For married women, their own state is often a mirror of life, which can reflect both the woman's happy mood and the sad figure of the woman. As the song "Woman Flower" sings: "The woman flower sways in the wind, and the woman flower gently swings with the wind." "All the charms and charms of the body, everything is in the words.
Therefore, whether women are living well or not, whether the marriage is happy or not, these three details attached to them can be seen.
1. Is the dress careful?
People often say that "love is the best cosmetics for women", think about it, we may wish to pay attention to the women around us, but where the marriage is happy, family harmony, no matter how old they are, they will be very careful to care for their faces and maintain their skin, even if the cosmetics are not very expensive, they can also fully show the woman's delicacy and elegance, giving people a sense of comfort like a spring breeze!
On the contrary, a woman who has not lived a satisfactory life in marriage worries about family chores all day long, worries about the estrangement of husband and wife, and even more, will always be sensitive and highly vigilant about the change of the other half's heart! In this way, she would not have more thought and time to spend on herself, let alone elaborate attire.
The same is true in terms of clothing, when a woman carefully wears every day, it shows that she understands life, understands taste, and always allows herself to show people in the most beautiful state, which also indicates that her life state will not be bad, and she has enough energy and confidence to dress herself and embellish happiness!
On the contrary, when a woman no longer pays attention to her own clothes, it is always casual and casual, and even a sloppy state, which also indicates her abandonment of beauty, reflecting a helplessness and embarrassment for the current life.
Even if a woman's appearance is far away from beauty, she also has a heart of love for beauty in her heart! And when this heart is hidden deep at the bottom, it also indicates her difficulties and disappointments in real life!
Therefore, for women, whether the dress is exquisite or the clothing is appropriate or not, in the eyes of others, what it reflects is an attitude towards life. If you are lucky enough to meet a man who loves himself, women will surely have the skill of "rejuvenation"!
2. Is it comfortable to communicate?
Women's attitude to life is not only reflected in dress, but also in communication with people. There are two main aspects here:
One is that when communicating with people, she always complains constantly, complains about social injustice, complains about the indifference of others, and even complains about her husband's incompetence, and what others feel is always her negative energy. In fact, this negative energy stems from her life state in most cases, because happiness and self-confidence are the best friends, and likewise, hardship and loss are also a pair of enemies who cannot be solved.
On the contrary, women who live happily never complain about others, but only face it with their own needs, and their expressions are always full of hope, even if they encounter difficulties, they will fight with confidence and win!
The other is that when communicating with people, they are always over-inflated with vanity, which leads to them constantly showing off to others how expensive their handbags are, how much men love her, how harmonious the family is, and so on!
As the saying goes, the more people lack something, the more they will show off something, in order to cover up their inner emptiness and loss. At its root, this is also a manifestation of unsatisfactory life.
A woman who lives a really good life never shows off everything she has, she will not tell others how brilliant her experience is, and how happy her marriage is now, because she has never had an inferiority complex, and her attitude towards life is always like a spring stage posture and a smiling face!
3. Do you spend time making friends?
The so-called flower heart is the mood of having love and bread, and still wanting to eat cake.
If a woman with a family is too intimate and ambiguous with the other opposite sex, it means that the love and bread she now has is not delicious, and she is stealing other people's cakes. Why steal food? In addition to personality, there is also a key factor is dissatisfaction with the status quo of life. Behind this dissatisfaction is precisely the indulgence of women in marriage, or the helplessness of sleeping in the same bed.
In the final analysis, "flower heart" is not only a knife of human nature, but also a mirror of life. But any woman who lives a happy life will not play ambiguous with other men, because her inner space has long been filled with love belonging to one person; and only those who perform love and inner emptiness will lose no time in making love with other members of the opposite sex, or pushing cups for cups, and using the goblet in their hands to redeem the loneliness and helplessness in their own lives!