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Author: More more, original author of the emotional essay
Husband and wife, friends are a relationship that you choose yourself, because family affection is a bond of blood, but between husband and wife or friends, you choose it yourself.
A good partner, a close friend are all slowly looking for in many experiences, you feel that the other party is very satisfied, and also like-minded, then of course we can come together.
Husband and wife tolerate each other, cherish each other, and understand each other is the most important. Many couples have never had much of a fight in their lives.
Because of each other's habits, personalities are well-coordinated, and communication is also very effective, so no matter what can be discussed.
Some couples do not understand this truth, you do not let me, I will not let you, and finally lose both.
In fact, between husband and wife, as long as they can live a good life, they will eventually have deep feelings, because after all, when you choose to get married from the very beginning, you are thinking of growing old with a white head, rather than living a life casually.
Husbands and wives are subject to a lot of experience, experiencing a lot of trivial and trivial things in life, and also experiencing a lot of big things such as birth, old age, illness and death.
The reason why some couples have a better and better relationship and love more and more deeply is because they have experienced more things together, so the more they understand that they need each other, and they can't do without each other.
But not all couples can have such good luck, have such a good life, fate always likes to joke with many people, sometimes it makes you taste a little bit of the sweetness of life, turn around and let you feel the tempering of life.
What would you do if your significant other died? I think it will be very uncomfortable for both men and women.
Especially men, in fact, men are more likely to rely on a woman, because a good woman brings too much change to the family, the big and small things in the family are inseparable from women, all need women to worry, if women leave at once, as a man can not accept this fact at all.
So today we will listen to the following men in their forties, after the death of their wives, what do they think in their hearts?
Lao Wang, 47 years old, his wife died 2 years ago
Lao Wang and his wife have been married for more than twenty years, and in these twenty years, the two people have quarreled and estranged, but in the end it is very harmonious, after all, the two people have known each other since childhood, and they both know the roots.
The wife was diagnosed with advanced esophageal cancer two years ago and had surgery to make up for it, but to no avail, and in the end she left Lao Wang and her daughter.
Lao Wang said: "In the 2 years since my wife's death, I have never slept a good night, every day is early in the morning to fall asleep, every morning is five or six o'clock to wake up, every day to sleep for so many hours I am not sleepy at all."
My wife is the best woman I've ever met, she never compares or materializes, she just lives with me steadily, and I would probably be a profligate guy without her.
It was she who made my life only orderly and stable. She was also very good to my parents, and she had no regrets about this family, and when she found out that she was sick, she even said that there was no need to treat the disease, the disease was not cured, and it was a waste of money, so it was better to let her enjoy the last few months.
But my daughter and I tried our best to cure her even if we smashed pots and sold iron, but in the end we still couldn't overcome the disease.
In the past two years, I have been living a sluggish life, my daughter is worried that I can't think of it, every week will take time to accompany me, looking at my daughter is actually more sad, when she got married, her mother will never see ..."
Old Li, 49 years old, has been away for 10 years since his wife left
Old Li's wife died at the scene of a car accident ten years ago because of a car accident, and Old Li did not even see his wife's last glance, and when he saw his wife's cold body lying in the coffin, his heart was as uncomfortable as tens of thousands of knives cut.
He felt that it was all because of himself, if he had gone to drive to pick up his parents at that time, and he had reminded his wife not to take that road, would she not have left him.
But everything is so incomprehensible, maybe this is fate, he can't change his fate. In the past ten years, many people have advised Old Li to find another one, but he can't let go of his wife.
This knot had never been untied in his heart, and all these years his wife had often dreamed of her, and often dreamed of many places they had been to before, and dreamed that his wife told him that he wanted him to live a good life, and he had to find an old partner to accompany him.
This made him particularly sad, he said that he did not plan to remarry, when his son got married, he would concentrate on helping to take the child, with the sustenance of the grandchildren, he should come out quickly.
Lao Zhang, 45 years old, his wife left for 3 years, and he was sad for 3 years
Lao Zhang's wife has been away from him for 3 years, in these 3 years, in fact, Lao Zhang's heart is particularly uncomfortable, he always thinks of his wife's good.
When his wife was alive, he often quarreled with his wife, often made her angry, and many times he could obviously let her, but he just wanted to win and felt that he was right.
After his wife left, he often reflected on his mistakes and felt that he should have been and should not have been.
But so what? People are gone, regret is too late, everything can not be recovered.
Old Liu, 42 years old, his wife left for 2 years
Lao Liu's wife died for 2 years, but he was only sad for about half a year or so, and now he is planning to remarry, and the relationship between Lao Liu and his wife is not bad.
And the two people get along very harmoniously, but he always feels that he does not love her enough, and he only marries to live.
But I didn't expect that my wife died unexpectedly, and he was somewhat sad, after all, the two people have lived together for several years, and they have feelings.
But he is not the kind of person who has always remembered some things in his heart, he has a big grin a lot of times, no heart and no lungs, feel sad for a while, even if it is not necessary to be sad all the time.
A little more about:
Many times, men are not so wolf-hearted and dog-lung, in fact, people's hearts are made of meat.
Having lived together for so many years, they have feelings in any way, and the other party has also integrated into their own lives.
No matter who it is, no matter how cruel it is, it will be uncomfortable, after all, their partner is gone, of course, some people will be sad for a lifetime, some people are just sad for a while, and the degree of sadness is determined according to the degree of feelings of two people.
I hope that men who have lost their wives can live well, not passively, withered, in fact, facing new feelings should also be the result that your deceased wife hopes to see.
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