In the play, Jin Jiajun came to Beijing and lived in Xiao Min's home, Xiao Min felt nothing at first, after all, he was his own son, who may not have been together for a long time, and did not know how to get close to each other's hearts.
The question of whether to wash his son's underwear was difficult for Xiaomin.
Wash it, my son is already a 20-year-old adult, and the underwear belongs to his own privacy.
Don't wash it, this is his own son, so many years have not accompanied his son's side, in fact, Xiaomin also wants to fulfill the responsibility of being a mother.
So Xiaomin consulted, the same divorced Chen Zhuo with a baby, Chen Zhuo has a 20-year-old girlfriend, they both belong to the opposite sex parents, she asked Chen Zhuo, has he washed his girlfriend's underwear?
Chen Zhuo looked confused and said that she was such a big girl, how could I wash her panties, even if I could, she would not want to.
Chen Zhuo also told Xiao Min that you should not wash your son's underwear, it will be considered a pervert by the child, and the child will not know how to communicate with you in the future.
Jin Jiajun has become an adult, and for adult children, Huang Lei and Zhou Xun gave parents an important lesson on how to maintain boundaries and measures with their children.
Jiajia was 13 years old, only to live with her father Chen Zhuo, when Jiajia came to menstruation, Chen Zhuo thought that her daughter grew up, had her own privacy, and should have an independent living space.
As the saying goes, children avoid mothers, daughters avoid fathers, children should avoid suspicion when they are older, and parents must first have this self-awareness.
So he felt that he could no longer live in a one-bedroom apartment, and Chen Zhuo thought of renting out one-bedroom apartment and taking out a loan to buy a small two-bedroom apartment.
Then the master bedroom, the master bathroom or something, including the balcony to change a small studio to Jiajia, so that she has a separate space, Chen Zhuo sleeps in a room a little farther from the master bedroom, next to the kitchen, the bathroom at the door is installed with a shower, for her own use.
Chen Zhuo believes that when Jiajia herself has an independent living space, so that their father and daughter can get close to each other.
Adapt slowly, and that's how you get used to it.
In the face of Xiao Min's problem: that is, to see her son come out of the shower, wearing large shorts, and then did not wear a body, Xiao Min felt that it was particularly awkward and embarrassing.
Chen Zhuo's advice was: He is your son, you have to adapt to him.
Since the children are all adults, many things can be let go, not to mention the small things such as washing underwear, the children can completely complete it independently.
If the child is lazy and does not even want to wash his own underwear, parents should not review themselves, perhaps in the unconscious package, the child is lazy and wasted.
Such a big child, nothing else can be done, it will always be possible to wash your own underwear.
Before seeing a post on Douban asked, is it normal for the boyfriend to let his mother wash his underwear?
Many people agree with the sentence that is not normal, and this kind of male has a high probability of motherhood or straight male cancer.
Some people also think that this kind of active and voluntary washing of their son's underwear is the root of the problem, which is that there is a love affair or too spoiled son and son, taking care of the son as a husband, not understanding the privacy boundaries and sense of proportion, and it is not possible that there will be a dispute between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law in the future.
Others believe that starting from the child's gender, probably from junior high school, no matter which parent should not wash the child's underwear. Such a private thing as underwear can only be washed by yourself, and it will be washed in a few minutes.
Parents who wash their adult children's underwear are not in place in terms of gender privacy.
But some parents may think differently than most parents, they are just willing to do anything for their children, including washing their underwear, I wonder what you think about this?