Diet Men and Women: Are you satisfied with your own men?

I often listen to women talking about their own men when they are chatting in groups. In speech, there are fewer satisfactions with their own men, and more complaints. To sum up and summarize, there are roughly dissatisfaction in the following aspects: 1, not considerate enough in daily life; 2, not passionate and romantic enough in the feelings of husband and wife; 3, not enough grandfathers at an emergency juncture.

Lo and behold, this is just dissatisfaction, mixed with a lot of loss and disappointment.

Women's disappointment with men stems from expectations. The greater the expectation, the greater the disappointment. (Of course, the same expectations and disappointments men do to women, except that we're only talking about women's feelings today, men's later.) ）

So, from a woman's point of view, shouldn't you expect anything from your own man?

Absolutely! Otherwise, why do you want men? The significance of men to women is extraordinary. Wherever the definition comes from, women have to accept it. The man is the heaven; it is the head; it is the top door bar; it is the top beam; it is the chest of the woman, the arm that she depends on, the partner of a lifetime, the happiness of a lifetime!

Expecting so, it is inevitable to be disappointed.

Women are mostly very emotional animals. Women's expectations and disappointments in men will be refined into a specific matter, which seems childish and ridiculous, but it is fulfilled steadily in life. For example, if a man fails to hand over food or clothing at the right time when a woman feels hungry or cold, the woman will immediately assert: You don't love me! And after this disappointment, it is often remembered in my heart for a long time and refuse to forgive. In fact, men are very aggrieved, hunger and cold are self-aware things, how can others see it, even if that person is his own husband. So in this kind of thing, it is not difficult for women to not be disappointed, directly say their feelings and requirements, "I am hungry, get me some food", or exaggerated to say "I am starving to death...", even if your husband can't cook, it is always possible to go out to the convenience store to buy some food. Just like me, I have a problem with low blood sugar, if I tell my old man that I am hungry, even if there is no ready food at home, he will immediately find a sugar block for me, and even directly help me dig a spoonful of white sugar from the sugar jar and stuff it into my mouth.

To sum up, with your own men, don't complicate simple things.

When it comes to disappointment in men, what is inconsiderate, not romantic, this dissatisfaction problem is not serious, the most likely to disappoint women is the lack of responsibility and responsibility of men. I have a female classmate who said that his grandfathers were not enough grandfathers when he was a child, he had a special classic saying: If a family sends a gun to kill, he must push me out first! (When my classmates said this, laughter broke out every time.) ）

In fact, when it comes to men's responsibilities and responsibilities, it seems that God gave men the characteristics of man when he created man. But both men and women have different personalities, and men have weak personalities; there is no shortage of women. So, it's avoidable to talk about women's disappointments in this regard. If you are a weak character who has to stand unsteadily by relying on men, you must pick a real tough guy when looking for an object. Of course, tough guys are not tough guys are not reflected in muscle blocks, you have to have the unique insight to look directly into the man's inner bones. The needs of the female man in this regard are different, the female man is strong in everything, if you meet a real tough guy, the two people do not beat the human head into a dog's head. The woman opened her mouth to say, "Listen to me right", and act decisively, kill fiercely, and must find a "mother" point man to match it.

In the end, what kind of man you like, only you know. And women are, as long as they like it, they will live and die together with their hearts and lungs. At this time, I want to say a classic experience that I have summed up in my life: want to marry him? Use a magnifying glass to carefully check whether there is anything in this man that you can't tolerate, and if there is, no matter how handsome you look, you must avoid it; if not, get married.

In fact, what we are talking about here is a very complex, many dimensional problems, and it is not possible to discuss it one-sidedly and singlely, because you are changing, and the standard of looking at people may change with the development of the times. When you are young, you may look at the pleasing places and how awkward your children look when they are old, so it is said that tolerance, generosity, patience, love, understanding and consideration are the real ways for husband and wife to get along. Don't complain about your own man, because you also have something that makes him complain and complain, if he doesn't show dissatisfaction with you and still lives quietly with you, you steal the fun.

The truth of complex matters should be explained clearly at multiple levels, and the space is limited, and it is allowed to draw a period in the following paragraph. We also welcome the different opinions and opinions of all literary readers, and discussing such a relationship clearly will benefit more people and families. Why not?