"Heart Residence" finally ushered in the finale, Ge Yue personally saw Gu Xin and Feng Xiqian together after collapsing and mentioning divorce, Gu Xin was imprisoned for three years and was defeated, the two could have divorced immediately, but Ge Yue left the second child and proposed to leave after three years.
Ge Yue is an absolute victim in this marriage, she has suffered too many grievances and endured too many humiliations, but why did she choose not to leave when she could divorce? What did these three years mean for Ge Yue and Gu Xin?
The difference between loving and not loving
Marriage is based on love, Ge Yue loves Gu Xin, but Gu Xin does not love Ge Yue.
Ge Yue is a very simple girl, has not been in love, the love of her parents has not encountered any setbacks, and the smoothness of the first half of her life has led to her passivity in the marriage relationship.
After Ge Yue's father was investigated, Gu Xin saw that the old man's face had changed without hope. Before, he could still take care of his wife's feelings a little, but now he didn't even bother to deal with it.
When Ge Yue was confined, Gu Xin happened to be on a business trip, and the daily video was a simple greeting, and he didn't want to say a word, even Su Wangdi (Gu Xin's mother), who was not pleasing to his daughter-in-law, couldn't see it, accusing Gu Xin, but he still went his own way.
Most importantly, Gu Xin cheated on Feng Xixi shortly after Ge Yue gave birth to a child, and he enjoyed it. Later, Ge Yue learned about his relationship with Feng Xiqian, but she did not poke it in person, but chose to forgive.
It can be said that Ge Yue's love for Gu Xin is humble and firm, whether it is for the sake of the child or for herself, Ge Yue has endured too much.
Looking at Feng Xixi again, it can be basically concluded that she has no love for Gu Xin, only use and desire.
When Feng Xiaoqin asked Feng Xixi why she wanted to destroy other people's families, Feng Xixi said that Gu Xin was such a man, who broke up with his ex-girlfriend, no matter who just hooked his finger, he was hooked, even if it was not her, there would be others.
Feng Xiaoqin said that he was not afraid of Ge Yue's discovery? As a result, Feng Xixi said that Gu Xin had eaten Ge Yue and knew that she would not be so!
Look, Gu Xin ate Ge Yue, but Feng Xiqian ate Gu Xin, she seduced Gu Xin for performance, and money is the most important thing in her eyes.
At the last moment, Gu Xin was sentenced to three years in prison, and Feng Xiqian was also involved, but she was able to be safe and sound, was there no Gu Xin's cover for her?
Gu Xin ruined his life for Feng Xixi, Feng Xixi coaxed him to resist everything and then fled away, while Ge Yue was injured in the marriage, but promised to take care of his parents for three years and give birth to two children. In contrast, love and non-love are clear at a glance!
The better Ge Yue, the more Gu Xin was heartbroken. The moment Ge Yue left from prison, Gu Xin burst into tears, with hatred and more regret! Just as the so-called prodigal son does not change his head, Ge Yue hopes to exchange his own efforts for Xin's conscience, after all, he once loved!
Worthy versus unworthy
Many people think that Ge Yue is too stupid, and it is really not worth delaying himself for three years for Gu Xin, a scumbag!
He used to be so cruel, not only ruined himself, but also ruined this family, Ge Yue was too honest, actually wanted to help him take care of his parents, and also gave birth to a child in his belly, is not stupid what?
In the eyes of outsiders, Ge Yue's divorce after three years is very unworthy, but in Ge Yue's heart, it is worth it! These three years are worth her feelings for Gu Xin, and it is also worth Gu Xin's parents' concern for themselves, and it is more worth giving her time to wake up and grow.
As already said above, Ge Yue loves Gu Xin too much, she can't bear to give Gu Xin a final blow, no matter what others say, she can't bear it, and she can't bear it, which is the most important reason why she insists on not divorcing.
In addition, Ge Yue attaches great importance to home, she can't bear to let her child be born without a home, she needs time, she needs a process to change all this. This is also the reason why Ge Yue knew that Gu Xin was cheating but did not dare to expose it in person. She had been deceiving herself, but when she saw Gu Xin with Feng Xiqian with her own eyes, her emotional world collapsed in an instant, and she could no longer find any reason for herself to escape, at that time she had to leave without divorce, but in fact, she refused in her heart.
That day, judging from Gu Xin's reaction, he should also care about this family, so in the original work, Ge Yue and Gu Xin had a long time on the issue of divorce. Later, Gu Xin was arrested, which gave Ge Yue time and space to ease up, and she chose to let go and delay, which may be a good thing for her.
Some people say that Ge Yue did not divorce because he wanted to get revenge on his mother-in-law! Oh, if this is the case, then Ge Yue is not stupid, but lacks heart and eyes! I think on the contrary, Ge Yue did not divorce because he wanted to repay his in-laws, not to retaliate.
After Ge Yue gave birth to her first child, her mother-in-law Su Wangdi was very kind to her, helping to take the child 24 hours a day, without complaints, and careful and thoughtful. Gu Xin was not close to Ge Yue, and Su Wangdi also taught her son many times to take the breath for her daughter-in-law. Why did the mother-in-law get better? Because she knows that her son and husband are a virtue, and her bitterness does not want her daughter-in-law to eat again, Ge Yue should be able to feel the change of her mother-in-law.
Su Wangdi is not a bad mother-in-law from the bones, but she lacks oral virtue. When Gu Xin's grandmother, Mrs. Gu, was hospitalized, it was actually Su Wangdi, the daughter-in-law, who took the most care, changing diapers, washing clothes, feeding, thoughtful and meticulous, and willing. Judging from Su Wangdi's attitude towards her mother-in-law, she is really not a bad person, and Ge Yue also looks at it. Comparing hearts to hearts, how could a kind girl like Ge Yue not be able to appreciate the kindness of her mother-in-law? She should also be distressed about her in-laws and is not willing to abandon them!
In addition, Ge Yue will go to work after giving birth to the child in her belly, and after experiencing so much, she has also grown, she needs to face her colleagues, face her relatives, and face the cruel society. If she turns around and divorces and leaves, then the gossip of others can overwhelm her, and instead of that, give yourself time to digest.
Will Ge Yue finally choose divorce? Definitely!
In the original work, after Ge Yue saw Gu Xin, he went to find a male colleague who once liked him, on the one hand, to intercede for Gu Xin, on the other hand, to find a way out for himself. That day, she made overtures to the male colleague and wanted to sing Yue Qu to her very vaguely, knowing that she had a child in her belly because she sang Yue Qu to Gu Xin.
epilogue:
Some people say that the characters in this drama are not grounded, only Ge Yue is the most real one, maybe it is really like this!
Any woman will be helpless, incredulous, or even unwilling to face her husband's betrayal. Escape is incompetent in the eyes of others, but no one knows what it means to the person concerned once the window paper is broken. Ge Yue has always been in a passive state in her marriage, so she can't withstand any wind and grass, and she has worked very hard to do so!
May all women be loved and cared for, can become strong, can be brave and forward, but also have the ability to protect themselves and the important people around them from harm, may there be no more Sorrow of Ge Yue in life!