Qidong's good daughter-in-law is "better than her daughter"

Yang Fang and her mother-in-law were interviewed by the media.

34 years ago, her husband died suddenly, in the face of her 4-year-old son and her mother-in-law who suffered a lot from the loss of her husband and son, Yang Fang did not reorganize the family, took the initiative to take on the responsibility of taking care of children and supporting the elderly, and took over the mother-in-law to live together. It is this decades of perseverance, in the village of Tongxing Town, Lvsigang Town, Qidong City, speaking of the good daughter-in-law Yang Fang, the villagers all gave a thumbs up.

Waiting for love is 8 years

When I first met Yang Fang, I felt very kind, although my hair was gray, but when it came to her past with her husband Ni Shanxin, Yang Fang's eyes were full of endless tenderness. She said that she was 19 years old that year, and she was introduced to Ni Shanxin, and the two fell in love at first sight. But Ni Shanxin was not in a hurry to get married, he promised Yang Fang that he would give Yang Fang a happy future, he would continue to work hard to earn money, and when he saved enough money to marry Yang Fang again.

Yang Fang believed in the man in front of her, she held Ni Shanxin's hand and looked at him affectionately: "Shanxin, I wait for you, whether it is one year or five years...", but this wait is eight years. For eight years, Yang Fang rejected multiple people who pursued her and came to the door to talk to the media. In the countryside in the 1950s, Yang Fang was twenty-six or seventeen years old and had not yet married, and she was considered an "old girl". In the face of her parents' anger and complaints, Yang Fang's attitude is very clear, and she will not marry Ni Shanxin in this life. It is her persistence that allows her to "keep the clouds open and see the moon" and harvest her own happiness.

The happiness of the time is always fleeting. In the blink of an eye, Yang Fang has been married to her husband for 6 years, and her lovely child is 4 years old, and the family is kind and loving, and they are happy and harmonious.

Hold up a piece of the sky for your home

However, on a sunny day, Ni Shanxin suddenly fell ill, and in just three months, he died with ten thousand reluctance.

When her husband died, Yang Fangqiang cheered up in the face of her 4-year-old son and her mother-in-law, who was suffering from the loss of her husband and son. At the age of 32, she took her mother-in-law, who was nearly 60 years old, to live with her.

Since then, Yang Fang has shouldered the burden of the whole family, while taking care of the family, while running for her livelihood, no matter how difficult it is, she never complains. Yang Fang tirelessly worked several jobs to support the family, she took care of her mother-in-law as her own mother-in-law, and slept in the same bed with her mother-in-law on weekdays. The mother-in-law said, "My daughter-in-law is even better than my daughter." Although taking care of the elderly is not yang fang's responsibility alone, she believes that brothers and sisters have their own practical difficulties, and they can take care of the elderly, and the family does not have to worry too much.

There is a filial piety in front of the bed

The mother-in-law is older, and her body will inevitably have problems and need to be hospitalized. During this period, in order to let her mother-in-law get better care, Yang Fang gave up her job. She guarded her mother-in-law step by step, feeding her with water and massaging her hands and feet. At night, I am afraid that my mother-in-law is lonely and in a bad mood due to illness, so I sleep with my mother-in-law and nag at home, and I always have to get up several times at night to observe my mother-in-law's breathing in order to sleep peacefully.

When the mother-in-law cannot take care of herself, in order to prevent the mother-in-law from being bedridden for a long time and suffering from pressure sores, Yang Fang insists on bathing or wiping her body every day. The mother-in-law also always looks fresh and tidy, her clothes are washed clean and her hair is neatly combed. Outsiders praise their mother-in-law when they see it, and the mother-in-law always laughs and says, "It's all the credit of the daughter-in-law."

In this way, 34 years after her husband died, Yang Fang was also old. Now she has become a 66-year-old woman, but in Yang Fang's heart, her husband has never left. At the scene of the "Our Festival • Qixi Festival" held in Lvsigang Town last year, Yang Fang once again helped her elderly mother-in-law to the stage. She solemnly promised: "Shanxin, you can rest assured, your mother is my mother, my dearest mother." After saying that, the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law hugged each other tightly, which moved the audience to tears.

Reporter Huang Hai

Zhou Lihui, correspondent of this newspaper

【Source: Jianghai Evening News】

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