At present, the term "rich second generation" has always been very popular, and there will certainly be many people who think that family conditions have a huge impact on the future life of children. But in fact, it is not, because no one is born of the rich generation, so if this is the case, then the biggest impact on children is the education of parents. If the father can do the following, even if there is no favorable family conditions, the child will still be able to get ahead when he grows up.
1. Fathers are filial to their parents, grateful to others, and teach children to be grateful.
Why is it not easy to forget the original after the success of Ji Jian? Because his father once said that "filial piety comes first", Ji Jian's grandfather had three sons under his knees, and when his grandfather was still healthy, the eldest and second eldest often walked around. With the increase of age, the old man's health deteriorates, and the eldest and second rarely visit the old man. However, Ji Jian's father did not abandon the old man, took the initiative to take on the heavy responsibility of caring for the old man, and with his father as an example, Ji Jian planted the seed of filial piety in his heart.
If the father can be filial to the parents and grateful to others, the child will naturally follow suit, and with such a spiritual pillar as an example, the child will be more determined in his heart and know how to be grateful. After entering the society, people who help them will express gratitude, and such people are more likely to be welcomed and accepted by others.
2. The father's democratic style cultivates children to have an opinion.
When it comes to raising children to have an opinion, many fathers can't do it, because most of them are "authoritarian and authoritarian". Babe's father is a typical "machismo", not democratic at all, usually encounter decisions, are decided, before being issued to Babe, in the long run, Babe will become a submissive baby.
It is not that the child is not well-behaved, but it is easy to be obedient and have no opinion, and when entering the society in the future, it is likely that a "fork" will cause unlimited trouble to the child. But the father's style of democracy will be different, the child is gradually growing up independently, the father sometimes only provides reference, and will not interfere too much, such a child is decisive and crisp in case of trouble, doing things will not drag mud and water, it is easy to be favored by colleagues or superiors.
3. Fathers often take their children out to see the world and broaden the pattern of their children.
Now when many parents participate in some important occasions, they often feel that their children are "burdensome", leaving their children alone at home, always feeling that their children are still young and do not need to know too many things.
If you want your child to be a little bigger in the future, this is not the right thing to do. Take more children out, see not only the world, but also broaden the child's cognition, enrich the child's world view, so as to raise the child's vision and pattern. Children see more, and when dealing with difficulties in life in the future, they will not be helpless and easier to break through adversity.
4. The father's decent style of handling things improves the child's emotional intelligence.
No one likes to steal and slip people, if the father can be a decent person, the child's emotional intelligence will not be low in the future. Such a father is more fair and upright in handling things, more open-minded and open-minded, more rigorous and disciplined in his work, and his children will follow the father's style of dealing with the world. In the future, children will do things seriously and rigorously, it will be easier to convince everyone when dealing with things, and interpersonal relationships will be more pure and true.
The influence of fathers on children is lifelong, in order for children to have a good future, from now on try to be a good father, and strive to become the "my father" in the child's mouth.