On the way to raising a baby, Bao Mom can always hear some "good words". These "good words" seem to be full of good intentions, but in fact, every sentence makes Bao Ma want to collapse.
On the way to raising a baby, the 5 sentences that my mother is most annoyed to hear, have you also been tricked?
01. Your milk is too thin for your child to eat
After giving birth, breastfeeding is a big thing for the mother, and the mother is constantly groping, trying to make the baby drink the most nutritious milk. However, at this time, you can always hear the people around you commenting on their milk.
Your milk is too thin for your child to eat
You have less milk, so add some milk powder
The child has diarrhea, is there a problem with the milk
Comments about milk came flooding in, which made the already exhausted mother even more devastated.
In fact, thin milk does not mean that there is no nutrition, milk is divided into three layers, the first layer is called "pre-milk", "pre-milk" does look a little thin, but rich in minerals, it is very important for babies.
When the baby eats the second and third layers, the milk will become thick.
02. How the child is crying again
How did the child cry again, was he not full?
How to look at the child, how the child always cries
In the eyes of many people, the child's crying is that the mother does not bring well, does not care, or the child does not eat enough and is protesting.
For young children, crying is a normal reaction, at this time the child almost uses crying to express all his needs, not only hungry to cry, sleepy to cry. Bored, tired of playing, wet diapers, children will cry. If the child blames the mother as soon as he cries, it can only add to the psychological burden of the mother.
03. Have a second child to be a companion for your child
After giving birth to the baby, bao mom is busy every day, in this panic moment, many people will mention the second child problem with bao mom.
Let's have another child, so that the two children will have a companion
Have a second child, don't worry about the pension problem in the future
Moms, who are being tortured by heavy childcare work, are often very irritable when they hear such words. Everyone has their own birth plan, and there is no need to dictate other people's lives.
04. You're a stay-at-home mom, but it's so easy
When Bao Ma walks a baby, she may be asked about her profession, and when she learns that Bao Ma is a full-time mother, some people will say: You are a full-time mother, but it is really easy.
Is it really easy for stay-at-home mothers, I'm afraid that moms who have done this "profession" don't think so. Stay-at-home moms are a kind of work that is on standby 24 hours a day, all year round, and the heartache and helplessness of which many people cannot imagine.
05. How can the child still wear diapers when he is so old
There are also many remarks about the lack of wet diapers, and when taking the baby out, the mother may hear such words.
How can the child still wear diapers when he is so old
Always wear diapers children can not learn to go to the toilet, to urinate can be
After 18 months, the excretory system will gradually mature, and giving the baby urine before this is completely beneficial to the baby.
On the way to parenting, Bao Ma is facing many new challenges, physically and psychologically under great pressure, at this time to hear some "good words", Bao Ma will feel very distressed and irritable.
As a person around Bao Ma, giving Bao Ma more support, some encouragement, and some warmth is the right way.