The convenience brought by science and technology is obvious to all, but these conveniences are often cited by bustling cities, for backward rural areas, it is obviously an unattainable dream to get advanced science and technology in a short period of time, backward development, poor resources, difficult transportation has created a closed environment, in such a situation the individual's living situation can be imagined.
The rapid development of science and technology has prompted fierce external competition, and if the rural areas want to develop rapidly, they can only rely on the power of education to ignite the dawn of hope, to get rid of ignorance, backwardness, and embarrassment.
Life is fair to everyone, it will not be because of a person's noble character and open a side, nor will it be aggravated by a person's misconduct, under such a fair rule, everyone can only use their own strength to maintain the operation of personal life, although the deeds of self-denial are touching, but not enough to get rid of the greed and fear in the individual's heart.
"Da ze to help the world, poor is good for themselves", in the fierce competition environment, everyone is self-care, so being alone has become their best choice, everyone's decision is to weigh the advantages and disadvantages of the choice, for most people to give up the good choice of life with hardships and hardships is extremely unwise, but also does not meet their own interests, in contrast to everyone can only be silent, because other people's choices are beyond reproach.
Education is not good, personal ability can not be effectively improved, limited ability leads to individuals do not have more choices of opportunities, a single choice makes the personal income has been greatly limited, for parents hard work is to bring a better life to their children, to help children start a family, is their duty is also an unshirkable mission, parents' hope is beautiful, the reality is extremely cruel.
Marriage is based on material foundation, for children marriage is a major event in life, need to make a careful choice, for parents their own life is for the child's marriage, limited by their own ability, they can only choose to grievance the child to let them start a family early, so that they can also quickly understand their long-cherished wishes in their hearts.
The great waves of the times are surging and surging in the process of its rapid flow, many old things are submerged, new things emerge and replace, just like the concept of marriage, in the hearts of parents marriage is a lifelong thing, the environment in which they live determines their cognition, if the choice of divorce not only affects the individual family, but also makes their own family faceless, after being wronged they would rather bear all the pain alone. For young people who pursue independence, divorce has long become a common thing, and there are not too many things to worry about.
Parents' concepts may change, they can also withstand the pressure of external public opinion, but the environment in which they live is difficult to change, a marriage has long made them unable to do it, if there is no way to do it again.
There will inevitably be a lot of contradictions in marriage, in the eyes of parents quarrels are insignificant things, even if both parties are angry as long as they calm down will return to normal, so they are not willing to let their children divorce, in such a huge resistance the children can not be bent on going their own way, so things are also caught in a dilemma.