Looking forward to the child's success is almost every parent's greatest expectation.
It is precisely because of the importance of talent and education that most parents have been very attentive to their children's education since childhood, hoping to give them a better future and future.
Parents who pay attention to their children's education know that in the process of growth and education, children will be affected by all aspects, of which family factors account for 60%, school education accounts for 30%, and social education also has 10% influence.
It is precisely because of the influence of all aspects that it cannot be ignored and even has a decisive effect.
For parents, in the education and growth of children, only by continuously enhancing their own abilities and self-screening ability can they absorb more precious nutrients and grow better.
Looking forward to the child's appearance, parents strive to create a better environment for their children, which is naturally beyond reproach.
However, in the process of cultivating children, some skills, if they can be applied, will also have a multiplier effect on children's education.
[If the child wants to have a career, he needs to do several things]
1. Planning is stronger than supervision
As a parent, we all expect our children to be able to learn and achieve better results in learning.
This is also why many parents would rather resign and accompany the whole process, focusing on their children's learning and life.
In the hearts of parents, they believe that such dedicated supervision and companionship can keep their grades more stable and competitive.
This practice and cognition are wrong, and parents should understand that the plan, like a castle in the air, has no possibility of landing, and will not produce the expected effect.
The so-called supervision of parents will only stimulate children's rebellious emotions in learning, and it will not have much positive effect on the achievement and stability of stable grades.
Therefore, in order to keep children more competitive and more active in learning, they must make various plans in advance and gradually implement and land according to the plan, so as to make the results more stable and balanced.
2, encouragement, stronger than blows
For every parent, in the child's learning and education, we must pay more attention to the positive role of encouragement.
Many parents just see their children's unsatisfactory results, but ignore everything that their children silently pay in order to achieve the immediate results.
When parents always use blows as a weapon, not only will their children's enthusiasm for learning be hit by their parents, but they will even be extremely disgusted with learning.
3, guidance, stronger than nagging
As a parent, if you want to make your child more competitive in the future learning, constantly restraining, it has no effect.
Constant nagging will only stimulate their rebellious heart, not their initiative and cognition in learning.
Therefore, for the education of children, parents should take a more effective approach, be good at guiding parents, and can cultivate children with better grades and more outstanding performance.
The way of guidance is also diverse.
For example, parents accompany their children to read books together to create an atmosphere of useful knowledge, which will definitely have a positive role in promoting children's learning.
4. Cultivate children's independent characteristics
Nowadays, many children are in the study and life, parents are in a state of arrangement, children do not need to do anything, parents all do the work.
Parents, there is only one requirement for their children, that is, to study hard.
This is also the fact that most children lack the ability to be autonomous and have no way to face learning and life independently.
Over time, it will also cause them to have extremely lazy emotions and behaviors, and there is no strength for their learning and long-term growth.
Therefore, in the future, if you want to put your child in a more stable state of performance and achievements, as a parent, you must keep your children in an independent state as much as possible, so that they can obtain daily needs through their own efforts and labor, which is also an important stage and action for them to learn independently and lay a solid foundation in the future.
【Author's Message】
Pavlov once said that the trick to learning a lot of things is not to learn a lot of things at once.
For each child, in the process of learning, it is not that a bite can be eaten into a fat person, but it needs to be accumulated step by step to keep the grades in a more stable state.
If you want to make your child more successful and have stronger competitiveness in grades and learning, as a parent, if you simply focus on the achievement of grades, your child's grades will not be competitive for a long time.
Instead, focusing on the above points can make them have the core competitiveness in learning, so that they will become more outstanding people in the field of learning in the future.
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