Parents are a child's first teacher.
From the beginning of the fall, parents began to care about the growth of their children, with their own practice, to give children good guidance; it is not an exaggeration to say that every child's growth from behind, is inseparable from the parents' efforts.
From the perspective of family education, the reason why children are excellent is precisely because of their parents.
Smart parents can grasp family life, urge children to develop in a positive and healthy direction, and guide them to develop good habits; in learning life, children are mostly positive and enterprising, and their academic performance is excellent.
For parents, they play an important guiding role in family education; if you want to help your children, what skills should you master? Excellent parents, the 5 "basic skills" that need to be mastered are indispensable.
01 Believe in the power of knowledge.
Under the influence of parents, the earlier a child's reading habits, the more conducive to personal development.
If a parent can believe in the power of knowledge, he can also insist on reading, and have good reading habits, not only can give his child an intuitive influence, but also drive his child to read and improve together.
You know, reading books can not only broaden horizons, but also make a person more focused.
Under the leadership of parents, children develop the habit of reading, they will not be disturbed by a lot of entertainment, thus waste a good time, and can also get the opportunity to improve faster from the process of reading.
Especially when parents have the awareness of parent-child reading, and take their children to read together, they can not only maintain good communication with their children, but also make children have a special love for books.
02 Have a growth mindset.
In fact, before entering the school, children face a critical period of growth.
During this period, parents have always been the object of their efforts to imitate, and unconsciously, parents have become the child's first teacher; whether parents want to or not, whether they are aware of this, their words and deeds have been affecting the growth of children.
A parent who lacks discipline for his child is bound to fail to do a good job as a teacher.
However, a parent with a growth mindset can understand that they are responsible for their children, and from then on, they can cultivate their children's good behavior habits, give their children some encouragement, and tap their growth potential.
Especially when the child shows a certain potential, if the parents treat it with a negative attitude, it will affect the child's growth; on the contrary, those parents with growth thinking can find this and use positive hints to help the child tap their own potential.
03 Mood has been stable.
What kind of family atmosphere will shape what kind of students.
Sometimes, I have to admit this, whether parents can control their emotions will play a crucial role in the growth of their children; for example, parents who are prone to anger, children are also prone to emotional loss of control.
On the contrary, if parents get along happily and can treat people calmly, then the impact on the child is also obvious, and in such an environment, the child will become a reasonable and emotionally stable person.
If you want your child to be a physically and mentally healthy person, parents may wish to start with self-discipline.
Everything can be thirty and then act, can be considered from the perspective of the overall situation of family happiness, more for the sake of children's growth, presumably parents can effectively restrain emotions, so as to pass on the concept of health to children.
04 Can have a child's heart.
Good parents, first of all, to establish an honest relationship with their children.
Only by winning the trust of the child can we truly be friends with the child in family life; at the critical time, we can listen to the child's heart, but also stand on the other side's position and give pertinent suggestions.
In fact, childlike heart is a very precious thing for adults.
With the growth of children, parents can regain their childlike hearts, not only to mingle with their children, but also to really squat down, to understand the children's world, to understand their real needs.
When parents can do this, their words and deeds will further affect the child's behavior, so as to better play an exemplary role.
05 Adhere to the habit of exercise.
A good family atmosphere is not just about getting along with each other.
For the happiness and health of the family, parents should also be a person who insists on exercise, take the child when necessary, go to training and growth together, and establish the concept of physical health and exercise help to grow for the child.
In family life, if you want to become a truly excellent parent, parents should also use a rigorous attitude to grasp the critical period of their children's growth and give each other good educational guidance.
Usually, if parents can insist on doing sports, children will also like sports.
A family that insists on exercising is good for the child's development; it can not only sharpen the child's perseverance, but also help the child become a person with excellent physical fitness.
The growth of children is inseparable from the efforts of every parent.
If you want to grasp family education, give children a good living environment, and urge them to develop habits that contribute to physical and mental development, parents need to be strict with themselves and strive to be an example.
Excellent parents, in family life, need to master the 5 "basic skills", one is indispensable; I hope to be able to give parents, a certain reference significance.