Everyone is longing for the arrival of love, but when love will come, no one can predict in advance.
Love is like a breeze, you can't hear its footsteps, you can't see its trajectory. By the time you notice it, it's already passing you by.
After suffering the pain of passing shoulders again and again, everyone consciously began to look for traces of love, hoping to hold it in their hands before it sneaked away.
Unfortunately, too many people are hiding their affection, obviously already emotional, but they are hard to admit it.
Many people feel that as long as they hide their love, others will not know.
But in fact, no matter who you like, or who is emotional about you, you and he can be detected.
The reason why there is awareness is because everyone will have some changes after the emotion. Although these transformations are large and small, as long as they exist, you will be able to find the answer in them.
Observations have found that the biggest change after a person's emotion is that the frequency is different.
Before the emotion, whether it is contact, or meeting, whether it is care, or help, it will remain on a high frequency.
After the emotion, the frequency of these aspects will change unconsciously. Pay attention to the change in frequency, and you will be able to know whether a person is in love with you or not.
Frequency of contact
When a person doesn't like you, even if they want to contact you, it's only because something is looking for you. Once you're done, you're like strangers, and there's no connection at all.
Most people choose to keep the connection low in frequency until they are emotional, because they don't want to cause unnecessary misunderstandings.
You can make the frequency of contact suddenly increase, but love is nothing. Only in the case of affection for you will a person contact you more and more often.
The reason why he contacts you frequently is because he is already in love with you and wants to know more about you and be close to you.
Whether or not you will respond to him, and whether you can accept his love or not, it will not stop him from contacting you.
He puts his feelings into the frequency of contact, the higher the frequency of contact with you, the stronger the affection for you, don't understand.
Frequency of meetings
In this fast-paced era, everyone is working hard for a better future, and there is not much time to meet with friends at all.
Under this premise, a person who can keep the number of times he sees you at a high frequency is enough to prove that he has already been emotional about you.
He could have spent his free time on himself and let himself relax, but he spent all his time seeing you.
He can sacrifice his rest time to see you; he can come to you from afar to see you.
All this he has done is actually a proof that he has already been emotional about you. Even if he doesn't explicitly state his love, you should understand his heart.
He longs to see you every day, and as long as he thinks of you, he will come to you. His frequent meeting with you is a hint to you, and I hope you can see his affection as soon as possible.
Frequency of concern
In this world, in addition to your parents who will care about you frequently, there are also people who really love you and care about you.
He wants to know if you're doing well or not, and wants to soothe your heart with his care, so even if you never respond, he will always care.
The frequency with which he cares about you is not once or twice once or twice, but every day. When the love is strong, you may have to care about it several times a day.
These concerns are actually proof of his affection for you, he has been looking forward to your awareness, how can you not understand.
If you perceive his love from his concern, please respond to him in time, and don't let him suffer alone for too long.
The frequency of help
Although it is said that people should help each other, except for those who love you, no one will do their best to help you without asking for anything in return.
There are many people who can help you, but there are too few people who can always help, and only people who truly love you will deal with your difficulties as their own.
Whenever you ask him for help, he will be the first to reach out to you. Sometimes he doesn't even have to ask for help, he will take the initiative to help you.
This high frequency of help stems from his love for you. If one day he doesn't love you, he won't take care of you.
Whether a person is emotional about you or not, from the frequency with which he helps you, can be seen, do not ignore.
XiaoJing Concluding Remarks:
The arrival of feelings, although quiet, will inadvertently leave traces. The most obvious trace is the change in frequency.
Nourished by love, the frequency of contact, meeting, caring, and helping will continue to rise. You want to know whether a person is emotional about you, and it is enough to observe these aspects of frequency.
The level of frequency represents the depth of a person's feelings for you, and the higher the frequency, the stronger the affection.
If you have read a man's heart from these frequencies, then take advantage of the opportunity.
You know, the opportunity is in front of you, seize it as soon as possible, and happiness will come.