Fang Yinuo thought that Xiao Lu was strong, took Hehe to marry Xie Tianhua, and finally denied Ji Tailai, a sudden leukemia, which made everyone chaotic.
No one ever thought that Hehe, a live and jumping child, was lying in the hospital in the blink of an eye. At first, everyone was heartbroken for this child who had only been in the world for 5 years, and she had not yet appreciated the goodness of this world, and it was very likely that she would die like this. However, as the people who placed their hopes on each other could not be matched successfully, it meant that the possibility of Hehe's survival was lost little by little. Just when everyone put aside their past grievances and went all out to rescue Hehe, Fang Yinuo and Xie Tianhua, Xiao Lu and Dong Fan, the relationship between them, was changing.
To be precise, it is a thorn in the flesh, which was known before but deliberately ignored, but now wants to ignore but begins to prick the pain of life.
Love that was "taken away".
For Xie Tianhua and Dong Fan, Hehe was originally a very special existence in their hearts.
Because she was deeply in love with Fang Yinuo, after her divorce, Xie Tianhua's care and companionship made the two of them quickly walk together. This decision, in the Xie family, was completely like a stone falling into the water, and a stone stirred up a thousand layers of waves. Especially Xie Tianhua's sister Xie Dan, she couldn't understand why her brother was looking for an older, divorced woman with children.
But Xie Tianhua didn't care about this, and he tried hard to get his family to accept the mother and daughter. The kung fu paid off, his efforts were not in vain, Fang Yinuo's forbearance and Hehe's understanding soon made the Xie family accept them.
During the day, Xie Tianhua runs his own small shop, and at night, he looks at the woman he likes and the daughter who shouts at his father, and the hot kangtou of his wife and children as the saying goes, really happens in front of his eyes. Xie Tianhua, who was completely surrounded by a sense of satisfaction, did not expect that Hehe's sudden leukemia finally saw Fang Yinuo's heart.
Since Hehe fell ill, Xie Tianhua noticed that the money Fang Yinuo gave to Hehe for treatment was all her own savings. Several times, he took the initiative to open his mouth and Fang Yinuo said that he hoped to use his own money, but he was always rejected by Fang Yinuo.
Xie Tianhua knew Fang Yinuo's intentions in her heart, she didn't want Xie Tianhua to be difficult in front of her family, but even if she was kind, she always revealed a little bit of strangeness and distance in it. Because in Xie Tianhua's heart, people who truly love each other do not distinguish between each other. Since this time, a seed of calculation has been planted in Xie Tianhua's heart.
This is the change of the human heart and the complexity of human nature.
Mo Yan once said a sentence:
Human nature, in fact, is as thin and fragile as a blank piece of paper, and it is broken with a slight poke.
The human heart is inherently fragile, but the most fatal thing is to start self-doubting and to match other people's evaluations of them. Xie Tianhua was facing, and Dong Fan was also facing.
Dong Fan thinks that she is a new-age woman and does not care that Xiao Lu is divorced and has a daughter, so not long after she and Xiao Lu met, they were licensed to marry.
Dong Fan loves Xiao Lu very much, the kind he loves to the bone. She knows Xiao Lu's past, and even hopes to be a bridge between Xiao Lu and his ex-wife.
Therefore, when Xiao Lu took the initiative to find Fang Yinuo with the invitation, she was not demonstrating or showing off, nor was she malicious, she just wanted her husband to be able to see his daughter Hehe in a bright and upright way.
However, after Hehe fell ill, Dong Fan saw a side that Xiao Lu had never had before, to be precise, when he devoted himself to his love.
At this time, Xiao Lu had Hehe in his head and Hehe in his eyes, and in order to earn money for Hehe to see a doctor, he even parted ways with Lao Su, who had been working together for many years.
Especially as Fang Yinuo allowed Xiao Lu to visit Hehe, he gave all his energy to Hehe, leaving Dong Fan, the beautiful wife, alone in the empty room.
For a moment, Dong Fan was in a trance: Is a child really so important to a family? She even talked to her parents about wanting to have a baby. But Dong's mother's words poked her deep inside:
If you really want to have children, your parents support you unconditionally. But if you don't really want to have children, your mother will worry about you.
Dong's mother saw at a glance that Dong Fan suddenly wanted to have a child, not really like it, but because Hehe had taken away all of Xiao Lu's love, Dong Fan wanted to use the child to get Xiao Lu's attention.
When a child is sick, it involves the hearts of 4 people. This is the root cause of the bigger problems that halfway couples face.
Maupassant once said:
People's vulnerability and strength are beyond their imagination. Sometimes I may be so fragile that I cry with a single word, and sometimes I find myself gritting my teeth and walking a long way.
Subconsciously, it hurts the most.
Watching Xiao Lu appear in the ward brightly and honestly, and to sue Hehe, Fang Yinuo was really uneasy in her heart, although she had divorced, but she was too clear about Xiao Lu's shortcomings. Therefore, she repeatedly told Xiao Lu to say, especially: "You set an alarm clock, who can call you up when you feel that", just a sentence that subconsciously accuses Xiao Lu of shortcomings, she suddenly found that she had done something wrong.
Whether a person has another person in his heart can be seen to some extent by his subconscious reaction.
Fang Yinuo had thought that her daughter Hehe was the only remaining bond between her and Xiao Lu, and if it were not for her daughter's illness, she really planned to have no contact with Xiao Lu.
However, Hehe had leukemia, which became the biggest variable between her and her ex-husband. Whether it is from the aspect of saving people or the treatment, now she, including the Xie family, cannot afford to bear huge expenses. So when Xiao Lu repeatedly expressed through Xie Tianhua that she wanted to do something for Hehe, she finally chose to agree.
Therefore, the original intention of her saying that sentence was to remind Xiao Lu that he must pay attention to the child's situation at night, but he could not wake up from sleep, and at this moment, this scene was told, but it hurt Xie Tianhua next to him.
Similarly, Xiao Lu did the same to Dong Fan.
It is common for people to be sick and their biological parents to be anxious. But Xiao Lu forgot about his current wife, the situation she was facing.
Dong Fan was very different, she didn't mind Xiao Lu going to see Hehe every week, these actions had become a responsible advantage in Dong Fan's eyes.
However, Hehe's illness broke the original peace between her and Xiao Lu. Gradually, she found that Xiao Lu, who had the charm of a mature man, came home every day only tired and sad. However, as long as Hehe had news, Xiao Lu would immediately be full of vitality and smile.
Perhaps, Xiao Lu did not notice his own changes, nor even thought about the consequences of his doing so, but his subconscious actions made Dong Fan, who understood things, really hurt.
Write at the end.
Mr. Yang Dai once said:
In this life, people are nothing more than knowing themselves, refining themselves, and consciously and voluntarily transforming themselves.
Because we have love in our hearts, we are willing to change ourselves. However, once the mind begins to calculate, it will draw a hole in the word love.
No one can take care of everyone, but at least what we can do is to let the people we love and love ourselves get a balance within our own capabilities, rather than relying on that trust and pampering and letting go of ourselves.