The answer to this question is really not consistent, everyone has their own views, and it is impossible to unify, but when you think about it, this will not be a fixed answer at all, because each of our answers is based on our own experience or imagination.
The word love, which was a prelude to marriage many years ago, has now become synonymous with "enjoyment" for some people. We can often hear people say that they are only willing to fall in love and do not want to get married, because many people think that both parties in love do not need to be responsible, and at this time, the lovers still have a little bit of the heart of the person in charge, after all, they also think that marriage needs to be responsible.
After a long time in love, everyone's state of mind has undergone many changes, and people who struggle in big cities and small cities have changed differently, but in general, they will feel that the man does not earn money and the woman is not gentle. As for those who have just begun to love have been worn down by time, only familiarity and disgust remain, at this time both parties no longer want to get married, because marriage is an endless and sad life for them.
Many of the first loves ended in quarrels, counting the other party's bad, grievances for their own efforts over the years, and then finding another object in this vast sea of people, because we all understand that we need to live, it is impossible to be really lonely for a lifetime, our own life can only last for a while, and after being sad, we need another heart to warm up.
After being injured once, the expectation of the second time is not so high, as for the marriage is never mentioned, because I am afraid that I have not yet seen the other party to enter the palace of marriage, at that time I was not satisfied, I did not know whether I had the courage to divorce, so I still spent this hard time in love.
A person can not only fall in love without marriage, into the marriage is different from love, but no one wants to accept this fact, endless complaints unfold, look at the singles around them envious, look at the people around with children living alone is not bad, how their own comfortable life has become a chicken feather.
After pulling the divorce certificate, I found that life did not become better than I imagined, because the mood was different, the age was different, and the inner thoughts were different, but my heart to pursue things had never changed, so I began to re-examine the marriage, marriage is no longer a responsibility, because I don't take responsibility and there is nothing to start again, although there are many changes, but the people around me are like this.
So more and more people began to be irresponsible, because there is no responsibility, so the simplicity of life makes more people envious. This kind of cycle affects many people, slowly falling in love without responsibility, just for fun, marriage without responsibility, just a transaction. Diet men and women, people's great desires: love is to be happy, after marriage is unimaginable days.