Mei Yanfang sang in "Woman Flower":
"The woman flowers, swaying in the wind; the women flowers, swinging gently with the wind."
Years are like songs, women are like flowers. Growing in a suitable environment, you can make yourself delicate, purple and red, if you grow in a barren, unsuitable environment, it will be yellow and fallen, withered and defeated, what kind of environment, there is what kind of destination.
Therefore, if you want to see if a woman is doing well, just by relying on her external state, you can glimpse the leopard.
1 Look at a woman's appearance and you know how she is doing right now
There is a saying: "Appearance is the first impression we give." ”
No matter who we know, the first thing we see is how a person looks. But that's where the differences between people lie.
No matter how old a woman is, some women may not give a first impression, but it looks comfortable and feels like a spring breeze.
The heart of beauty is shared by everyone. For women, willing to spend more time to dress themselves, then there is no doubt that they are living well at the moment, have time, energy, and financial resources for their own control, they are willing to show their most beautiful side to others like blooming flowers, which is pleasing to themselves and respect for others.
On the contrary, if a woman usually has a bad life and has to worry about family chores all day long, then she has no more energy to spend on herself, let alone pay attention to her appearance.
As a result, no matter where they go, they are almost the same, compared with their peers, people will mistakenly think that they are older and older, and their whole mentality will become worse and worse.
A woman attaches great importance to her appearance, indicating that she has hope in her heart, has a positive yearning for a better life, is unwilling to live a life, and is willing to treat herself in a delicate and attentive way, and to all the people she meets.
You don't have to fall into the country, but you must treat yourself with your heart, so that you can see whether a woman is doing well or not, and make a judgment.
2 From a woman's attitude towards life, you can see whether she is living well or not
I have seen a saying that says: "Life is a mirror, what you look at life, life will look like." ”
For a woman, it depends on whether she is doing well or not, and it can be clear to hear her attitude towards life.
To be precise, women who live well have light in their eyes, hope in their mouths, and self-confidence everywhere they go, even if they encounter difficulties, they will not see them choose to complain about others and give up on themselves, but they lack understanding and start again.
On the contrary, when a woman's attitude towards life chooses to complain and blame herself, then her external performance is decadent, no matter who she talks to, what she sees is always negative, this is because she is not living well at the moment, and her attitude towards life makes her have the current situation.
After watching a film and television drama, the heroine has always had a positive attitude towards life, even if she encountered the biggest difficulties in life, she did not give up the pace of moving forward, and also told her children that "people should look forward" and "do not accept defeat", and finally they finally lived a happy life, and the children were also very successful.
In fact, whether we live well or not comes from how we look at life, and more importantly, from the way we choose to treat ourselves.
And this kind of attitude to life, you can easily see when you talk to a woman, because they will put their attitude to life in the bits and details of speech, you can easily judge it.
3 Look at a woman's clothing to know if she is doing well
Please note that the clothes we are referring to here are not wearing gold and silver, luxurious and expensive clothes, but a woman's appropriate clothes according to her own body shape, and will not reduce her own taste because of the high and low price of clothes, but because of the appropriate clothing, so that the whole person reveals confidence, elegance and charm.
Some women may not look outstanding, but whenever they appear in front of everyone, through her clothing, they can attract the attention of everyone, so that she is like an elegant orchid, faintly blooming, making people feel comfortable and comfortable, and the more they look at it, the more enduring it is.
In fact, when a woman is willing to work her own dress, it is not that she does not know how to live a life, on the contrary, this is an attitude that attaches the most importance to life, no matter at any time, let herself show people in the most beautiful state, and also indicates that her life will not be bad, but orderly and prosperous.
However, when a woman begins to give up on herself from the inside, then she is actually abandoned by the years. Whether she has money or not, she always does not pay attention to her clothes, always lives with a conciliatory attitude, in addition to bringing others an attitude of staggering life, she herself will feel that life does not have much meaning, so she chooses to live and live, live a day, and never live a good moment.
A woman's proper dress actually reflects her attitude towards life.
In fact, in the view of Uncle Zhihe, whether a woman has a good life or not comes entirely from her own seriousness, responsibility and efforts in life. And all of this can be expressed through external bits and pieces, which represents a kind of mentality about life, and what kind of mentality she has, naturally has what kind of life destination.
Therefore, when you choose to treat yourself and the present with a positive attitude, then the whole person will be full of hope and positive energy, and everything you pass on to the outside world is also beautiful. On the contrary, you always treat yourself with a negative, negative attitude, no matter what you have now, you will not actually live your own life.
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