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Which is happier, the children of one-child families and the children of non-one-child families?
Different groups of people have different interpretations of this.
In the eyes of the only child, it is a great happiness that he can enjoy all the love of his parents alone, but when his parents are old and frail and need to be taken care of, it is also a distress without brothers and sisters to discuss and help.
In the eyes of non-only children, although there are many children in the family and the atmosphere is lively, parents will not put all their energy into themselves, especially in the stage of starting a family, and the financial help of parents is also very limited.
Online, the topic of how happy the only child is has always been very popular, and not long ago, a netizen's post pushed this topic to a climax.
In the eyes of this netizen, as an only child, she is very happy, because her parents bought a three-bedroom apartment in their hometown for her as a graduation gift, worth 3 million!
Parents said that this suite can be freely disposed of by her, if you can't stay in the big city and want to go home, then this house can be used as a way out, if you don't want to go back to your hometown for a while, then you can also rent out the house and use the rent to improve your life.
Just when everyone was touched by the girl's parents, a father on the Internet posted a video of himself buying a car to celebrate his daughter's graduation, so that many netizens "sour" complained: The happiness of the only child is still endless?
The father said in the video that his daughter successfully found the job she wanted after graduation, which is a happy event worth celebrating in his own eyes, so in order to facilitate his daughter's future commuting, the father generously gave away a BMW.
Some netizens sighed in the comment area: just work can drive such a good car, worthy of being an only child!
If you have an only child, will you buy a house or a car for your children?
As we all know, if there is only one child in the family, parents are bound to put all their minds on this child.
I don't know when many parents of only children will choose to buy a good house and car for their children when they graduate or after graduation, and these parental behaviors have also made many non-only children envious.
Many parents on the Internet have said that as long as the economic conditions permit, they will do everything they can to reduce the burden on their children.
@ Zhangjiabao: My family is an only daughter, when she was a freshman, I bought her an 80-square-meter house in the city, a child, her parents will give her the best.
@ Daddy Ayu: Didn't buy a house, but ready to buy a car for his son, if he needs a house, we can sell a set to pay him a down payment, we are basically only children after 60, materially will not treat children badly.
@ Mr. Bad: I have 5 people in the college dormitory, 3 are only children, the only child is better than the non-only child family conditions, after graduation will not worry about the house, so I am not ready to have a second child.
Is an only child necessarily happier than a non-only child?
When the gap between the rich and the poor has not widened, from the economic basis, most of the one-child families are stronger than the non-one-child families, which also leads to the one-child families in bringing children more energy and financial resources than the non-single families.
Sufficient material conditions and parental care have enabled only children to obtain a superior sense of happiness, and many people have not suffered any hardships in the process of growing up, nor have the troubles of siblings quarreling and disagreement.
But does this prove that only children must be happier than non-only children?
The answer is clearly uncertain.
People's life is very long, everyone's interpretation of happiness is also different, although many only children think that they will have a smooth life, but there are also many examples of parents around us who are sick at the same time, and the only child is anxious and helpless.
In non-one-child families, some children may not be able to get all the love of their parents, but they also become more independent and responsible during their growth, and they can better appreciate the hardships of their parents.
A mature, filial and capable child is naturally a happy child.
Therefore, only children and non-only children should not form a confrontation, they just choose two different paths, and the end of the two roads will be the end of happiness.
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