Deeply interpret marriage, emotions, and human nature. Focus on January and our story begins
Recently, the network has been swept away by two names.
A Zhong Nanshan, on an emergency special occasion, went out as an 84-year-old commander.
A Li Lanjuan, with a 72-year-old body, led the team to fight in the frontline of epidemic prevention.
Both are models of my generation and the pillars of the country.
A few days ago, I have written several articles about Academician Zhong Nanshan, as well as his parents, wife, children, and outstanding family.
This article wants to write about how Academician Li Lanjuan and her husband, Academician Zheng Shusen, are like-minded, support each other, and have a deep affection.
Born in 1947 in Shaoxing, Zhejiang Province, Li Lanjuan loved to read and achieved excellent grades from an early age, and returned to the township to become a "barefoot doctor" after graduating from high school.
It was at that time that the seeds of "curing the disease and saving people" were planted in her heart.
There are more than 400 families in the village, and no matter who is sick, whether it is in the middle of the night or if it is windy or rainy, she will go to the clinic for treatment. Once, she also became a temporary "obstetrician" to help a young daughter-in-law in the village successfully deliver the baby.
Later, after continuous learning and unremitting efforts, Li Lanjuan was admitted to Zhejiang Medical University in 1970, and was assigned to work in the First Affiliated Hospital of Zhejiang University after graduation.
Zheng Shusen, the husband of Academician Li Lanjuan, also works in that hospital, and he is a famous surgical expert in China, leading the progress and development of surgical disciplines. The marriage of this academician couple is a beautiful talk in the medical field.
Although they work in the same unit, they are busy with each other.
The date between the two people is also from home to the hospital, from the hospital to the home, in the words of Academician Li Lanjuan: "Often he does surgery on the stage, I discuss problems in the laboratory, and it is common to get one or two o'clock in the middle of the night." "
The wedding night of the two of them was also different from other little couples.
Because of the sudden physical condition of Zheng Shusen's father on the day of the wedding, the couple had to rush back to their hometown overnight. The first night of their wedding was spent on the floor at the Jinhua Railway Station.
After marriage, the husband and wife can only talk together during breakfast throughout the day, and the most talked about is also the patient's condition and other work matters.
Because their love stems from like-mindedness, and their romance comes from mutual affection, the boring academic discussion in the eyes of others is the most touching love story for each other in their eyes.
In order to encourage outstanding talents who have achieved breakthroughs and innovations in medical research and clinical fields, in order to cultivate world-class medical scientists.
Li Lanjuan and her husband Zheng Shusen jointly initiated the establishment of the "Shusen Lanjuan Academician Talent Fund" at Zhejiang University, and took the lead in donating 2 million yuan.
Gao Xiaosong once said a very classic sentence in "Strange Story": "The best feeling is to make us a better version of ourselves, which is the most important." "
True deep feelings, whether it is love or friendship, to always maintain the best state, is to make progress together. One side cannot run too fast and the other side cannot remain still.
Mutual respect and support, mutual support and mutual support for the other half of life become better, is the best guarantee of intimate, stable and long-term relationship between husband and wife.
When Zheng Shusen was about 40 years old, he went to West China Medical University to study for a doctorate, and Li Lanjuan supported her husband to go to Hong Kong to pursue a postdoctoral study after graduation.
During that time, she was paid a salary to support a family of four.
Once, when her father-in-law was seriously ill, Li Lanjuan did not tell him about it in order not to distract her husband.
Instead, she took the eldest son to hold the younger son, ran back to her hometown to wait by her father-in-law's side, gave injections to the elderly for diagnosis and treatment, and fed the old man one by one until the old man recovered.
Coincidentally, Li Lanjuan's 90-year-old mother suffered two fractures, and zheng Shusen was busy before and after, and personally performed surgery for her mother-in-law.
Li Lanjuan and Zheng Shusen are one of the few academician couples in China's scientific community. Countless times of working together in the same boat, only today's couple have a deep affection.
Just a few days ago, a picture was swiped online.
Academician Li Lanjuan sent a circle of friends, the picture is her husband Zheng Shusen cooking in the kitchen. She also accompanied a paragraph: Today I am relaxed, I can not burn Chinese New Year's Eve rice, replaced by Academician Zheng, scalpel to kitchen knife.
If you want to go to the front line to fight the epidemic, I will make meals for you to practice.
It is also a husband's silent support for his wife's work.
Although Li Lanjuan often laughed at her husband, she could not find anything at home, fried vegetables only put water and no oil, and did not know when she was cooking.
Zheng Shusen likes to joke with his wife that he does not do any housework, puts his mind on work all day, and only cooks a meal a year Chinese New Year's Eve.
But they still have an unknown romance.
As long as there is time, Li Lanjuan will accompany Zheng Shusen to watch his favorite Wu opera, and often praise her husband's superb medical skills, very thoughtful at key moments, and often pay for patients to pay for themselves.
The two of them hardly quarrel and are always in a state of love, and Li Lanjuan believes that decades of hand-in-hand progress stem from "like-mindedness, mutual concern; mutual support and mutual understanding." "
17 years ago, Li Lanjuan was the core figure in the fight against SARS, and 17 years later, her name resounded again in the land of China.
In addition to her achievements in medicine, Li Lanjuan's neat and refreshing short hair, round and soft face, and elegant and dignified manners are also well known to everyone.
Even at the age of 72, it can still be described by the word beauty.
Edison famously said: "Good love will penetrate into the soul, warm every blood vessel, beat in every pulse." "
Marriage is good or not, just look at a woman's face to know, because the face will expose a woman's marital status.
A good marriage is a woman's nourishment. As long as you meet the right person, even if you are over the age, you can be as beautiful as a girl.
The bond of marriage is not that children are not money, but the common growth of the spirit.
Whether it is the 65-year marriage between Zhong Nanshan and his wife Li Shaofen, or the 45-year-long marriage between Li Lanjuan and her husband Zheng Shusen, in addition to love, there is also a tacit understanding between the husband and wife, the righteousness of the liver and gallbladder, and the unforgettable kindness.
When the other party needs it most, there is a ta holding up the chin, straightening the spine, accompanying the left and right, and bearing the fate together.
Author: January Yatou, a middle-aged girl who is always 18 years old, a member of the Municipal Writers Association, and a new media multi-platform contracted author. Use words to decompress and express feelings.
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