Wang Zhiwen, a powerful actor who speaks with his acting skills.
He has no handsome appearance, nor does he have a strong background relationship, with an "ugly" face and textbook acting skills, he has worked hard in the show business circle for many years, and now he is respected by many first-line popular stars as a "teacher" and "predecessor".
Although he is not good-looking, he has a distinct personality and flamboyant personality, and he exudes a unique charm, which not only attracts many fans, but also attracts many "national goddesses" of the same era.
However, he was free and uninhibited, but at the age of 42, he suddenly chose to enter the palace of marriage.
Originally, everyone thought that his marriage would not last long, and no one expected that he really transformed from a free and uninhibited prodigal son into a "good husband" and "good father", willing to give everything for the family.
1. Early bereavement of parents is the only reliance
In 1966, Wang Zhiwen was born in Shanghai, his parents were ordinary workers, three brothers, Wang Zhiwen ranked the oldest.
Although the family conditions are average, the family atmosphere is also very "artistic".
According to Wang Zhiwen's recollection in a later interview, his father often took him out to watch movies when he was very young.
In the 70s, ordinary people rarely went to the cinema to watch movies. Perhaps it is also because of the reason that he was influenced by art since he was a child, and later Wang Zhiwen also formed an indissoluble relationship with his acting career.
The family lived simply like this, although there was no money, but there was no shortage of food and clothing.
However, when Wang Zhiwen was 13 years old, a car accident directly changed the fate of this small Family in Shanghai.
The father was killed in a car accident, which was undoubtedly fatal to the family.
For a long time, in Wang Zhiwen's eyes, his father was the image of the top pillar at home, when he and his two brothers were still studying, and the sudden death of his father, leaving only his mother Liu Jingxian to pick up the burden of the family.
Liu Jingxian's monthly salary is only more than 30 yuan, which is not only to bear the tuition and miscellaneous expenses of the three children, but also to bear the daily expenses of the family such as grocery shopping, water and electricity, purchasing clothes and daily necessities.
But Shanghainese people pay attention to the word "exquisite" in their lives. Although there is no money, it is also necessary to live a decent life.
In the eyes of outsiders, the clothes worn by the third member of the Wang Zhiwen brothers are always clean, just like the new ones.
But only Wang Zhiwen himself knew that this was all saved by his mother, and it was his mother who did not know how many nights he stayed up, and repaired them with a needle and a thread.
Seeing his mother work so hard, Wang Zhiwen was more grateful than sad.
In front of his mother, he has always been very sensible, knowing that his mother loves to eat hairy crabs, but after his father left, his mother never ate it again.
So he was in his second year of junior high school, and every day he used his spare time to pick up waste products everywhere to sell money. He took the money he had saved from scraps to go to the market and buy a hairy crab to go home to his mother to eat.
When Liu Jingxian saw Wang Zhiwen, who was so filial and sensible, she couldn't help but be moved to tears.
Perhaps because of the family change, Wang Zhiwen's personality is very introverted, not very good at talking or talking. So he didn't have any friends at school and was always a maverick.
Even in terms of learning, he is also free and casual, he likes to learn very seriously in the subjects he likes, and he does not like to listen to lectures and likes to desert, which also leads to his serious partiality.
However, he also has advantages. Learning is not good, but has artistic cells. Throughout his high school years, he has been the backbone of the school's literature and art.
Although the teacher reminded Wang Zhiwen's mother many times that Wang Zhiwen's results in cultural classes were not ideal, his mother always had a "free-range" education for Wang Zhiwen, and not only was he not more strict with him, but he was laissez-faire and chased what he liked.
The mother's education method also directly affected the character development of Wang Zhiwen in the later period, even after becoming famous, Wang Zhiwen is still one of the few self-sufficiency in the entertainment industry, with great personality.
The time flew to the college entrance examination, and Wang Zhiwen only wanted to apply for the Beijing Film Academy.
But unfortunately, the Beijing Film Academy did not set up a professional examination center in Shanghai that year, which meant that Wang Zhiwen could only travel thousands of miles to Chengdu to take the exam.
This made the mother difficult, not because of the distance, but because the cost of food and accommodation during the exam was several hundred yuan, which was beyond the scope of the mother's ability to bear.
In order to support Wang Zhiwen's ideals, her mother had to go forward hard no matter how difficult it was. She began to ask people to borrow money, and finally asked relatives and friends to borrow it again and again, but it was still not enough.
There was no way, he had to lick his face and go to the teacher to see if the teacher had any acquaintances in Chengdu.
Finally, at the behest of his mother, the teacher promised to let Wang Zhiwen live in his relatives' house in Chengdu, so that he would save a lot of accommodation expenses.
In the end, Wang Zhiwen successfully participated in the art examination and achieved good results. But during the college entrance examination, there was an accident - he was in a car accident and could not get out of bed.
However, Wang Zhiwen was unwilling to admit his fate, and he actively coordinated with relevant departments to successfully participate in the college entrance examination. In the end, Wang Zhiwen also lived up to his mother's wishes and was admitted to the acting department of the Beijing Film Academy with excellent results.
2. Exquisite acting skills are "unique" in the show business circle
The Beijing Film Academy is a gathering place for handsome men and beautiful women, and Wang Zhiwen, who is not outstanding in appearance and is skinny, looks very "passerby".
Knowing that he could not eat by the face, Wang Zhiwen put all his time and energy into the study of professional classes.
In this way, in the four years of college, Wang Zhiwen continued to consolidate his professional knowledge, laying a solid foundation for his future involvement in the show business circle.
Near graduation, Wang Zhiwen received an invitation from a director to express his hope that he would star in the male number one of his films. This can make Wang Zhiwen very happy, first, he has never made a movie before this; second, if he can have his own masterpiece before graduation, it will be a very good starting point for his future acting career.
Soon the film began to shoot, Wang Zhiwen filmed very seriously every day, but did not expect that one day the director found him and said that he could not act, and his own image personality was not suitable for this role at all.
This "dismissal" incident hit Wang Zhiwen, who has always been arrogant and dashing, and he was very depressed.
When his mother saw him like this, she was worried in her heart, so she advised him: "When others deny you, you should reflect on whether you really have this problem, you are still young, you may not have found your own position, but I know that you are powerful, and you will definitely become a good actor." ”
His mother's words were earnest and reasonable, and later Wang Zhiwen did not cling to this matter anymore.
In 1988, Wang Zhiwen successfully graduated. After graduation, he accepted the assignment of the school and entered the Art Research Institute of the Central Academy of Drama.
Perhaps Huangtian does not live up to the painstaking people, or perhaps it is the operation of the times, working in the Art Research Institute of the Central Academy of Drama for just two years, successively starring in many film and television dramas such as "Imperial City Root" and "Addiction", and also won the Chinese Television "Golden Eagle" Award for Best Supporting Actor Award, "Feitian" Award for Best Actor Award and other awards. The original hairy boy became a popular star.
Wang Zhiwen also began to shoot dramas and catch announcements all over the country, and rarely went home. Although the mother missed this young son, in order to let him work with peace of mind, she did not even say a word to Wang Zhiwen when she was sick and could not get out of bed.
Afterwards, Wang Zhiwen's brother told him that if he was busy or go home to see more, Wang Zhiwen realized that his mother, who had pulled himself up hard, and his mother, whose sideburns had long been white, had been ignored by himself in recent years.
Therefore, Wang Zhiwen began to streamline his work, try not to participate in non-essential activities without participating, and fly back to Shanghai to accompany his mother as soon as he had time, even if it was just a simple meal, or sitting quietly, it was good. Therefore, the fact that Wang Zhiwen was a "great filial piety" gradually spread.
Being a mother will always have an unfinished heart. Watching her son slowly grow into an adult, come out, and now filial piety, the only thing that makes the mother uneasy is the son's lifelong event.
Wang Zhiwen, who has been nearly confused, although he is already a veteran artist in the show business circle, has not started a family for a long time.
In fact, Wang Zhiwen also had some scandals and love histories in his early years.
Don't look at Wang Zhiwen's bad looks, but the people who cooperate with him are goddess-level figures, and his previous girlfriends are all big beauties.
Pan Jie, Xu Qing, Xu Fan, these female stars, at that time in the entertainment industry was also famous, it is conceivable how high Wang Zhiwen's talent is, how much charm.
Fate and fate, there must be a share.
Unfortunately, in the end, they also failed to blossom with Wang Zhiwen for various reasons, and could only become predecessors.
3. Marry your girlfriend Fengzi in a year that you are not confused
Liu Jingxian looked at her son who was 40 years old and had no intention of getting married, and she was in a hurry. It seems that Wang Zhiwen is out of tune, "random flowers are gradually charming eyes", in fact, he already has his own plans in mind.
Since childhood, he has experienced family changes, and it is his mother who is reluctant to eat and wear clothes to raise their brothers and three people, and as a "great filial piety", he naturally has to take care of his mother's old age after his own success.
Therefore, in his eyes, the wife must not only like herself, but also her mother; not only to love herself, but also to love her mother.
Originally, he wanted to go with the flow, but seeing that his mother was more anxious than himself, he realized that he was 40 years old and still let his mother worry about himself. In order to reassure his mother, he had the idea of settling down for the first time.
In 2007, under the introduction of friends, Chen Jianhong entered Wang Zhiwen's life. In the early years, Chen Jianhong was actually an insider, and she debuted as a model, and she also dabbled in the show business circle with her good face and temperament, and there were many classic masterpieces such as "Flying Dance", "Years Like Songs", "Love Letters" and so on.
However, Chen Jianhong did not float in the entertainment industry for too long, and later she began to fade out of the entertainment circle to devote herself to business, serving as a sales manager of a foreign car in Shanghai, China, with a good income for a year, becoming a successful professional woman in the eyes of many people.
When I met Wang Zhiwen, she was 33 years old, and she was also a person who had a headache in the eyes of her parents. The two have the same "goal" and can talk very well after a period of time together, so they naturally talk about love.
In the process of interacting with Chen Jianhong, Wang Zhiwen knew that she was also a very filial girl like herself, and also put out her family situation and interrogation, and learned that Chen Jianhong did not mind, Wang Zhiwen put her heart at ease and threw herself into this feeling.
A big star with superb acting skills, an elite woman in the workplace, the combination of the two is definitely a strong combination. When Chen Jianhong's parents learned that their daughter's love object was Wang Zhiwen, they began to hesitate.
Wang Zhiwen is a well-known big star, and the film and television drama he starred in Chen Jianhong's parents have also seen, and the media reports on Wang Zhiwen have also been understood.
Wang Zhiwen's personality has always belonged to a relatively straightforward and what to say, so he has also offended many people in the entertainment industry, and many reporters have reported on him negatively.
Parents worry that their daughters will not be happy with such people. Chen Jianhong also had a long conversation with his parents in this regard, saying that Wang Zhiwen is indeed a person with personality, but he will never lose his measure, and media reports are sometimes exaggerated in order to attract people's attention, and they cannot all be taken seriously.
Watching their daughter defend Wang Zhiwen so much and defend him, they knew that their daughter really loved this man and could only agree to their relationship first. But the premise is that I hope to meet wang Zhiwen officially, and the second elder is good to check in advance.
Before meeting, Wang Zhiwen also showed great nervousness, or Chen Jianhong comforted him, don't have too much psychological pressure, let him be the most authentic self, parents will like him.
In this way, with Chen Jianhong's encouragement, he went to see his parents for the first time. Chen Jianhong's parents are intellectuals, and although wang Zhiwen also had many doubts in his heart when he first met him, he still talked to Wang Zhiwen very politely and explained his worries and doubts one by one, and Wang Zhiwen also patiently explained and answered one by one, politely with respect.
Wang Zhiwen's nurturing and authenticity made Chen Jianhong's parents feel that he was a reliable person, and the first meeting was a successful end.
Unlike Chen Jianhong's parents, Wang Zhiwen's mother liked this "daughter-in-law" at first glance, thinking that Chen Jianhong was beautiful, tall, polite, and a very good girl, and repeatedly told Wang Zhiwen to grasp it well.
In April 2008, 42-year-old Wang Zhiwen and Chen Jianhong married Fengzi in Shanghai. As soon as the news came out, the entire entertainment circle boiled over.
Some people say that Wang Zhiwen, who was once wild and unruly, finally found the other half who was willing to let him give up his freedom; others said that Wang Zhiwen, who had a lonely and arrogant personality, only chose to marry because the woman was pregnant and forced by pressure.
4. Being good to your wife is the greatest "filial piety"
In August of the same year, the couple's son was born. The arrival of this little life has added a lot of hilarity to the family, but also added a lot of "small contradictions".
Wang Zhiwen is free and accustomed, can't stand the constraints of the family at all, and rarely participates in the trivial affairs of the family, which makes the stay-at-home mother Chen Jianhong feel very uncomfortable.
Even big stars can't escape the "mother-in-law problem". Due to the different family environments over the years, the lifestyles and education methods of mother-in-law Liu Jingxian and Chen Jianhong are also very different, which directly leads to small problems between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.
Wang Zhiwen, who was originally a "great filial piety", has always advised his wife to be more tolerant. Over time, Chen Jianhong also felt very aggrieved.
In the homes of ordinary people, the arrival of children is a happy thing, but here in Wang Zhiwen, it has become a "headache".
Until Chen Jianhong had a conversation with Wang Zhiwen. She said to Wang Zhiwen: "If you marry me and don't feel happy, I will leave with my son and never bother you again." You go and find your own happiness, I don't blame you. ”
Hearing his wife's words, Wang Zhiwen realized how wrong he had been before.
He actually knows very well in his heart that his wife loves himself and this family, and his wife has been paying for this family since marriage, and he is the one who has not changed and enjoyed his success.
Remembering the vows he took when he got married, remembering his commitment to his in-laws, at this moment, Wang Zhiwen was completely mature.
He began to stop running away and chose to face the responsibilities and obligations that he should bear as a son, son-in-law, husband, and father.
Originally, his mother's health has not been very good, and it is also to avoid family conflicts, Wang Zhiwen simply took his father-in-law and mother-in-law to his home to take care of Chen Jianhong and the child.
Married is a family, Chen father and mother Chen are not outside, and Wang Zhiwen is treated like his own son. At home, clean the housework and cook for them with children.
In order not to affect Wang Zhiwen's career, they also let Wang Zhiwen go out to work with confidence and not have worries, "There is still me and your mother at home!" ”
With the words of his parents-in-law, Wang Zhiwen can go out to film and earn money with peace of mind.
Every time he came back from filming, the home was well taken care of by his parents-in-law, his wife's nagging was less, and looking at the child's angelic smile, he finally felt the warmth of home.
Wang Zhiwen is by no means a person with high emotional intelligence, in order to thank his parents-in-law, he began to directly "give money", but he was always rejected by his parents-in-law.
Wang Zhiwen saw the efforts of his parents-in-law in his eyes, moved in his heart, and secretly resolved in his heart that he must be good to the second elder in the future, and he should be filial to his parents-in-law like filial piety to his mother.
Since then, Wang Zhiwen has also learned to be flexible, and since his parents-in-law refuse to accept money, he will change his ways.
As soon as he had time, he took his parents-in-law and mother on a trip, bought insurance for the elderly, and every year they would take time to come back to spend their birthdays with them.
In order to ease the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, he was willing to be the "conciliator" in the middle, and he often bought gifts for his wife in the name of his mother, and then bought gifts in the name of his wife to give to his mother.
Over time, the mother and wife also learned to understand and understand each other.
In addition, his biggest change is to become more and more family-oriented, more and more diligent.
He had never done housework before, but now he washes clothes, does housework, takes care of children, cooks, and he begins to help his wife share it himself, and all the money he earns is handed over to his wife. Even the outside media was amazed at Wang Zhiwen's changes.
Now, they have been married for 13 years, the couple's relationship has always been stable, and Wang Zhiwen has never had a scandal or marriage change.
Even in the face of the media, he does not hide his happiness at all, and occasionally shows homesickness in interviews. After getting married and having children, Wang Zhiwen has indeed become more and more mature.
Under the nourishment of married life, Wang Zhiwen's personality has also converged a lot, no longer like when he was young, "needle point to Mai Mang", he gradually put away his personality, once "personality", "great filial piety", "strength faction", etc. are the labels under his star aura, and now there are more "love wife" and "good father" two labels.
Now he, just like the role he played in "Big Husband", has a son in middle age, from the initial discomfort to the final learning to cherish.
Times have passed, and those who did not look favorably on him at the beginning are now battling their faces. Many people are curious as to why Wang Zhiwen has changed so much after getting married.
He is a "great filial piety", since he has become a family, he naturally has to shoulder the responsibility of the family on his shoulders, not only to his mother, but also to his parents-in-law who treat him as a son, and his wife who is dedicated to paying for himself.
In his words, "Being good to your wife is the greatest filial piety to your parents-in-law."
He is more than half a hundred years old, and he can still often see his figure on the screen. "Big Husband", "Rebel" and so on are also good dramas with good reputation in recent years.
As for his personal life, I hope he can continue to be as happy as he is now.