I believe that many mothers have had such an experience, and every time they give their children to their husbands, they are always uneasy, because many fathers have a larger heart. There is also a saying that often circulates on the Internet: "When there is no danger, Dad is the biggest danger." It is not unreasonable for the vast number of netizens to circulate such words.
"The most unreliable dad" took the baby to become popular and used his daughter as an umbrella
There is a typical example circulating on the Internet, this father with his daughter from driving back from outside, happened to encounter the weather rain without an umbrella, and just happened to be only around the daughter, fortunately the children as "umbrellas" with this scene became popular.
The poor baby was reduced to an umbrella for the "unreliable daddy", and also pulled her daughter's clothes to cover her head, not caring about the way her daughter was drenched in rain.
If such a picture is seen by Bao Ma, then it is not allowed to kneel durian skin?
How big a heart is to have such an operation, no wonder the fathers are often called "unreliable" by the mothers.
For this reason, some netizens said: Looking at this operation, it is not wrong to be biological.
In the absence of danger, why is it "unreliable" for Bao Dad to take the baby?
1, with the baby love lazy, more careless
Most of the mothers with babies are more careful and thoughtful, compared to the fathers, in the absence of danger, often love to be lazy when taking the baby, many details are not paid enough attention to, more careless.
But there are also many netizens reflect that Bao Dad lazily with the baby, since surprised to find that the baby's reaction ability is much faster than before, some babies have experienced the father's way of taking the baby, but also become a lot smarter, do you know why?
2, dad always likes to tease children
It may be that mothers usually take more children and are afraid of children crying, so they always carefully take their children to avoid children crying.
But the fathers are different, sometimes they make the child cry, but also think it is a quite interesting thing, and then can also 180 ° reversal of the child to laugh, I have to say that the brain hole of the fathers is really strange.
3. Lack of experience with babies
Many fathers still lack experience in bringing babies, but this type of person often has very good social skills and understands more about human feelings.
And this kind of bao dad with the baby is the most like to tease the child, but I have to say that their excellent ability, used to take the child, the child's growth is faster, and it is easy to get the father's words and deeds in dealing with people.
Although the baby is not reliable, but whether it is the father or the mother, the child is needed, the parents are indispensable, there are children brought out by the father and the mother, and the growth is more outstanding.
So, how can Bao Dad improve the quality of the baby?
1. Plan your own time and take time to take the baby
Although Bao Dad spends a lot of time at work, there is very little time to accompany the child, and there is less time with the baby, which is likely to become what everyone calls "unreliable dad".
Because there is not enough experience with the baby, so the fathers plan the usual time, take more time to accompany the child after work, and unconsciously improve the experience of the baby.
2. Ask your wife for advice on the experience of taking a baby
Many families often have such a situation, such as usually the mother is with the baby, and suddenly one day the mother is sick, need the father to take care of the child, many fathers are caught off guard for a while, do not know how to make milk powder for the baby and so on.
Therefore, the fathers usually have time, go to the wife to consult more, see how the wife usually brings the baby, learn from the wife with the baby experience, more skills are better than nothing.
3. Interact more with children and solve problems together
Now many people with babies, often children holding mobile phones to play, parents lie while playing with their own mobile phones, are playing their own, and there is less interaction with children.
Parents should usually pay more attention to the interaction with their children and increase the emotional resonance between children and parents.
At the same time, when interacting, parents can appropriately create some interesting small problems, let the children solve this problem, and exercise the child's ability to solve problems.
In general, although some bao dads with babies are unreliable, they can learn through the day after tomorrow to improve the quality of the baby.
A child's healthy and happy growth requires both parents to work together to give the child maternal and fatherly love.
Remind the parents and parents that the so-called accompanying children is not to stay with the children and play with their own, which is of little significance, but requires the interaction between parents and children, understanding each other, and increasing emotional resonance.