Parents who really understand education get along with their children in this way
The education method of the Huo Siyan family in "Mother is Superman" allows us to discover a new possibility for children's education now: children who are watered with love will be more intelligent and cute. I believe that everyone must be "king of golden sentences" - hmmm, to completely accept it, people are even parents, even their own people can routine it!
In fact, watching the show, in addition to laughing at the brain circuit Qingqi, we are more of a lament about how Huo Siyan can educate children so much? However, after watching the show, it is not difficult to find that Huo Siyan gave the child full respect and love in the process of communicating with the child.
We are always exploring how to educate children more scientifically and make their children's future happier, in fact, we may wish to learn Huo Siyan's parenting "routine".
Put your identity down and be friends with your children
In Humming's heart, the mother is a little princess who should be pampered, and being a man must protect the mother. Will take the initiative to show weakness to the child, cultivate the child's self-confidence, let him know that the mother also needs to be pampered, the mother also needs to be protected, and the mother hopes that the baby can be brave to protect the mother, to be a responsible child, so the hum king can have such a high emotional intelligence.
Be brave and express your love out loud
Traditional Chinese education makes us express love more implicitly, parents always silently play the role of "superman" behind our backs, we always do not understand the hardships of parents, until we grow up to become parents. In fact, love does not have to be so subtle, and the courage to express love loudly can make children understand their parents faster and know how to love the world more.
Respect your child's ideas and whimsy
The world of children is a world of imagination and creativity, while the world of adults is a more realistic world. We don't let our own reality stifle the child's imagination, try to integrate into the child's world of ideas, only in this way, the child can be more assertive, some right and wrong We don't need to be so anxious to let the child know, because the child will always grow up.
Let love enrich and make children dare to express their emotions
The child who is truly poured out by love is more emotional and better at expressing his baby. And as mothers, what we have to tell our children is that we love him, do not impose our own views on the children, do not use the authority of the parents to suppress the child, and let him grow up to be what he should be, not the way we expect him to be.
Perhaps, mothers can't give their children the company of all the time, but mothers hope to be able to give their children through these "routines" and accompany them wholeheartedly, so that children can grow up to be what they should be. "Why isn't your relationship with your children intimate enough?"
Whether you often hang on to your lips or not, I do this for your own good; the child is frustrated and does not get timely attention
The big things in the eyes of children are insignificant and trivial in the eyes of many parents, and it is difficult for parents to really think from the perspective of their children.
Many times when children seek help from their parents or tell their grievances, what they get is the cold words or irony of their parents, which is a scar in the child's heart and the root cause of the child's loss of trust in his parents.
In the context of parent-child education in contemporary Chinese families, how can parents improve their relationship with their children?
Before making a decision for the child, seriously discuss and communicate with the child, the child has his own thoughts, you can let him understand that he must bear the results of his own choices, rather than blindly making choices for him, when the child makes a choice, do his best to support.
The small things of the child's growth period often have a lifelong impact, the choice is handed over to the child early, the child can choose his friends, favorite clothes, interested hobbies, can make a good choice for themselves may have a wonderful life.
When the child feels aggrieved and sad, the parents must be patiently comforted, the sense of security brought by the family to the child is the guarantee of the child's happiness index, when the child seeks help from the parents, the parents must not be indifferent or even cold, which is often the root of the disharmony of the parent-child relationship, the child's growth process is no small matter, enough attention to the child.
Believe in children, especially in front of outsiders, do not directly choose to believe others without asking about children, and severely criticize children, hurt children's feelings, and parental distrust is the biggest trauma in children's hearts, and it is also the root of inferiority.
If the child does something wrong, what others say is the truth, and education needs to be severely criticized, but please do not directly criticize and educate the child in public or in front of outsiders, and then carry out it after returning home to protect the child's self-esteem.