Newborn babies will have an innate sense of dependence on their mothers, and their personality, language and behavior will have a greater impact on their children than other relatives.
Just like many children are docile and humble from an early age, the mother at home will generally be a reasonable personality.
Compared with some children, they are lonely and procrastinating, and their mothers often accuse him of disobedience and too many bad problems, but they have never reflected on their own problems.
In fact, the children in each family are a mirror of their parents, and they can always invisibly reflect some family problems or problems in their parents.
Moms who have the following two situations need special attention:
The mother of an acute child
In real life, many mothers are easy to be impatient and always urge their children.
In fact, every parent wants to accompany the child to grow up slowly, but the general impetuosity and quick success in the society itself have aggravated the anxiety in the hearts of the mothers.
I didn't dare to fall behind, for fear of not being able to catch up with other children. So I often hear this kind of conversation:
Bao Mom asked: Did you get up? The baby always answers "not yet" without hesitation.
Bao Mom urged: Hurry up and write your homework! The baby always replies "got it".
In this way, it seems that bao mom is urging her child to do this and that every day, and she is still thinking that the child is delaying time.
However, in the baby's world, he wants to complete it quickly, but he can't do it. Because the baby is in the process of growth and development, many nerves and muscles have not yet fully matured, and the coordination and cooperation of the body are not very high.
So when doing some things, it will be very difficult, such as: dressing, tying shoelaces, holding chopsticks...
Therefore, parents do not need to urge their children too much, otherwise they will make their children question their own mobility, thus becoming inferior, anxious, and caught in a dead cycle of their own problems.
A mother at home and addicted to the Internet
There are many female friends in such a situation, it is very hard to work during the day, and they do not go out at home on weekends, chasing dramas, ordering takeaways, and spending two days of vacation. After giving birth to a baby, this habit is also difficult to correct.
I don't take my baby out to play on weekends, and I hide at home with my baby to watch TV and watch my phone.
Children have no opportunity to contact the outside world, can not meet new friends, over time, the child's personality will become withdrawn, introverted, do not like to communicate with people.
In order to prevent this from happening, parents need to do the following:
1. Patiently accompany the child
Raising children requires enough patience and perseverance. And children can only grow and develop freely and happily in their own comfortable rhythm.
Parents do not need to be too impatient, the more urgent the problem, so be sure to have enough patience and perseverance.
2. Cultivate children's concept of time
You can cultivate the concept of time for your child in your daily life, such as making a daily schedule with your child.
In this way, the child will be mentally prepared in advance and know what to do at what time. Gradually, the concept of time will be integrated into daily habits.
3. Take more children to exercise and cultivate hobbies
Children are in a period of rapid development, and more exercise is conducive to good health.
Whether it is swimming or taekwondo, or dancing, cultivate more hobbies for children, which is not only good for the body, but also increases the child's opportunity to communicate with the outside world, and learn to express and communicate with people.
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