Today we talk about how to bring a baby before the age of three, is the real open parenting?
Babies before the age of three are an important period of brain development, in addition to DHA and scientific feeding, we can develop children's curiosity and cognition of life in many ways. Let's start with the following points:
It's not a bad thing not to share toys, respect your child's choices.
When we take our children to play outside, we will hear such a sound, share your toys or food to the children, the baby is not willing, parents will grab the toys and food from the children's hands and distribute them to other children, at this time their own babies begin to cry, grandparents will say: this is too stingy, to know how to share and so on.
This is a big mistake, and the child's heart is too hurt.
We can think about it in a different way, if you buy a good mobile phone at your own expense, then your girlfriend says, I will use it for two days! Would you not hesitate to share it with her? I don't think you'll be too happy.
Children are the same, just got a favorite toy, when going out, he wants to tell the children that their parents gave him a new gift, before waiting for the child to study and play, he was forcibly snatched away, shared with other children, how sad should the child's little heart be?
Since the toy is bought for the child, we must respect the child's rights, let him manage his own things, play enough, he will naturally go to the children to exchange and share.
For preschoolers, playing freely is the best starting line.
Children sometimes want to play quietly on their own, so we should not force children to play with other children.
Many children are particularly curious before the age of three, and like scissors and other things that adults think are dangerous. Boys, in particular, like swords, fights and kills, fights with other people's children and other behaviors. At this time, parents are particularly worried about the child's injury, and keep saying, this can not move that can not move. Children also can't tell what it is to play.
Children like scissors, we can prepare a baby-specific scissors for children, tell children that scissors will hurt themselves and others if they are not used well. Teach children to take scissors correctly, use scissors, and most importantly, not to run with scissors.
Fight with other children, don't rush to stop it, especially boys, just set boundaries. He has the right to control the child's body.
Throwing stones and playing with sticks allows the child to go to a place where no one is, and he can toss and turn as long as he doesn't hurt others. Tell your child to pay attention to the fact that in addition to not hurting others, you can't hit important parts of yourself and so on.
Children's social, emotional management, and thinking skills are slowly perceived and learned in the game.
The child packed out a few square meters of comfortable indoor play environment, in the air quality and weather permitting to take the child to play outdoors, not only can effectively prevent myopia but also strengthen the exercise of children's social skills.
What is called children to play casually: as long as children do not hurt themselves and do not hurt others, they can enjoy letting children play freely.
Slow down and choose homemade toys, also called open sex toys.
There are a lot of toys outside, and they are not necessarily suitable for children to play casually. There are a lot of toys in our house, and the children want them very much when they are outside, and they don't like it after buying them to play for a day, resulting in a lot of idle toys in the home. But the plastic bag or a bottle in the home, the child will play for a long time.
For example, wearing the bag on his head as an umbrella, covering the bag on his toy car as a raincoat for the car, and drawing graffiti on the bag, etc., in short, we think it is garbage, but the child can play all kinds of tricks, why prevent the child from exploring himself. This kind of toy that does not cost money, children toss and turn casually, and are not afraid of bad is called open toys.
Don't see the child performing with the TV, think that the child likes to perform, give the child an interest class such as a model, and see the child graffiti everywhere to give the child a picture class. Preschoolers have a great curiosity about anything in the world, and they won't do it after this curious time period, so interest classes are not recommended until the age of 6.
Raise slowly, respect the right of children to play freely, take children to a world suitable for them to play, of course, we still have to stop children from doing things that damage objects and hurt people in time.
Let children obey, understand, these traditional education, in preschool, such a method children can not understand, but will put the child's creativity, curiosity, in the cradle.
These truths, in the game of autonomy, play, slowly guide, the child's understanding will come to fruition, rather than blind obedience without thought, and it will be completely impossible to manage in the rebellious period.