When it comes to boys being jealous, the first thought that comes to most people's minds is to restrict girlfriends from contact with the opposite sex, and not allow girls to dress freely.
As everyone knows, in the past two years, smart men have changed their minds, so that jealousy has become an act of expressing attachment. Vinegar King boyfriend is also quietly popular.
As a straight woman of steel, I used to think that boys love to be jealous and childish, humming like a sexual version of myself, I can't accept the boy who is jealous.
Recently, I found that my boyfriend is really happy to be a vinegar king, who understands??
The right benefit of jealousy is to make you feel that you are needed and cared for, but not to feel that the other party is restricting your freedom.
It can be understood as a kind of flirtation in the name of jealousy, which is really cute.
Let me give you an example. There are often girlfriend bureaus between girls, who do not bring their families by default, and boys generally do not like to go.
The boyfriends I used to have, I was notified and left, as long as there were no boys in the bureau, then my girlfriend time was the EX's game time, during which even a message was not sent.
Later, with the current one, when I went to the girlfriend bureau a few times before, I obviously did not invite him, and as a result, he would ask me every time with a grievance and ask me, "Do you really not take me?"
After a while, everyone was familiar with it and often played together, but occasionally there were a few gatherings without family members, and when he learned that he did not bring him, he would say "Okay, Girls time" in frustration.
As a result, after every party to send him a message, I found that he was still hungry waiting for me, asked him why he did not eat, he began to grievance again, "Whoever told you to eat with them..."
Although I know that he doesn't really want to participate in our girlfriend game, and he doesn't get angry because I have dinner with others, but it's really hard for a man to do this without being soft and loving OK? It's amazing.
Of course, some people may feel that the boyfriend eating the vinegar of the girlfriend is itself a spoiler, and there is no vinegar between the girls to eat.
But I have to boast that some men also have a sense of boundaries when eating vinegar of the opposite sex, and will not let people feel a little discomfort.
My girlfriend often introduces me to some of her friends of the opposite sex, in order to quickly get acquainted, often choose a bar or secret room to meet, in order to avoid introducing more strangers to make the scene more embarrassing, we generally do not take a boyfriend.
To be honest, as a girlfriend, if the boyfriend went to this kind of bureau, I would definitely be jealous and make some unpleasant trouble.
But every time I tell my boyfriend that there is a strange person of the opposite sex in the bureau, he will not immediately get angry, but will first ask me who my friend is, how many girls there are, and whether there are any reliable male friends present.
As long as he judged that the bureau was safe enough, he would start to relax and tease me, "Don't take me, go see the handsome guy yourself."
How to say it? I don't know if you understand this feeling.
Proper jealousy seems to really make people feel warm, and it feels good to know that they are cared for. It's also nice to know that someone loves you, but doesn't want to bind you because they love you.
Think about the boys I have met in the past who like to eat fly vinegar, they will care about the length of my skirt when I go out, they will be black-faced on the spot because my friend brought a handsome guy to play with, and they will encourage me to pigeons to lose some sister games because they want me to accompany him.
At that time, I naively thought that it was care, it was care, it was love. But compared with the current one, I can't find any reason to do so.
The most basic relationship between male and female friends is mutual respect and trust, if you need to sacrifice yourself in exchange for each other's trust, then this is not called trust, but the other party is simply to satisfy possessiveness.
Speaking of which, everyone should understand what I mean, right?
The vinegar king boyfriends I praise are definitely not the boyfriends who will restrict your freedom, but the men who know how to respect their girlfriends and are very good at expressing that they care about you.
Jealousy based on respect and trust can be a pleasure. In fact, jealousy should be like this, because if something unforgivable really happens in the relationship, it is not just jealousy.
In short, the vinegar king boyfriend really makes me really smelly about the "boys love to be jealous", although sometimes I feel a little annoying, but it is really nothing compared to the pleasure of being fiercely cared for. Shhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh
Tonight, I also want to hear the story of you and your vinegar king boyfriend, ready to be killed by the message, feel free to comment on the sisters!
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