The relationship between daughters-in-law has always been a topic that everyone pays more attention to.
People often say that a good daughter-in-law usually does not meet a good mother-in-law, and a good mother-in-law cannot meet a good daughter-in-law.
In real life, many mother-in-laws and daughters-in-law are like natural enemies, which makes people sigh endlessly, of course, there are also many mothers-in-law and daughter-in-law who love mother and daughter, which makes people envious.
A few days ago, in Dongguan, Guangdong, a female netizen who had just finished giving birth shared the confinement meal made by her mother-in-law on the Internet, complaining that the confinement meal made by her mother-in-law could not be eaten, which attracted the attention and hot discussion of netizens.
The woman said that she had given birth to a child, it was currently the 8th day after childbirth, and her body was still very weak, because she did not have much milk, and she was also very troubled, especially after the mother-in-law made the confinement meal to the woman, the woman completely collapsed.
The woman complained: "I really can't stand it, my mother-in-law said that papaya pig's foot soup can be drunk more under the milk, and the pig's foot can supplement collagen and milk, but this soup has so much fat, don't you know that it will block the milk." How come this pig's foot is all fat? Who can eat it? ”
I can see that the woman is very dissatisfied with the confinement meal made by her mother-in-law, and the chopsticks pick and pick a bite and do not eat, and the mother-in-law is too greasy to eat.
Then I also asked netizens to find a like-minded daughter-in-law: What do you all eat for confinement meals? Is there anything like me?
For the woman's complaints, netizens did not buy the bill, have expressed their own views, some netizens said that the woman is too pretentious, such a confinement meal is not wrong, and said that the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is not good, can not only blame the mother-in-law, because there are too many daughters-in-law who do not know good villains!
For the confinement meal with meat and vegetable soup, some people said that this is really good, and there is an egg, the mother-in-law is very careful, the meat and vegetarian collocation and soup, do you want to eat dragon meat? I am blessed in the midst of a blessing.
There are also netizens with boys who are worried: Seeing this, I am so nervous, I will be a mother-in-law after my son gets married, and I want to be a mother-in-law, and I am afraid of being a mother-in-law, it seems that the future mother-in-law will earn money, will make various meals, and have to learn daughter-in-law psychology, otherwise it will be posted on the Internet to complain that it is not a good mother-in-law!
The author believes that since the mother-in-law has made such an exquisite confinement meal, it can be seen that it is a very careful mother-in-law, if the woman is not satisfied with the confinement meal, she can directly communicate with the mother-in-law, let the mother-in-law do it according to her own ideas, and believe that the mother-in-law will not mind.
This directly complains on the Internet and distorts the mother-in-law's kindness, which will actually chill the mother-in-law's heart, after all, people are comparing their hearts to their hearts.
The good in any relationship is mutual, including the mother-in-law relationship, first you do what you should do, the other party accepts or does not accept it is not something you can control.
If she accepts, you continue to treat her like this, and if she does not accept, then we will stop and keep our distance, so as not to be resentful.
It is said that a good daughter-in-law cannot meet a good mother-in-law, or a good mother-in-law cannot meet a good daughter-in-law.
And those who feel that they are good daughters-in-law, but have not met a good mother-in-law, or feel that they are a good mother-in-law but have not met a good daughter-in-law, in fact, they have not grasped the "good" measure.
Maybe you want "good" beyond the scope of others can give, or force the other party to be so "good" to you, if the expectations are too high, once you can't reach it, resentment will arise.
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