Today's headline hot search is very interesting, the list appears three topics related to "mother", namely: # Give the child to the elders to bring is exploitation#, # Mother carries two boxes of supplies to take care of the daughter in labor # and #90 after the anti-epidemic retrograde mother accompanies her daughter across the province to ask for help #. Elders with children is the current situation of many families, and my family is no exception. When I saw the sentence "Is it exploitation to give the child to the elders", I couldn't help but think that the mother-in-law left the hometown where she had lived for many years, lost her relatives and friends who walked around every day, and was confined to dozens of square meters of high-rise buildings, as if she really "exploited" her life. But does she feel "exploited" in the process? I don't think so. The mother-in-law is a person who loves children very much, and if she is not trapped in the huge cost pressure of life and education, she is eager for her children and grandchildren.
The eldest girl was born with most of the time of her mother-in-law, and with the second child, she took care of eating, drinking and playing all year round, and has now reached the age of seven. In these seven years, the mother-in-law has enjoyed this year. Watching the little ones from hands and feet and use toddlers, never helping themselves to walk like flying, the happiness brought by children and grandchildren around the knees is irreplaceable. If she still lives in her hometown and spends her days with her father-in-law without saying a word, she may not have this happiness. But all this stems from her love for her children and grandchildren, so she is willing to give up part of her life. It can be seen from this that the mother who provided her own materials to take care of her daughter was not deeply loving?
When the beloved little girl is facing a major event in her life, she stands up to solve the problems of her children and grandchildren. Fully prepared itinerary, but unwilling to add a little burden to the daughter, such maternal love, more heavy than those two boxes of luggage. So does she feel that taking her grandchildren in the future is an exploitation? Of course not, even if there may be unpleasant moments in the future, but it is more certain that it is more of a pleasure, because she is willing to give for them. The retrograde mother who asked for help across provinces needs no more words. The illness is in the child's body, the pain is in the mother's heart, and I dare not even look at her experience. Women are weak, but mothers are strong, and when they become mothers, weak little girls have evolved into powerful women. Because they are mothers, their beloved children, they become indestructible.
There is one of the most beautiful voices in the world, and that is the call of the mother. Romain Rolland said that "maternal love is a great flame". There is a saying in "Wandering Son": The mother's hand is threaded, and the wanderer is clothed. The seams are tightly sewn, and I am afraid that I will be late. Whoever says anything will be rewarded with three Chunhui. There is no doubt about the greatness of maternal love, the mother who rushed to other places, the mother who went retrograde and asked for help, and all the children who bound them were children. They are wholeheartedly worried about their children, and they are constantly running for their children. Thousands of mothers in the world are so ordinary but great. I praise their bravery and selflessness because they have a lot of love for their children. At the same time, I admire the moms who live out of me.
The 46-year-old associate professor of sociology argues that it is unfair to sacrifice yourself to be a good mother. This is the manifestation of women's ideological awakening in the new era, and mothers are no longer willing to bind their entire lives to their children, want to live out their own lives, and want to pursue ideals. This is the progress of the times, this is the fruit of education. As the saying goes: I am happy to buy a thousand dollars. Regarding how to be a mother and what kind of mother to be, I always believe that without violating public order and good customs, making yourself comfortable and happy is a good choice, and following your own inner desires will consistently accompany your children to grow up happily.