The eldest husband is determined to be in all directions, how can he be blinded by the love of his children? In the process of communicating with friends and readers around her, Chestnut has summed up 3 secrets of staying single, and the old iron that does not want to take off the single must look good and carry out the single to the end!
Don't socialize
If you want to stay single, don't take the initiative to contact girls. As long as you don't go out of the door, the second door is not moving, and you concentrate on playing games and watching TV at home, you can naturally reduce the risk of taking off the order. Of course, don't have anything to do with them when you're online. Even if you have a pleasant chat under a certain piece of news, it is comparable to the mountain flowing water meeting the acquaintance. Don't exchange contact information, after all, online dating is not impossible.
What the? You always have to contact girls in life and work, right? Quite simply, just keep the simplest relationship. Colleagues only talk about work, not about anything else. If she wants to joke with you to get closer, just make a perfunctory sound. The team building dinner is even simpler, others talk and laugh, and you focus on cooking.
Hilarity and love are theirs, and what does it have to do with you? In addition, the friends around you are best the same as you, just know a few girls, not yet familiar. After all, people are floating in the rivers and lakes, how can they not socialize? If you meet a buddy with a large social circle who is also keen to introduce you to objects and give advice, won't your 100-year single plan fail?
Don't underestimate their combat effectiveness, if you just recommend a girl who is very suitable for you, then you are likely to make God talk about sweet love. Believe me, adding laziness on the basis of the house, coupled with the social circle full of single color, the possibility of you taking off the single is directly reduced by half.
Don't try
Although you don't take the initiative, what if there is an enthusiastic and positive girl in your world? She finds the sparkle in you, is attracted to you, and tries to get your attention. Although you also like her a little, if you respond to her, you will most likely be involuntarily involved in the vortex of love.
Fortunately, as long as you stay in the comfort zone of being single long enough, it is not a problem at all to cope with this situation. The safest way to stay single is to nip love in the bud and not be delayed by brave and enthusiastic girls for your high-quality singleness. Moreover, this will not expose the shortcomings of you who will only talk awkwardly and do not understand ambiguity. It doesn't matter if you are moved, just hold back. When she doesn't like you, you can be glad you dodged Cupid's attack again.
Do not promote
It's easy to be single for a while, but the hard thing is to stick to being single for a lifetime. After all, even the ugly green beans are also favored by Wang Ba, even if you feel that you are ugly and safe, there are always people who don't look at their faces. At this time, you need to learn the finale skills of staying single. That is: stay put and don't elevate yourself.
This will not only allow you to remain single now, but also in the future. Even without you deliberately keeping, being single will always follow you. Especially as time goes on, your youth is depreciating, your love intelligence is deteriorating, and you can't even understand what girls are thinking and liking. Congratulations, at this time, even if you are shaken and want to get off the order, you will not meet the right object. When you meet, you will be successfully screwed up, and you will be one step closer to loneliness.
Write in the last words
Being single is not accidental, and no one can be single casually. Have you learned?
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Author | Yellow chestnut Ye
Consultant of the First Psychological Writing Group | Senior Emotional Mentor | Best-selling columnist on the internet