Opening Remarks:
In "Flowing Golden Years", Zhu Suosuo's aunt said a sentence: Many times, the most unbearable thing in life is too heavy love.
Deeply.
A love, if it is too heavy, depressing, unable to extricate itself, it will most likely be very tired of love.
True deep love should be to make each other feel comfortable, not disturbed, two people know each other in the depths of their souls, in silence, no desire and no demand, do not hinder each other's lives, and achieve a spiritual resonance.
So visible, love, should be a kind of understanding.
Even if you just look from a distance, without saying a word, you will be at peace with your heart; even if you give completely, without asking for anything in return, you will rejoice in your heart.
In this life, there can be someone who understands you, which should be the greatest happiness in this life!
A look of on the sidelines, he understands what you are thinking; a sentence that is not exhausted, he knows the second half of the sentence you want to say.
Only because he loves you deeply, he will understand you, will observe you, will know the efforts behind you, understand why you are strong, and will silently give you a quiet waiting.
So, the most fascinating love in this world is: someone understands you.
People who understand you give you the warmest reliance
In this life, people are actually one encounter after another, there is no good or bad, there is no right or wrong.
However, when the real fate comes, it is often a person who understands you who appears.
His love for you is deep and heavy, because he loves you, so he is reluctant to let you be wronged and hurt, so he will show his sincerity, take out his love and pity, and let you see his side that understands you.
Maybe you will occasionally tell him some lies, but you will find that he pretends not to understand everything. He loves you, understands what you think, knows your thoughts, so he will use his own understanding to decorate the helplessness of understanding you.
In life, many loves will always be very sweet at first, but then gradually bitter.
Only because some people's love is more and more backward, not to precipitate the sweetness, but more tired, more betrayal, more lonely, less understanding, less dependence.
Therefore, the person who has always understood you, he must have the heart to spend the rest of his life with you, walk into your heart, stand next to you, and give you the warmest reliance.
Understand, the longer you get along, the more you will be interested in each other, the more familiar you will be.
And people who don't understand you will only become more and more strange to you, more and more distant.
People who understand you give you the most tender romance in the world
Love, often trivial, is occasionally sunny, occasionally rainy, occasionally deep, occasionally flat.
In the bottom of everyone's heart, there is a understanding of their own time, or they want to be with each other day and night, or they want to be quiet alone.
And the person who understands you, whether it is bustling or noisy, can give you a sense of peace, when you need him, he gives you lingering pity, when you want to be quiet, he gives you plain chai rice oil and salt.
His "understanding" is to give you the most gentle romance in the world.
In this life, companionship is the most affectionate confession.
The person who will eliminate the hypocrisy and stay in the most sincere person, the most sincere person, is the person who is with you, comfortable with you, and the person who is speechless and dependent on each other.
Just like the marriage of Qian Zhongshu and Mr. Yang Dai, he likes to go to bed early and get up early, while Mr. Yang Dai is used to sleeping late and getting up late.
After the new marriage, every morning, Qian Zhongshu would always get up early and make a rich breakfast for his beloved wife, although clumsy, but meticulous, so that Mr. Yang Dai could not help but admire: I even had to jump up and enjoy it while I was asleep.
The person who loves you is to give you the romance that she has the most heart and can do.
People who understand you, give you the company of the finest water and long stream
People, the most authentic background color, is simplicity and simplicity.
Therefore, to find a happiness, it is often in the plainness of the long stream of thin water, feel the true taste of love.
Perhaps, when everyone is young, they always want a passionate collision, want a love lingering, eager to pluck off the stars in the sky and tell each other: This is my obsession with you.
But the more you live, the more you will find that a person who understands you is the most comfortable love.
As Mr. Qian Zhongshu said: Marriage is like a shoe worn on the foot, and only the toes know whether it is uncomfortable or uncomfortable.
In this life, there are countless loves that have failed on the oath of the mountains and the sea, and there are countless loves that have failed on the plain chai rice oil and salt, but there is no love that will be defeated by people who understand you.
Secular red dust, bland is the main theme of love, romance is the condiment of love, and the companionship of the long stream of fine water is the most fascinating interest, which is the most beautiful love appearance of "not envious of Mandarin ducks and ducks".
Some people say: there are at least two impulses in life, one for desperate love, and one for a trip to go.
That is a walk-and-go trip, if you have a lover along the way, it is more romantic and more peaceful with the encounter.
Years go by, life is impermanent, that way to accompany, experience countless time transitions, look at each other with white hair, face to grow old, is the world, lovers give you the most charming attachment.
People who understand you fill in the regrets in your life
We are always eager to live a good life.
However, what is a good day, few people can say clearly, maybe it is very rich, maybe it is the consummation of love, maybe it is a smooth life, or it is safe and secure...
And, if you have a person around you who understands you, so many and a half, you have already made this "good day" half successful.
Life is short, there will always be many regrets, pessimistic people, even in the face of love, there is a lot less courage.
However, the person who understands you, he does not see you shining brightly to find you, but understands the bitterness behind you, understands the hardships you have paid, sees you struggling in the mud, wants to give you gentle companionship, extends a warm hand to you, and walks side by side with you.
His understanding fills the regrets of your life, brings you the coolness of the silver bowl of snow, and brings you the softness of the bright moon.
Years, in fact, are not so long, life is not so headless.
I remember that there was a song that sang: The most romantic thing I can think of is to grow old with you...
There is a poem that once said: When you are old, your hair is gray, and you are sleepy,...... How many people love your short-lived countenance, love your beauty, with hypocrisy or naivety, only one loves the heart of your pilgrim...
There is a saying that goes well: the person who really likes you is not necessarily the person who understands you the most, but it must be the person who is most willing to understand you.
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Life is a long road, because with this person who understands you, the treks in life, the wind and dust servants, have become the most beautiful flowers in the gentle years.
May the rest of your life, everyone, can be around a person who understands you, like a beam of light to illuminate your future, to give you the most beautiful encounter, to give you a lifetime of peace, a lifetime of romance.
Author, Frank Fox
Figure, network
May you find in my words the ordinary years, a strong affection! Thanks for your attention!