Author: Fan Deng Reading My Hometown
Source: Fan Deng Reading (ID: readingclub_btfx)
A few days ago, I saw a news that the day after Yangzhou doctor Xiao Cao and nurse Xiao Teng received their permits, they received an urgent task to help Wuhan and hurriedly embarked on the road of expedition.
When sending off, his wife Xiao Teng said: "I was ready before, I knew he was going." Husband Xiao Cao said: "I just registered yesterday, and today I am going to go on a campaign. ”
Finally, Xiao Teng choked up and said, "We will have a wedding when you come back." Immediately the couple embraced each other with tears, full of reluctance and thoughts.
Even so, when Xiao Teng said " I knew he was going " , his face still showed full of determination , and before he left for the expedition , he had to get a marriage license with Xiao Cao in a hurry.
A good marriage is that you and I will not abandon each other, and become each other's dependence.
In the face of difficulties and disasters, I have shared it for you
Someone asked: What is the most important meaning of marriage?
The highest praise answer is: When you carry the weight forward, I will do my best to share it for you.
Academician Li Lanjuan, 73, is the most beautiful retrograde of the new coronavirus epidemic, and her husband Zheng Shusen is a well-known surgical expert in the mainland.
Zheng Shusen went to West China Medical University to study for a doctorate around the age of 40, and after graduation, he went to Hong Kong to study for a postdoctoral fellow, and Li Lanjuan gave the greatest support behind her husband.
Once, Zheng Shusen's father fell seriously ill, and in order not to distract her husband from his studies, Li Lanjuan did not tell him about it, but took it upon herself.
She took her two sons back to her hometown to wait by her father-in-law's side, diagnose and treat the old man's condition, and serve the old man's daily life until the father-in-law recovered.
Years later, the outbreak of the new coronavirus epidemic, Li Lanjuan retrograde in the danger of the epidemic, Zheng Shusen silently supported his wife behind his back.
Li Lanjuan rushed to Beijing to attend the relevant meeting at the first time, and it was not until after 9 p.m. Chinese New Year's Eve that she returned from Beijing to her home in Hangzhou.
At this time, the wife was busy Chinese New Year's Eve the kitchen, Li Lanjuan sent a circle of friends, wrote: Today I am relaxed, I can not burn Chinese New Year's Eve rice, replaced by Academician Zheng, scalpel to kitchen knife.
After that, Li Lanjuan asked Ling Chi to help Wuhan, and when she set off, her husband Zheng Shusen still silently followed behind him with a bag to send off.
45 years of marriage, the two have long been like two trees growing together, supporting each other, sharing the wind and rain, and when the other needs it most, they can stand up to the waist to bear each other's responsibilities to the greatest extent.
Li Lanjuan's understanding and sharing have turned all the difficulties in her husband's life into nothing; her husband's understanding and companionship have helped Li Lanjuan overcome this battle without gun smoke.
In the face of danger, we face it together
In the current hit drama "Perfect Relationship", Jiang Yuanpeng, president of DL Group, had to temporarily disappear and hide because he was caught in the Pengkun Fund fraud case.
When he secretly called his wife, she said anxiously: Why don't you tell me? I can go with you!" You are alone now, who will take care of you?
This is the husband and wife, no matter what happens, will not be afraid of any danger, the first thing that comes to mind is to be with each other and face it together.
This conversation can't help but remind people of a past with her husband Wu Zheng that Yang Lan once mentioned.
In 2001, Wu Zheng went to New York to participate in the International Emmy Awards as the sole Chinese co-chairman, when it was after the 911 incident, and the United States could have another terrorist attack at any time, which was very dangerous.
Yang Lan originally tried to persuade her husband not to go, but Wu Zheng insisted on his own opinion, one out of humanitarian support, and the other also wanted to defend the dignity of the Chinese, and finally Yang Lan decided to follow her husband.
They wrote their wills together, held each other's hands tightly as the plane took off, closed their eyes and prayed silently.
Later, in the 2008 Wenchuan earthquake, Yang Lan rushed to the earthquake area to do post-disaster psychological counseling for orphans, and at that time, he would face several aftershocks of different degrees every day.
Wu Zheng chose to guard his wife's side step by step, facing danger with his wife and sharing life and death.
Yang Lan once said: "In a good marriage, there is not only love, but also the righteousness of taking care of each other, the tacit understanding of not abandoning, and the unforgettable kindness." ”
In the storm, I accompanied you alongside; in the crowd, your gaze never left me for a moment.
No matter how dangerous the world is, how muddy the road ahead is, there is always a person around who firmly says", "Don't be afraid, there I am".
In a good marriage, there can be no flowers and romance, but it must be indispensable to the inseparable attachment and the righteousness of life and death.
Just because we signed that marriage contract, we have tied each other's lives tightly together, just as Su Wu said: married as husband and wife, love and love are not doubtful, life should be returned, death should be Sauvignon Blanc.
A marriage that does not pay attention to morality loses both sides
Last year, I received an email from the wife of the supplier Lao Ding to all the clients and partners, describing in detail the struggle between her and Lao Ding from nothing to a lot of money.
His wife married Lao Ding when he was the poorest, and spent all these years with him to work hard, from starting from scratch to becoming a big business, accompanying him to suffer hardships and suffering for him, so that he had the current company.
Old Ding had an extramarital affair with a young and beautiful female secretary, and also tried to transfer the property to sweep his wife out of the house.
The wife was devastated when she found out what Lao Ding had done, and what made her most sad was that her husband did not think about the conjugal love for so many years and did so resolutely.
The wife finally made public the scandal of Lao Ding and the female secretary, and she told everyone what happened to everyone in tears. Most of the clients immediately terminated their cooperation with Lao Ding, and two important partners also withdrew their investment at the same time and no longer worked with him.
Lao Ding's company suffered a devastating blow as a result, not only unable to repay the huge loans of the bank, but also in a situation where it could not continue to operate, whether it was a customer or a partner, they were unwilling to do business with such a cold person.
Even friends for many years have respected him and stayed away from him, and they can be so ruthless and unjust to their dearest wives, who dares to become friends with him!
At this point, couples for many years have lost both; years of hard work have been wiped out.
It really responds to the saying: "The end of love is marriage, and the end of marriage is righteousness." ”
When I was young, I accompanied you through a hard life, and when I was old, you lived a good life with me, and a marriage full of righteousness could harvest a stable happiness for a lifetime.
Even if love is gone and marriage cannot continue, it is necessary to remember those who once had the same happiness and suffering, so that they can get together and disperse.
In the end of marriage, it is two people under the same roof, facing the world together, although there are regrets and imperfections, but when we have made a promise, we have already married Jinlan and become friends of life and death.
Write at the end:
In "Peacock Flying Southeast", it is said: The heart of the king is like a rock, the heart of a concubine is like a grass, the grass is tough as silk, and the rock has no transfer.
The cornerstone of marriage is not love, nor children, but the courage and firmness that gradually arise in life.
Let the wind and rain of this world be uncertain, and I am willing to be a grass beside you; with the complexity of this world, you are like the unwavering rock in my heart.
As we say in our vows when we get married:
"In the future, whether in good times or bad times, rich or poor, whether healthy or sick, whether young or old, we will all be in the same boat, share hardships and hardships, share weal and woe, become lifelong partners, keep our promises, and never change."
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