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After the implementation of the "double reduction" policy, many students' learning and life have undergone great changes. In the past, when children were on vacation, parents would always arrange after-school tutoring classes for their children. Many parents themselves are not highly educated, but they have always expected their children to learn more, go to a good school in the future, and graduate to find a less hard job. Today's children can't make up classes outside, but things may not be as bad as we think.
The original intention of parents' education is simple and full of beauty. However, after the original intention collides with many things in the outside world, we often lose our original intention. What is your child learning for? Is it really about competing with other people? In fact, learning is not only to get into a good school, but to better understand the world. When others express their views, we can distinguish between right and wrong and live more thoroughly. At the same time, we can become a person with a sound personality, whether it is physical quality or psychological quality can be at a normal level.
Looking back on the past few years, many students who have graduated from colleges and universities always have various problems. Many of them have excellent academic performance, but the final path is jaw-dropping, and the reflection behind this is that we, who value grades and despise psychological education, may be the mastermind of promoting children to become executioners.
It is often said, "Parents are role models for children." "If something goes wrong with the child, then you need to see what happened to the parents' original."
Ten years of hard reading in the cold window is not only a great time spent on children, but also inseparable from the parents who silently pay and wait for their children.
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Parents should also learn to maintain lifelong learning, and maintain hard work and endurance in the face of difficulties
Parents are the roots, children are the branches. Only if the roots are deep enough can they flourish.
Once a parent, I will care for my children for life. Every parent cares about their children, but not everyone is educated in the right way. At different ages, parents need to learn how to communicate reasonably with children, enter the child's heart, understand what the child thinks, and better guide the child to grow up healthily.
Parents are the guides on the road to children's growth, only by constantly digging their roots deeper, can children have unlimited motivation to move forward; the stronger the parents, the smoother the child's growth path can go. This requires our parents to maintain a lifelong learning heart, and at the same time, in the face of difficulties, we must also show enough tenacious hard work and endurance.
When children are young, they are not very secure, but because they know that they have parents who love them deeply, they are not afraid of anything. Only children who grow up under the guidance of correct love can have a confident, sunny and cheerful good personality when they grow up, and such children also know how to love and express love, and they can not only grow up in the sun, but also counterattack in the wind and rain.
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Thinking more empathetically, children are more spiritual than adults
In the past, I used to pass by a residential building, and the occupants of the upper floor would help their children with their homework every week, but she would scold her children every time: "Why are you so stupid, you can't teach it all the time." "I don't know what kind of mentality this parent is out of, to his own children, so recklessly speaking."
This kind of education not only can not help children improve their academic performance, but will make children feel afraid when they mention learning.
Many times as adults, after being said twice, we are very uncomfortable in our hearts, let alone children whose minds are not yet mature? This simple and rough way may have a sense of urgency for parents to improve their children's grades, and also a sense of helplessness of "hating iron is not steel", but this kind of education method is really easy to lead children to the other extreme.
The correct approach should be carefully analyzed: why does the child keep doing the same problem wrong, is the topic not possible to read? Or is the solution to the problem confusing?
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Be a sunny, enlightened parent, let your child grow up in the sun, and run without fear of wind and rain
On the road of life, there will always be all kinds of stumbling things. We were also once children, and we also longed in our hearts that our parents would treat us well and love us. If you are fortunate enough to be a parent of your child, I hope that we can all be sunny and enlightened.
Many parents may scoff: "Speaking lightly, there are so many busy things in normal times, who is in a good mood to slowly preach to their children, who can still be sunny and enlightened?" ”
I think we have been busy for most of our lives, for what? Isn't it for the sake of wishing you a good life? Isn't it just to hope that the children's future can embrace more beauty?
In order for children to have a good character, grow up healthy and strong. The author hopes that parents can face our children with a more amiable attitude in their busy schedules. When there is a disagreement with the child, instead of blindly saying his own point of view, forcing everything to the child, you must learn to listen to the child's ideas, otherwise you will act willfully and eventually accept the consequences of the opposite.
Conclusion: The emergence of "double subtraction" may be so that we can find the original intention of education: not only to focus on conclusions, but also to pay attention to every process of children's learning and growth. If parents also learn to maintain the heart of lifelong learning, children will certainly fall in love with learning under our ears; parents learn to think differently, our children can live a sufficiently transparent; try to be a sunny and enlightened parent, the child will let you harvest unexpected growth surprises.
Thank you readers for reading "Teacher He's Educational Notes", let us jointly guard a pure land, be the guide on the road to children's growth, so that children can grow up happily and happily as our pride tomorrow.