Parents who lead their children into this world are both givers of their lives and guides of life.
From the first sight of the world, most things were learned from his parents.
Between parents, because the mother spends a long time with her child, she plays a more important role.
The influence of mothers on children cannot be ignored
Studies have shown that what a child learns at the age of three accounts for 50% of his entire cognitive reserve in life, and before the age of 3, many aspects of the child's cognitive formation are mostly affected by the mother.
In fact, not only at the age of 3, the influence of mothers on children is actually throughout life.
In short, the mother's behavior and performance largely determine the fate of the child in this life.
If you want your child to become excellent, as expected, then parents, especially mothers, must set an example and at least work in the direction they expect.
In this way, it can play a good role in setting an example for children and have a subtle impact on them.
The so-called lead by example, words and deeds are the truth. Among them, the mother's character plays the most crucial role.
Professors at Peking University have shown that most of the children who grow up and have children have the following characteristics
1) Have a sense of responsibility and have three correct views
This is the most core quality, no matter how capable and intelligent a child is, if there is a moral problem, then he is not a good person.
In some ways, it can even be a "bad guy."
Having a correct three views, being sensible, distinguishing right from wrong, and knowing good and evil are the most basic qualities of a good person.
Mothers who possess this trait raise children who are "well-to-do", know what they can't do, and have the most basic etiquette. That is what we often say, the bottom line of being a person.
Secondly, the sense of responsibility is also an indispensable quality, do not shirk things, and have the courage to bear.
With the integration of these two points as a foundation for mothers, children with the same excellent qualities can be educated.
Such children are recognized by society when they grow up, and they are also recognized by those around them.
2) Be proactive and strive hard
Most mothers with this quality are not full-time mothers, and they know their own position.
She was a mother, but before she was a mother, she knew that she was first and foremost a woman with an independent personality.
That being the case, one cannot live in a different capacity entirely.
In short, a good mother also needs to realize self-worth, rather than relying on everything on the family.
Learn to recharge at any time, strengthen self-discipline, self-discipline, self-examination, self-improvement, always be vigilant about the future, and do not forget to be a good mother at the same time.
Mothers with this characteristic will most likely affect their children to become as independent and self-motivated.
3) Not forceful, nor spoiled and arrogant
Mothers love their children, and it is eternal.
But loving children also requires a balance, and the attitude towards children is only most appropriate if it is just balanced in the central position.
Some mothers have a strong desire to control, they are strong women themselves, strict with themselves but can not be lenient, and they are as strict as children who have not yet grown up.
All the children's lives are properly arranged, clear and clear, without freedom, even if they grow up to seem polite and well-behaved, in fact, they still lack a soul.
It can be said that such a child has become a walking dead without the ability to think independently.
On the contrary, if the mother is too arrogant and spoiled for her child, it will make her blind and arrogant.
All actions are arbitrary, and I don't know what the rules are. Once such a child enters the society, the ups and downs they will face will be tens of times hundreds of times.
And children who have never been harshly reprimanded are very likely to be "killed" by reality and will never recover.
Therefore, the mother's attitude must be moderate, in the bottom line principle to the child to control accurately, in some insignificant matters, give the child the freedom to think independently and grow.
Such children will easily adapt to society after they grow up, and they can grow up happily.
In short, the direction of a child's life is inseparable from the influence of parents, and the mother is the most important.
If you want your child to become what you want, try to do it yourself!
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