For a married man, when going out, it is even more important to learn to resist various temptations in real life.
Marriage is holy, and once two people step into the temple of marriage, they must learn to protect each other.
A dull life is the essence of marriage.
But in real life, there are often people who can't survive the blandness of marriage.
Freshness is the nature of each of us, and when we face real life, we will also have curiosity about novelty, which is beyond doubt.
But after getting married, we should keep the original commitment, as a man, we should take on real-life responsibilities.
If a man chooses to give up his family in real life because of the pursuit of excitement and freshness, then it is also a stupid thing to do.
If a man makes you feel that way, try letting go, he doesn't love you.
Zhang Yun and her husband have been married for 10 years, which is also Zhang Yun's tenth year as a housewife, when the two were just married, because of family reasons, Zhang Yun decisively chose to quit her career and wholeheartedly become a housewife.
Zhang Yun originally thought that everything he had paid could be rewarded, but in the end Zhang Yun found that everything he did was just in vain.
After getting married, Zhang Yun gave up everything for the family, but all this is not worth mentioning for her husband, every time she returns home, her husband will only complain about Zhang Yun, and even when there is socializing outside, her husband is not willing to take Zhang Yun out with him.
In the eyes of her husband, Zhang Yun is not as good as a strange woman, which also makes Zhang Yun's heart very uncomfortable, and later the two often have conflicts and conflicts because of these things, Zhang Yun also washes her face with tears at home every day, if it were not for the children, Zhang Yun might have been divorced a long time ago.
In fact, in a relationship, women should never blame a man's indifference, women want to make men inseparable, then first of all, we must learn to be independent, independent thinking, independent money, independent life, such a woman in real life will let a man fall in love with not forget.
If a woman has no value for a man, then in the end, the man will also ruthlessly abandon you, good love, will always be the result of the joint efforts of two people, if a woman gives up on herself in her feelings, then she will not get the man's care.
Therefore, women always have to learn to make money independently, relying on a man, will only make you suffer grievances.
01.
Stop sharing
When a person is no longer willing to share the bittersweet and bittersweet of life with you, it proves that he has chosen to give up on you.
In the relationship, in fact, we have the desire to share the other half we like.
Because by sharing again and again, our hearts will come closer together.
The person who truly loves you will not stop looking for you, because all he thinks about in his heart is you all the time.
A person who loves you deeply will care about your joys and sorrows, and will care about your emotions.
When a person stops sharing their desires with you, it is the beginning of the break.
02.
Unwilling to work hard for you
A person who loves you deeply will give you the best things, and when a person plans you in his future life, he truly loves you.
A person who truly loves you will fight for your good life, not let you suffer.
A man can have no money, but he can't be without responsibility.
In life, everyone is selfish, the person who loves you will put you first, and with such a person, your life will become wonderful.
What exactly does it look like to love someone? I think that in life, most people are troubled by this problem.
What is love? In fact, everyone's heart will have different answers.
In many cases, the word love is something we cannot describe in words.
But when you truly love someone, you want to give him all the good things in the world.
Love and no love, in fact, are presented in the details, a person who really loves you, will care about you in life, when he can't see you, he will be anxious, when you are sad, he will blame himself, when you are sad, he will be unconditionally accompanied.
Love doesn't really need to be so vigorous, and when you truly love someone, you're willing to give unconditionally.
In fact, whether a person really loves you, your heart will be very clear and clear, and the person who loves you deeply will not let you spend time in disappointment and sadness.
Zhang Xiaoxian once said: "Some disappointments are inevitable, but most of the disappointments are because you overestimate yourself." ”
Be a woman and never overestimate your place in a man's heart.
If a man in a relationship, let you feel endless grievances and torture, then leave in time, is also a kind of respect for each other, I hope that everyone in the face of love, can find their own beauty, do not because of a person who does not love you, and lose the passion for love.