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The author 丨 Xi Dynasty
From January 1, 2022, the Law of the People's Republic of China on the Promotion of Family Education came into force.
This means that family education has "laws to follow" from now on;
After the implementation of the double reduction, parents can no longer be "hand-throwing treasurers".
Every parent must be aware that:
No matter what era, no matter what the policy is, no matter the difference between rich and poor, raising your own children is the top priority for a family.
After the double reduction, the school will continue to reduce the burden, and the off-campus training institutions will gradually withdraw, and the importance of family education will be more prominent!
We often say that behind every excellent child is the efforts of parents. On the road of children's growth, it is inseparable from the education of parents.
The more "double subtraction", the more parents need to pay more energy! Adhere to the "four undiminished" and do a good job as the "first responsible person" for children.
"Double subtraction" does not reduce the responsibility of parents
As the saying goes, parents are a child's first teacher, and the family is the most important school for a child.
When external educational resources become limited, the growth of a child depends almost on the education of parents.
After the "double reduction", family education should be "made up" in time.
Parents' cognition should be improved.
Double reduction, reduce the child's pressure and burden, do not reduce the responsibility of parents.
After the double reduction, the gap between children will be widened, and future education will also be stratified for society.
Parents really have to grow up, keep up with the pace of the times, have an epiphany about the nature of double subtraction, and plan for their children in advance.
Parental responsibilities cannot be diminished.
Parenting, no matter how much money you make, you can't afford to lose your child for a year.
Educating children can not only be a simple financial investment, but also requires a lot of time, energy, emotion, intelligence, companionship, learning, and communication investment.
Children's academic constraints are loosened, which is a great test for parents, and they must fulfill the responsibilities of companionship, management and supervision.
Parents' education should be comprehensive.
Education can not rely on teachers alone, family education is also very important.
After the double subtraction, parents can no longer be only on the score theory, but must find ways to improve the comprehensive quality of their children, cultivate their children's independent personality, free thinking, innovative consciousness and so on.
A family is a school, to promote the all-round development of children, family education has a long way to go.
"Double subtraction", do not reduce the cultivation of habits
After education returns to school, children fight for how to learn at school and how to learn at home.
This ability is the habit of learning, which is not innate, nor can it be expected to be indoctrinated by the teacher.
The most important thing about the formation of habits comes from the family, from the parents, from the power of words and deeds.
Whether a child is good or not depends on habits.
Tao Xingzhi said:
"All attitudes, habits, and tendencies in life can establish a proper foundation in the age of naivety."
Throughout the ages, successful people have succeeded because of their good habits; failures have been caused by their bad habits.
A self-disciplined, learning-loving, reflective, and motivated child, his future will not be bad.
Reducing burden and increasing efficiency begins with the cultivation of habits.
After the double reduction, the child has no make-up lessons, less homework, and more independent time.
If you don't want your child to waste his studies, he must seize this "gap period" and focus on cultivating habits for his children.
The best way to reduce the burden is to develop habits, and with the help of good habits, children can continue to improve even without the help of "external forces".
Family education focuses on the cultivation of habits.
In the primary school stage, parents should focus on cultivating their children's habits of independent life, conscious learning, focusing on doing things, learning to persist, doing things with a plan, learning with methods, and paying attention to the concept of time.
Laying a solid foundation for children's learning and growth from an early age is the most important thing parents should do well.
"Double subtraction", do not reduce the quality of companionship
Successful education is not about how much money you invest, but about how long you can last.
How much the parents give, the children will respond. After double subtraction, companionship is the best education.
Johns Hopkins University has followed up on 790 children of different ages and classes, and the study found:
When parents invest more time and energy to pay attention to their children's education, their children's academic performance, psychological quality and other aspects will increase rapidly.
On the contrary, parents who do not have the patience to take care of their children's learning and psychological cultivation are more likely to have parent-child conflicts.
The companionship of parents is where the child's sense of security lies.
With the support and encouragement of parents, children are more confident in exploring the unknown, breaking through themselves and achieving better results.
Give your child more understanding.
Less nagging, less preaching, more listening, more understanding.
Children in the growth stage, whenever they encounter difficulties and obstacles, hope to have parents around to help.
Give your child high-quality companionship.
The early companionship and love of parents determine the background of children's lives.
In the post-"double subtraction" era, it is more necessary to give children high-quality companionship and make companionship more targeted.
Give your child a positive demonstration.
In the process of growing up, the formation of children's three views, habit formation, and character cultivation all require the full participation and correct guidance of parents.
A good demonstration by parents is the most intuitive textbook in front of children, and every bit of family life is education.
"Double subtraction", do not reduce the cooperation between home and school
The educationalist Sukhomlinsky said:
"Two educators, the school and the family, must not only act in unison and make the same demands on their children, but also be like-minded, have the same belief, always proceed from the same principle, and do not disagree in the purpose, process, or means of education."
To educate children, teachers are inseparable from parents, and parents are inseparable from teachers.
Under the "double reduction", the better the cooperation between parents and teachers, the more successful the child's education.
Please be kind to teachers who are strict with children.
Please understand and be kind to every teacher, especially the teacher who is strict with children.
They take risks to discipline, tirelessly spur, and the time and effort they have paid are immeasurable, and they deserve our understanding and respect.
Please do your best to cooperate with the work of a good teacher.
Pay attention to children's learning, actively participate in parent-teacher meetings, take the initiative to communicate with teachers, and support the work of the school.
In this way, you can not only understand the child's performance in school, but also have more communication opportunities with the teacher and give the child a better education.
Please take responsibility for home-school co-education.
Educating children has always been a trinity of society, school and family.
Teachers bear the responsibility of school education, parents assume the responsibility of family education, and it is the children who really achieve home-school co-education.
A child's greatest luck is to have both a teacher who abides by his duties and has a light in his eyes, and a parent who leads by example and never lacks.
I hope that our children, in the educational relay of parents and teachers, will step by step ferry to the real highland of life.
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