Today there was a news in the custodial campus that 8-year-old Babe had her first car!
Babe's parents divorced last year, the child followed the father, the father was busy with business, and usually the grandparents were taking care of him.
Here's the thing: That day, Grandma Babe took the kids out to play. I was in a hurry to go to the bathroom, but I didn't find a public toilet for half a day. Seeing that there was a 4S shop next to it, I rushed in with my grandson.
"Hello, please borrow the bathroom."
"Oh, over there."
"Thanks, Babe, you're here for a while, don't run around."
After settling in Babe, Grandma hurried to the bathroom. When Grandma Babe returned, she saw that the salesman was playing with Babe.
"Thank you! Let's go, Babe. ”
"I'm not leaving, Grandma, I want this big car!"
Seeing that Bebela would not leave the handlebars, the salesman said, "It's okay, let's let the children play here for a while." So I took Grandma and Babe to the car and went to take care of my own business.
"Girl, come here!"
After a while, Grandma Babe said, "My grandson loves this car so much, I bought it!" ”
"Buy it for him?"
"Hmmm!"
The salesman looked surprised, "The child is so small, how to open it?" ”
Who expected Grandma Babe to say: My grandson likes it, wait for him to open it after 10 years! Go swipe! I'm in a hurry. ”
So, 8-year-old Babe had her first car.
If economic conditions permit, there is nothing wrong with buying some toys for your children. But everything must have a degree. Over the years, I have been in contact with many children, and some families are indeed more substantial, but there are also many parents who are too doting on their children, almost "child slaves", what children say is what they want, what children want to buy, never know how to refuse children's requirements, only know how to blindly meet children. Especially if the family is a child, this situation is even more serious. Of course, there are fewer young parents, and more children brought by grandparents. "Next-generation parents" itself is a good thing, but the way and "degree" of "kissing" must be controlled.
Blind satisfaction, in the end will only make the child habitual into a "solipsistic" look, if one day the child's requirements are not met, he will cry all kinds of noise, and even scold the parents.
Some teachers even ridiculed that fortunately, Babe did not say that he liked the salesman's sister. Of course, this is a joke.
We all love children, but love must be measured, otherwise, children who grow up under coddling will surely suffer a lot of losses when they grow up.
Therefore, I hope that in the process of getting along with their children, parents can not have children in everything, let alone be "child slaves". Because it will affect the formation of children's values and psychological growth, some harm is even a lifetime!