Recently, the blood pressure chased by the drama is unstable!
I don't know if you are chasing "Xiao MinJia", from the beginning, what I am looking forward to is a warm, slow-paced, pyrotechnic drama that interprets the feelings of middle age, so that the mood can relax.
Coupled with the favorite actor Zhou Xun playing Liu Xiaomin and Huang Lei playing Feng Zhuo, everything was normal at first, until Liu Xiaomin's sister Liu Xiaojie met a man named Xu Zheng.
Watching Liu Xiaojie's love affair, it is simply too terrible, it can be said that Xu Zheng's love for Liu Xiaomin is full of a strong desire to control, and Liu Xiaojie is also willing to be controlled, here is a little touch to share.
Liu Xiaojie is really a love brain
Liu Xiaojie was quite normal at first, and later after meeting Xu Zheng, she was a bit "random flowers and gradually charming eyes", and she couldn't see clearly what she wanted, what kind of feelings, what kind of men, and what kind of life.
Liu Xiaojie's first relationship ended in failure, the lesson given to her by Ma Baonan did not make her really sober, but here is a point that is particularly important, when with her ex-husband, her ex-husband does not care much about Liu Xiaojie, purely a ma Bao man, the mouth is "what my mother said", without the slightest concern for Liu Xiaojie's feelings.
And Xu Zheng and Liu Xiaojie's ex-husband is just the opposite, Xu Zheng is very concerned about Liu Xiaojie, from the beginning of her foot, he appeared in front of her "accidentally" again and again, took the initiative to ask Miao to send her home, sent to the door of the community is not counted, but also sent to the home. And actively confess.
All this makes Liu Xiaojie, who failed in the first marriage, see that Xu Zheng has satisfied her re-expectations for love, and her love brain has restarted, ready to harvest a perfect love.
Unexpectedly, Xu Zheng, who had been brainwashing her, was the most terrifying person.
Brainwashed apologies
Do you remember this line in the play: How can you not control me before, but now you are my fiancée, we are about to get a license, you are so close to other men, are you worthy of me? Liu Xiaojie?
The background of this line is that Liu Xiaojie went to a class reunion and took a group photo with his classmates after the party, but Xu Zheng's brain was not normal, he drove madly and crashed in the case of complete loss of sanity.
What is "Are you worthy of me, Liu Xiaojie?" "Can't you go to a class reunion when you're in love?" Can't the opposite sex communicate within the limits? Not to mention the presence of female students.
People who can't control their emotions are the most terrible.
At this time, although Liu Xiaojie was frightened by the crazy Xu Zheng, she did not find anything wrong, only that the other party cared too much about herself.
And Xu Zheng's immediately following petty apology made Liu Xiaojie relax his vigilance against Xu Zheng, please see how the man with controlling desire apologizes:
Sorry, sorry, sorry, sorry, I shouldn't have yelled at you. I don't know what nerves I had at the time, how could I yell at you? Forgive me, okay? I don't let go, I don't let go, don't you get angry okay? If you are really angry, you will hit me, you will beat me hard, you will beat me to death, you will beat me to death.
Hugging, apologizing, Liu Xiaojie was completely immersed in Xu Zheng's "love" and could not extricate himself.
At this time, Xu Zheng took out the ring and proposed: Is it good? Like it or not? I'll give it a try. It's so good-looking, how can it be so good-looking? Because people look good, and their hands look good, it's just perfect.
This time apologizing, Xu Zheng explained his crazy irrational behavior this way: Everything I do is because I care about you. You should understand, right?
Liu Xiaojie, under Xu Zheng's repeated brainwashing, thinks that Xu Zheng is true love for himself, as Xu Zheng said, he cares too much about her, which is why so many things have happened.
Liu Xiaojie, the love brain, was so impulsive that he married Xu Zheng with a license.
Mind control
After successfully obtaining the certificate, Xu Zheng began to control his wife Liu Xiaojie's mind.
In order to implement the mental control of Liu Xiaojie, Xu Zheng's love for Liu Xiaojie has reached the level of 360 degrees without dead angles. For example, transporting Liu Xiaojie to and from work, sending diamond rings and flowers are often expensive gifts, and even sending gifts to Liu Xiaojie's nephew.
And Xu Zheng's dedication is also the prelude to his mental control of his wife, he just wants Liu Xiaojie to remember that he has paid a lot for her and for her family. That's the point.
Therefore, when Liu Xiaojie added the contact information of a male author, Xu Zheng turned his face again and roared angrily:
Xu Zheng roared angrily this time, not only did not let Liu Xiaojie realize the terrible nature of the emotions between them, but "confessed to the mistake", because Xu Zheng's brainwashing on her made her successfully think: I am a divorced woman, why should I not cherish him, why should I hurt him, why should I be wrong again and again?
Therefore, Liu Xiaojie said to Xu Zheng, "I'm sorry." It's like making the audience's lungs explode! I really don't understand, Liu Xiaojie, what is wrong with you? Why apologize?
The truth is that Liu Xiaojie apologized, in the case that she was completely at fault. It can be seen how terrible it is to be mentally controlled.
Paranoid love
Xu Zheng's love for Liu Xiaojie is completely paranoid and crazy.
For example, all kinds of jealousy are not said, the most terrible thing is that Xu Zheng found That Youfeng's business card on the car, and even began to imprison Liu Xiaojie and give her medicine.
It was only after this incident that Liu Xiaojie was slightly sober and felt that Xu Zheng's love for her was not "control".
Control is a term in psychology that refers to absolute domination over a certain thing, or a certain degree of absolute domination by a person, and does not allow accidents or other mistakes, otherwise it will feel lost or angry.
Excessive desire for control in feelings is actually a kind of lock on the other party in the name of love, and when the controlled party is coerced by this feeling, it will think that it is wrong to do everything to please the party that caters to the control.
I have to say that Fan Shizheng's grasp of the role of Xu Zheng is still very good. It is said that when Fan Shizheng took over this role, the reason was because this role was very "tea".
We follow the drama to see the plot, but because Fan Shizheng acted too well, many viewers were so angry that their teeth were itching, and even people could think of Xu Zheng's suffocating love in the play as soon as they closed their eyes.
Fortunately, Fan Shizheng himself also came out to shout:
How terrifying is Xu Zheng's love in "Little Min Family"! Polish your eyes, be sure to say loudly to Xu Zheng!