If your child has already experienced school-averse behavior, then it is very important to deal with it from the perspective of parents, because we all want a more positive result, rather than parents who are more tired of school the more they manage their children.
First, children are sometimes bored with school just so that they can not go to school or do not want to study, and even show that they may not be physically well.
Parents should first be very concerned about the child's situation, if it is uncomfortable, you can first take the child to the hospital to do some basic physical health examinations, such as blood tests, X-rays, electrocardiograms and so on. If there is no major problem with the organ, then it should be considered that it may be caused by psychology or emotion.
If it is because of psychological or emotional reasons that lead to school-weary behavior, remember not to follow the child's emotions, because one has two, and all three are not true.
To avoid the child's attention to the school-weary mentality, do not want to go to school, then parents at least can not follow the child does not want to go to school, let him stay at home, must find a way to bring the child to school, even if there is no way to go to the classroom for a while, you can also go to the school's infirmary, counseling room or library, because the child's world is home and school,
If you put him at home because of this, he will not want to go to school more and more, and when he finds that he can use this way to satisfy the current behavior of not going to school, of course, he will often tell you: I have stomachache, headache, and physical discomfort, then the parents have no choice, they have to keep him at home, so that he will lose half of the world, and in the long run, the child will deprive him of an ability to understand the world.
The second point is that parents must often have some contact and communication with the school, if you find that the child is bored with school, at least you can understand what is the reason for his boredom.
There may be many, many specific factors for school aversion, and parents must explore the real reasons for it. To explore the cause, parents must first understand what is wrong with the child, rather than what the parents themselves think is what happened.
It is recommended that parents can reflect on it, if we have confirmed that there is no problem with the child's body, then we must contact the teacher more, give the child to the teacher, rather than watching from the side, worried that the teacher will take your child, the teacher, the school can actually learn more at ease, because the school can not let the child have an accident, parents must also learn to let go of this thing.
Slowly let the child grow up on its own, so that it can open its wings and be able to fly out. As long as the child knows that when he falls and is injured one day, he can still go back to the house, and it is good to have his parents to help him heal, rather than the father and mother always tie the child to the house and circle in a circle, because it is very unfair to the child.
If parents have not been able to learn to let go, you will know that your child's life will really become narrower and narrower, which will become another personality problem and a social problem.
Therefore, for children, parents should be concerned when they are tired of school, but do not be overly nervous, there are no special circumstances, or learn to trust the teacher and the school. Teenagers don't necessarily know what they want, they all have the exemplary role of their parents, making them want to learn.
Therefore, it is very important to remind parents of their teaching, when he feels that he wants to engage in a certain subject, if he does not have such ability, it will be very hard. Therefore, first the parents' teaching, and then the parents must understand the importance of teaching according to their aptitudes.
Although sometimes there may be a little frustration, as long as parents give a little more encouragement, I feel that they will be able to get out of the way they want and take responsibility for themselves.
Parents' encouragement is very important, parents should not first preset their own position, hope what the child wants to do, and do not think about the child to complete the parents' unfinished dreams.
In addition, in the face of children who are bored with school, parents must not do one black face, one white face, be sure to pay attention to two principles,
First, parents should have a consistent attitude.
Second, know how to let go at the right time,
In the face of children's boredom, sometimes parents and teachers have different views, different opinions, and even conflicts with each other, pushing the responsibility to each other, which is also very undesirable. Everyone should have a consensus, if necessary, through a professional psychological counseling mechanism, with the family, parent-child relationship and communication environment to improve, to face the problem of dealing with children's school boredom, because school aversion may produce emotional disorders.
In some cases, there are some cases that really need medical intervention, which need to be assessed and treated from the physiological, psychological, including the environmental aspects.
Therefore, if parents find that their children's school-weary behavior may come from the emotional side, they should pay more attention and seek professional psychological solutions.
In the face of academics and interpersonal relationships, parents face problems, deal with problems in the body teaching itself is a good model, according to the aptitude can also promote the best way for children to learn motivation, after all, interest is the best teacher, people in the field of good at more able to play their strengths, and finally produce half the effectiveness.
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