It is said that "men are afraid of entering the wrong line, and women are afraid of marrying the wrong man", because in the past, it was not easy to learn a craft, and worshiping a teacher was already a big threshold, and even if he succeeded in worshiping a teacher, he would be tested by the master for several years.
So once a man chooses a certain craft, it is really difficult to change careers later, and the same is true for women getting married, there were too many various constraints on women in the past, and divorce was regarded as a shame.
Therefore, even if many women are not very happy after marriage, or even suffer grievances, they often choose to swallow their anger and never want to divorce.
But now it's different, now everyone's tolerance for divorce is very high, seventy or eighty years old divorce is very large, young people are not good at all can divorce.
Men are more afraid of marrying the wrong daughter-in-law than women, but now men have a high cost of marriage and a higher cost of divorce, so many men do not want to divorce easily even if they are unhappy.
Now boys get married without a house and a car, it seems that they are not worthy of marriage, and some people still want you to give a high bride price, and do not want to get married without giving you.
Many men empty their family wallets in order to get married, if they really marry a virtuous wife, in fact, it is still cost-effective, and they are most afraid of encountering a bad woman, which is simply a family disaster.
Just choose to swallow your anger and not divorce, and make your home a miasma every day, not only can not become a virtuous helper, but also drag your hind legs from time to time.
Even if you choose to divorce and divorce, the woman can also take a large amount of property, some men will even choose to go out of the house and leave the property to their wives, age is a shackle to women and a shackle to men, and it is very difficult for men to remarry when they are older.
So how to find a good match is a topic that men and women need to face together, and even say that men should pay more attention to it than women.
For example, there is a kind of woman, men must not touch, the light is not peaceful at home, the heavy is a lifetime of suffering, and it is impossible to escape from it.
There is a kind of woman who is not scummy or bad, but you live with her, and the two of you not only can't get better, but will consume each other.
No matter what contradictions arise between you, she feels that she is right, people will have problems, there will be mistakes, and a person who claims to be right is the biggest mistake in himself.
In the face of the contradictions between you, the other party will neither reflect on himself nor take care of your feelings, even if you want to communicate with him well, he is still on top.
How can a person who feels that he is not wrong bow his head to you, even if the other party is really wrong, she will be hard with you to the end and mess with you.
But when it comes to you, she will put all the responsibility on you, and it is because of you that he has made these mistakes.
Then you start to pick all kinds of problems in you, as long as the person wants to find trouble, the egg can also pick out the bones, although it sounds very magical, but the reality is so.
After being by the other party, in the end, your temper has deteriorated, as if you don't want to live a good life, but she has become the little woman who has been wronged in marriage.
In fact, she obviously didn't want to pass, but she didn't say it, and used all kinds of means to force you into that evil person, so that you could carry all the faults alone.
Living with such a woman, even if you have a good temper, you will be driven crazy by her, when a person can't see his own mistakes, don't realize his own problems, then she will always blame others.
When men meet such a woman, they must not think of changing each other, because the country is easy to change, and the nature is difficult to move.