeing a man is not to spend his money, but to look at his character. A man of real good character is loyal to feelings, extremely moral, he knows self-discipline, he knows what kind of things can be done and what kinds of things cannot be done.
If the character is not good and cannot be loyal to you, then even if he lets you live in a luxurious villa, it does not require you to work hard, and it is impossible to maintain equality with you in the relationship, so that you feel love and warmth.
If so, I advise you to wake up a little earlier, the higher the expectation, the more disappointed you will eventually be.
After all, in a relationship, loyalty is always the foundation, without loyalty everything is zero.
Three: Trust
Also in the TV series "Perfect Partner", Sun Lei also had distrust of his wife Chen Shan, when she talked about work with male clients, he could not withstand the provocation of outsiders and suspected that she had betrayed herself.
But in fact, she really just talks to each other about work.
Between husband and wife, if there is no trust, then even if it is a small thing, there will be a great contradiction, and the cornerstone of the relationship established for many years will easily fall apart.
Good feelings, in fact, do not need more romance, do not need him to give much wealth, but when getting along, men can truly sympathize with your difficulties and see your efforts.
Truly literate men will not be proud of themselves, and even if their careers are very successful, they will still give their wives the most warmth and respect. They don't think that women lose value without a job.
But men at a low level will only feel that the other party is not worthy of sitting on an equal footing with themselves.
Such a man, no matter how luxurious a life he can provide for you, it is difficult for you to truly feel happy.
Love is romantic and serious, and it cannot be shared too much with anyone. A man who is truly trustworthy must know how to control the scale when getting along with the opposite sex.
As long as he has you in his heart, he will restrain his words and deeds, will not have too many opportunities to be alone with other women, and will not deliberately do things that make you sad.
Life is short, and we don't have that much time to love someone. Girls' youth is so precious, your sincere love and dedication should not be treated cheaply.
For the rest of your life, you must marry a man who has cultivation and knows how to measure up, he will treat you as an independent individual, and strive to nourish each other's feelings with love.
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