Many boys' own conditions are quite good, but they can't get rid of the single, every time they meet a girl they like, they don't know how to show themselves, because they don't understand what girls really think. These 3 unspoken rules of love, girls will never admit it, but boys must understand! Especially point 3, boys who don't understand are very disadvantaged.
They all like bad guys
You're going to ask a woman what kind of man she likes, and nine out of ten will tell you: good man. but...... Is this really the case? If they really like good men, why would they say, "I'm sorry, you're a good person" when they reject you, and then throw themselves into the arms of the scumbag without hesitation, even if they are deceived and bruised, they can't forget the bowl of mung bean soup that the scumbag brought her at that time.
This is because bad boys satisfy all the fantasies of girls about love. You will observe that bad men dare to do something that is not allowed and actually does not need to be allowed, such as suddenly holding hands and kissing, which will bring a sense of stimulation and sweetness to girls, which not only highlights your male charm, but also proves the value and charm of girls.
At the extreme, things like elopement seem to be done only by those who look bad. But in fact, many girls have privately fantasized about such a script, a debauched hero suddenly appeared, leading her to do the bravest things in ordinary life, that sense of transcendence, is a wonderful experience that will make her unforgettable. That's why, well-behaved women are always attracted to bad boys, and good girls are always targeted by scumbags.
They know your routines
Chestnut found that many irons who have never been in love have a perception of girls at the level of imagination. Always imagine girls as simple as little white rabbits, do not understand anything, will not do anything, will only sell cute boo. But in fact, girls are natural love masters, and their emotional intelligence is generally higher than that of boys. Coupled with watching idol dramas since childhood, they are much more familiar with the routines in love than you.
Therefore, your careful thinking, girls understand; your little routines, girls see more than you. Don't believe it, I will restore the real thoughts of the girls to you. For example, you say to the girl: "The weather is so cold today, are your hands cold?" The girl would think in her heart, "Do you want to take the opportunity to hold my hand?" For example, you said, "We go to a haunted house on the weekend, you won't dare to go, right?" The girl will think in her heart: "This is to see me scared into your arms, right?" ”
Chestnut says this, not to frustrate your enthusiasm. But I want to tell the old iron that although your routine girls understand, the cuteness of girls is that they are willing to cooperate with the people they like to the end. As for the girls who ruthlessly expose you, or don't pick up your stubble at all, it's not the incomprehensible style you think, they just... You know what I mean?
They actually enjoy fish farming
Raising fish here is not the kind of scum who has a boyfriend and comes out to cast a wide net. It's about enjoying the feeling of being pursued by a lot of boys. The mate selection mechanism for girls is screening, and the mate selection mechanism for boys is competition. Boys chasing girls often see a girl in the crowd, and then lock in the target and take the initiative.
Most of the time, girls are forced to wait, waiting for men to pursue them. As a result, it can be imagined that around the girls with good conditions, the boys rushed up one by one, and they could not stop it. The conditions are almost bad, not so much, there are three or five, one or two.
In the face of these suitors, no matter what kind of girls, they can't quickly decide who they want to be with, or continue to wait alone for better. There is always a process of investigation, just like the duel courtship in the animal kingdom, the female is on the side to watch the two males fight, and whoever wins will follow whomever wins.
So, in other words, most of the legitimate boyfriends are from the "spare tire" to the positive. However, after the relationship is determined, normal girls will stop this one-to-many relationship and enter a stable relationship. And those who still come do not refuse, like single girls, the old iron can be careful to distinguish.
Write in the last words
The difference between men and women makes our love affair particularly interesting. The little secrets that girls don't admit, and the little truths that boys try to hide, will surface little by little after the two fall in love. When you look back at that time, you will find that the efforts you made to get close to each other have now become sweet memories.
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Author | Yellow chestnut Ye
Consultant of the First Psychological Writing Group | Senior Emotional Mentor | Best-selling columnist on the internet