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Children do not pay attention to learning, can not learn, so that many parents feel very anxious, so, what to do in this situation? Parents' attitudes play a key role, and beatings and scolding often make things worse, so how should parents properly educate?
Causes of child school aversion:
1. Parents have high expectations
Parents attach too much importance to their children's learning, and grades are the only focus of parents' attention. These parents often ignore their children's feelings. In order to improve the child's grades, the number is constantly increased, and the enrollment in various cram schools is unbearable in the long run and fatigue will occur.
2. The impact of bad behavior
Some parents do not like to learn, play mobile phones all day, play cards, but force their children to read, learn, leading to children's psychological contrast. While these parents say they focus on learning, their children often don't listen to him and instead imitate his behavior.
3, lack of management
Some parents think their children are still young, so they protect everything and let their children develop. Over time, children lack motivation, homework is not supervised, there is no feedback on exams, and they slowly give up learning.
4. Learning objectives
Many children who are tired of learning are in a state of no goals and vague goals. Many children don't know why they want to learn. Many students treat learning and karma as a problem for teachers and parents, completely passive, and seriously lack motivation to learn.
5. Habit formation problem
Bored children have problems with their learning habits. For example, homework procrastination, not paying attention to lectures in class, and lack of concentration, resulting in a broken knowledge chain, learning can not keep up, will be tired of learning.
Children's boredom with school mainly has the following aspects
1. Learning disabilities
Due to early learning difficulties, some high school or junior high school students are criticized by their teachers at school and are not understood by their parents at home. Even if their academic performance is not satisfactory, they will be beaten and scolded by their parents. In the long run, they have no confidence in learning and lose interest. Subsequently, they skip school, creating a vicious circle.
2. Psychological pressure
It is not that children with learning difficulties do not want to study hard, but that there is no timely remedy in the early stages, and the ability has been determined. Between the ages of 2-12 is a period of praise, during the missed diagnosis and treatment, children with learning difficulties will naturally bring psychological stress, anxiety and other emotions are more common.
3. Physiological effects
Many children's learning difficulties are mainly caused by ADHD, tics, etc., these children often have early inattention, poor academic performance, and parents are easy to ignore.
Attention EEG training network said that child fatigue is not a small problem, parents should often pay attention to their children's learning, timely help children solve learning problems, if not solved, you can seek help from professional institutions.
Children who are tired of learning and addicted to games not only delay learning, but also have the following harms:
1. Health damage
For children in the physical development period, playing games on computers or mobile phones for a long time will break the rules of daily life, including abnormal diet, poor sleep quality, weight loss, etc., and in severe cases, sudden death.
2. Decreased cognitive level
If children play games for too long, their abstract thinking skills, logical skills, memory, and attention will become worse and worse, resulting in a rapid decline in academic performance and then losing interest in learning.
3. Depressed mood
While proper play is good for the brain, long-term addiction to play can cause children to be depressed, lose confidence in everything, have fewer and fewer friends, and strained relationships.
4. There will be psychological dependence
In the game, their nerves are excited, and unconsciously they will develop psychological dependence on them. If they don't play for a day, they feel uneasy and itchy.
5. Learn about setbacks
As a student, they should focus on learning, but because they are addicted to games and play games for too long, they cannot focus on learning, resulting in poor learning; when they encounter setbacks in learning, children will collapse. It is understood that every year there are bored children, 80% of whom fail the exam because they are addicted to online games and eventually drop out of school.
How should moms and dads treat school-weary children?
1. Mobilize children's interest in learning. Pay attention to the use of different learning methods, for example: the comprehensive use of listening, speaking, reading, writing, to avoid learning time too long to cause children to have psychological boredom. Families with conditions can also cooperate with electronic teaching methods such as audio recording and video recording to improve children's interest in learning.
2. Cultivate children's good learning habits. The formation of good habits of parents for children should start small, and the learning of children can be guided in principle, but it must not be replaced by arrangement, so that children can establish a sense of responsibility and independence in the process of learning.
3. Help children establish correct learning methods. Rational use of time and brain, can not engage in fatigue tactics, to win with quality.
4. Help children establish good relationships with teachers. Develop his ability to interact with children and improve his psychological adaptability to group life. For low-energy children, targeted functional training should be carried out and some special educational methods should be adopted. In this regard, expert guidance should be accepted.
Adolescent children rebellious and tired of school, in fact, this is also the problem that parents basically encounter today, children are better than everything for parents, so the problem of children's boredom must be correctly guided, only under the correct guidance, children can get out of the predicament of school boredom as soon as possible.
The above is the article brought to you today. If parents feel that it is helpful to educate their children, please share it with other friends in need, and we will escort the growth of children together.
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