Do not write homework, motherly and filial piety
As soon as I wrote my homework, the chicken flew and the dog jumped
Especially in the context of the pandemic
Children take online classes
Mom and Dad work from home
One party feels that the child is unconscious
One party feels that the parents are too much
Contradictions do not arise like this
Not long ago
"Mom tutors kids homework crash breaks 2 tablets"
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Attracted 120 million readers
The parents in the video say
"Five or six times is not right
They were all mad
I have lost my mind
See if she still wants to play with the iPad
I can't get angry
I dropped her iPad..."
Parents in the comments have also appeared to speak
In fact, during the non-online course, we can often see various passages describing the tutoring homework scene on the Internet, and in the context of the online class, because of the 24-hour no contact between parents and children, this contradiction is put even bigger.
How to create a good parent-child relationship with your children in the context of online classes or in the context of daily life? Parents may wish to try these methods:
1 Empathy
Don't always think about "why my child is inferior to others", but also think about "Whether I am a qualified parent", think about whether the expectation value of the child is within a reasonable range, whether it fully considers the actual situation of the child's age and mind, alleviates their own anxiety, and avoids emotional transmission.
2 Grasp the scale
Some parents install cameras in their children's rooms, and some parents like to check their children's homework several times and then upload them, in fact, this is because parents have failed to grasp the boundaries of parent-child interaction. Online class time is actually a good time to exercise children's self-management, parents can gradually do a good job of guidance, but do not be child-centered everywhere, too much booing and warming, excessive reading, for the occasional error or deficiency in the middle, parents should try to be tolerant and understanding.
3 Lead by example
Parents' teaching by example may be better than words, instead of trying to correct the problems in children's learning through chattering or even roaring, it is better to lead by example and subtly influence children with their own correct behavior. Although you can't overly participate in the child's learning process, you can accompany the child to formulate a learning plan, arrange a learning place, discuss difficult points, test the learning results, etc., while participating, guiding, so that the child can unload the resistance to the parents' "discipline".
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Getting along with parents is a science, and getting along with children is actually the same. As children, we always feel that the older generation thinks too old-fashioned and manages too much. At the same time, as parents, we may also be perceived by our children as too broad and unkind.
Online classes are a magnifying glass that reflects the loopholes in the communication bridge between parents and children. If we can use this opportunity to fix the loophole, then parents and children will surely get along more harmoniously in the long days to come.