Hello everyone, I am the lazy mother Qingchen who just gave birth to the second eldest, and I am still in the month.
When it comes to the birth of a child, diapers are a matter that must be mentioned.
Many parents will prepare diapers for newborns, and some people oppose the use of diapers.
Diapers and the newborn's "grudge"
EH: Diapers are easy to use, but also can reduce the parenting work of washing diapers; disposable diapers are relatively safe and hygienic; newborns have a lot of feces and urine, and the diapers are not wet and absorbent, which can keep the skin dry.
Complaint: Newborns have delicate skin, many excretions, and are particularly prone to red farts. Whether it is a problem of diapers or not, there are always people who like to blame the problem on the diapers.
Once the lazy mother also blamed the diaper because of the big treasure red fart, and later found that it was caused by the son's frequent diarrhea, and when the diarrhea was better, the red fart was naturally better.
Affection: When changing the diaper, communicate with the newborn to promote feelings.
The newborn sleeps all day, how to connect with him? The answer is when the diaper is not wet!
When the mother opened the child's swaddle and lifted the calf, she slipped it: "Ah, I said why does it stink so much?" Oops, pulled so much, stinks to death..." Mom pad clean diapers are not wet, while drying and nagging, and finally will pat the little ass, gently asked: "Baby, is it comfortable now?" "This nagging of love is an important nutrient for a baby's psychological development. In addition to eating, drinking, and sleeping, children also need this psychological stimulation.
Since the diaper is simple and convenient to use, the mother has enough time to chat with the baby and do the exhaust exercise for Bao at the right time.
enmity:
Diapers are the largest consumable for newborns, need about 12 tablets a day, a pack of looks, a pack of diapers is about 100 yuan, a month on the diaper is not wet costs about 500 yuan.
Everything has two sides, diapers are not wet because it is a one-time, so the cost is higher, it is easy to cause economic contradictions or child-rearing methods. If the mother is not happy because of these contradictions, she cannot take the child well, and the baby will also feel unhappy.
Before the birth of the child, the expectant parents can try to see if there is anyone in the family who opposes the use of diapers, and then plan a parenting plan to avoid family conflicts caused by diapers.
How newborns do not wet with diapers
1. How to prepare newborns for diapers
Specifications: Choose a price, brand suitable NB (newborn number) number diaper is not wet.
Quantity: According to the number of days of hospitalization, prepare at least one pack of diapers in advance, which can reduce the content of the package to be delivered. After returning home, the diaper is consumed at a rate of one large bag a week, averaging about 12 tablets a day. Because babies grow faster, there is no need to hoard too many NB numbers at home, just buy them in time.
2. How to wear diapers for newborns?
When to change: before or after each feeding, after each bowel movement, before your baby goes to bed, when your baby wakes up, before you take your baby out.
Most diapers have an "observation line", you can see if the baby is excreting outside the diaper, when the shallow yellow line becomes a deep blue, it means that the baby has excretion.
When the baby wakes up, first change the diaper and then feed. Like my second treasure, often after drinking milk, you have to, you have to fall asleep when you are full, at this time you have to change the diapers, which can only disturb her sleep, and it is easy to spit up milk. After the change, there are no sleepy bugs, and it takes a few more bites of milk to fall asleep.
How to replace:
First of all, prepare everything together: clean diapers, baby peeing mattress, a small basin of warm water, cotton soft paper towels, and comfrey oil if there is a red fart phenomenon.
Many people struggle with whether they can use wet wipes, and although lazy mothers also prepare wet wipes, they are only used for going out. Wet cotton soft paper towels in warm water at home to wipe your baby's ass.
Secondly, replace the baby: first put the diaper pad flat (there is no diaper pad can be replaced by old clothes, mainly to avoid staining the sheets with urine and so on), let the baby lie flat on it, untie the dirty diaper, first pad under the fart, and then wipe it clean with wet cotton soft paper (the female treasure needs to be from top to bottom, and extra careful), and then throw away the old diaper is not wet, and replace it with clean diaper. If you have a red fart, you can apply it in advance with a cotton pad dipped in comfrey oil.
Many people will say that you must wash with clean water, if you have someone in your family and have the conditions to wash it with clean water, it is of course very good. Winter is cold, children wear more, newborns are not easy to hold, water washing is more troublesome. The lazy mother and both children are wiped with warm water wet cotton soft paper, and there is no bad result.
When throwing away the diaper is not wet, you can wrap it up and wrap it up. It is more comfortable to look at this way, and the cleaning people will not step on the thunder.
3. What do you need to pay attention to when using diapers
Consider umbilical cord care: in order to avoid diapers rubbing the umbilicus, fold the upper edge of the diapers inward and outward, exposing the umbilicus, and the bilateral tape sticks to the non-wet and smooth surface of the diaper.
Don't be stingy, change frequently: In the early stage, regardless of whether the child has urine or not, it should be changed every 2-3 hours. As your child grows, the number of changes to diapers will gradually decrease.
Proper elasticity: the size, width and elasticity of the diaper should be appropriate, too wide and too tight will affect children's activities and abrasion of external genitalia, too narrow, too loose will cause stool overflow.
During the replacement process, it is necessary to act briskly, pay attention to keep warm, reduce exposure, and prevent children from getting cold or injured.
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