Why is it that taking a baby is most likely to cause contradictions between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law? To put it simply, washing the baby's ass can trigger a war between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.
The neighbor's family added a new baby girl, but before the confinement came out, the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law quarreled.
To wash the baby's ass, Bao Mom bought a lot of wet paper towels, saying that it was for the baby to wipe the fart. The mother-in-law felt that it was more economical and clean to wash with towels and warm water.
In the end, Bao Dad came forward to coordinate and let Bao Mom listen.
However, I have been wiping my ass with a wet wipe for my baby, not only is the red fart very serious, but once the baby also has a fever. After the examination, it was learned that the fart was not cleaned up, a little infected, and needed treatment.
During the time of the baby's treatment, the mother-in-law almost every time she washed the baby's ass, she would count down a few words of baoma, blaming her for having too much money to spend and harming the baby.
Later, the mother-in-law has been using towels and water to wash the baby's farts. However, the baby is still red ass serious. The mother-in-law and daughter-in-law quarreled again, and quarreled again in front of the doctor.
Then the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law know that washing the baby's ass, washing with water, and wiping wipes is actually wrong. The right approach is simple, just a few important little details that have been overlooked.
01 Wash your baby's farts, wash with water, wipes are actually wrong
Washing
The water washing mentioned here is the traditional way at home, that is, using a clean cotton cloth, dipping in water, and scrubbing the baby. In this way, the cotton cloth washes away the dirty things on the fart, and the water stream also rinses the fart clean.
However, in the process of this scrubbing, the cotton cloth constantly rubs the baby's delicate fart, and the baby may have to wash the fart more than ten times a day, which will destroy the protective film on the baby's fart skin, which is very easy to red fart.
In addition, many people will habitually squeeze the cotton cloth dry after washing the baby's fart and wipe the water droplets on the baby's fart. This process is another heavy injury, and there is still moisture left. Baby farts are not dry, directly wear diapers are not wet, but also very easy to red farts.
Therefore, the traditional method of washing is not advisable.
Wipe with wipes
This is probably the way many young people like it now, but there are two big problems with wiping wipes.
Question 1: The choice of wipes
The wipes look clean, white, wet and can be wiped directly to the baby. However, its level of hygiene, whether it meets the standard, needs to be marked with a question mark.
If you use wet wipes, then parents must choose regular enterprise production to ensure safety.
Secondly, different wipes, the composition is also different, some wipes will contain alcohol and other more irritating ingredients, which will be a great harm to the baby's skin. Therefore, before buying, be sure to look at the details of use, ingredients and so on.
Question 2: How clean the wipes are
No matter how good the wipes are, it is difficult to clean up completely by simply using the wipes to wipe the baby's fart. Especially girls, in the process of cleaning, may also wipe unclean substances everywhere, easy to cause infection, the neighbor's children, is this reason.
Therefore, simply wiping it with a wet wipe is not enough.
02 The correct way to wash your baby's ass, parents learn it
The right steps to wash your baby's ass require all of the above: a cotton-dry towel, warm water, and qualified wipes.
Step 1: Wipes are used after lukewarm water
The combination of wet wipes and warm water can not only remove the irritating ingredients inside, but also its soft material will be less harmful to the baby's skin. Moreover, you can also wash your ass with running water, and you can wash your ass more cleanly.
Step 2: "Wipe" changed to "Wipe"
Even if you use wet wipes, don't "wipe" your baby's ass, just "dip" and wash it. Reduces the friction between the wipes and the baby's ass, which protects the protective layer of the baby's skin.
Step 3: Use a towel to dry up the water
Not dry, but prepare a dry, cotton towel to dry the water from your baby's ass. It should be noted that even if it is only used to absorb moisture, the cotton cloth needs to be changed frequently.
If you do not have a very soft cotton cloth, you can also choose a cotton towel.
Step 4: Dry your ass and wear it again to keep the diapers wet
To reduce red farts, dryness is the foundation.
Sometimes even if you use cotton cloth and cotton soft towel to suck your baby's ass, you can't completely suck it dry. At this time, parents can hold the baby to dry their farts, or dry for a while, and then wear diapers after they are completely dry.
03 Baby fart care, a few small details are very important
Detail 1: the cloth and water for washing the baby's ass must be clean and hygienic;
Detail two: the baby's fart is very delicate, wiping will destroy the protective layer, the protective layer to protect the baby's skin is very important;
Detail three: Stay away from red farts, farts should be dry!
Detail four: the diaper is not wet, must be changed frequently!
Message
In fact, on the road of parenting, there are many contradictions between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, because the "main contradiction point" has not been found. For example, the care of the baby's ass, if you pay attention to a few details, then the way is not important, the results will be very good.