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Everyone has emotions.
However, when you meet someone you like, it will seem as if you have changed as a person in an instant.
You will put away your temper, stop fooling around, stop throwing tantrums, become tolerant, become smiley, as if overnight, from a child to an adult.
Unfortunately, life is not satisfactory, and it will always be nine times out of ten. If you love someone again, it is inevitable that there will be some small misunderstandings, and you will not be able to control your emotions because the other party has done something that annoys you.
Perhaps, in the eyes of all women, once a man throws a tantrum at himself, it is most likely that he is either immature, or he does not love himself, or he is "looking for something".
Only because women are always too sensitive, and always long for men to always put themselves in the first place in life, once men can't do it, they will be domineering, and they will feel that men are wrong.
And, men are a certain law, generally in the love stage, he will be more reclusive, if there is nothing really provoked him, he will not easily lose his temper with you, he will give you the greatest tolerance in his life.
However, when entering the marriage stage, if he talks to you seriously, but you still do not listen, then he can only solve the problem by throwing a tantrum at you.
However, you must be clear that the person who usually follows you and listens to you suddenly loses his temper with you, not necessarily the matter itself has caused him to be irritable, it is likely that he just hopes that you will not do it again next time, so he will use the tantrum to "warn" you.
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The so-called deep love, the responsibility.
This phrase is not necessarily used between seniors and juniors, but also between couples.
Two people together, you will find that who loves deeply, whose temper is more likely to fluctuate, on the contrary, the one who loves shallowly, will often be you do anything, even if you don't love him, he has no ripples, and his attitude towards you is as plain as water.
Therefore, a person who throws a tantrum at you is not necessarily not to love, but he cares about you very much and loves your performance.
Especially in the following three times, if the person next to you will always lose his temper at you at these times, then for the rest of your life, you must treat him well, because this person, he really loves you.
You always don't reply to his messages when he can't find you
The real love of two people should be a daily necessity, not a luxury.
If you are in touch when you think of each other, when you don't want each other, you can't even find it, then no matter how much you once fell in love at first sight, such love is difficult to last.
Some women will always turn the phone into silent mode, or the other party has sent countless messages, and they are too lazy to reply, once or twice, and perhaps understandable, if this is often the case, men will inevitably be angry.
In fact, it is completely possible to think in a different position, if you call the other party countless times and send a lot of messages, you will definitely think that the other party is either in danger or doing something behind your back, so it is inevitable that the heart will not be in a hurry.
Many people will use "busy" as an excuse to evade explanation, "I am too busy to reply", "in a meeting, no phone"... It seems to be a normal excuse to shirk, but even if a busy person sees the news of his lover, he will say something, and he will go to the other party after he is busy and coax him to be happy.
So, being busy is not an excuse, but a reason for him to want to lose his temper more.
He can't contact you, hurriedly looking for all the places where he can find you, but your mobile phone can obviously reply, but ignore him, it must be a tantrum.
Because in his eyes, he can't contact you, not only let him worry, make him irritable, when he sees that you can obviously give him a peace, but he doesn't say a word, so that you, let him feel that you don't love him, don't want to rely on him, and want him to be unable to control his anger.
Therefore, as smart as you, don't give a person who loves you deeply to "do" no more.
If one day, he really stops worrying about whether you can answer his phone or not, and doesn't care whether you will reply to his messages or not, then it will be too late for you to regret it.
You care too much about the body and let him look anxious when he is in a hurry
Sanmao once said: If love is not implemented in dressing, eating, sleeping, counting money, these real lives, it is difficult to last.
Therefore, any relationship that can go to the end is difficult to operate without the existence of a dull day.
Loving someone is not the same as touching someone.
A person who picks you up does not necessarily mean how much he loves you, because he is likely to touch many people at the same time, he will not care how your life is at the moment, whether there is any trouble at work, even if you are sick or not, it has nothing to do with him, he cares, just when, can hold you in his hand, what he wants, is only the satisfaction that you can give him on your skin.
And, a person who loves you, he cares about all you have, he wants to get along with you, wants to work with you for life, if you don't care about your health, don't care about your body, he will be more angry than you, more anxious, he will not allow you to be around him, there are physical problems, health is in trouble.
If you still blindly don't care, don't listen to him, continue to stay up late, drink, smoke, skip breakfast, get sick and busy with work, etc., then he will throw a tantrum at you mercilessly, and even threaten you: If you do this again, let's break up, I can't stand a woman who doesn't even love herself.
Don't think he's making a fuss, you have to be clear, no one will be idle enough to care about a person who has nothing to do with themselves, and no one will regard you as more important than themselves, staring at your life every day, afraid that you are uncomfortable, afraid that you are sick.
Only people who really care about you will be so relieved about you, will stare at you non-stop, see that your body is a little uncomfortable, and then tell you to pull you to see a doctor and let you rest more.
And if at this time, you don't listen to him, then don't blame him for throwing a tantrum at you.
Life is long, often the more you live, the more you will find out how important it is for a person who pays attention to your health and a person who cares about your body, and he, perhaps, is the person in this world, in addition to your parents, who loves you the most.
You're with other members of the opposite sex and forget when you've made an appointment with him
In film and television dramas, there will always be such a hegemonic line: I will not allow you to be with him, and it is not okay to say a word.
Behind the seemingly tantrum, there is a man's heart that loves a woman deeply.
In life, there will always be women complaining, for example, her work needs to deal with the opposite sex, talk about cooperation, and even occasionally have socializing, and every time at this time, her boyfriend or lover will have all kinds of "tossing": stipulate what time you must go home; that person, you are not allowed to talk to him more; when eating, you can't drink; even, ask you to quit the job...
In fact, don't be bothered, the man is so to you, he is not unreasonable, nor is he careful, just because, he does not want to be so close to others in addition to himself, he is worried that you will inadvertently be taken advantage of.
So, in the face of a man's tantrums, you must listen to his advice, after all, men look at men more accurately than women look at men.
You have to understand that since you have chosen each other, you must give each other a sense of security, which has nothing to do with trust.
True love, is the need to keep a distance from other members of the opposite sex, some girls, will always have a boyfriend, but also with "brother" or "male girlfriend" and the like, go very close, do not shy away from suspicion, even after the man loses his temper, will complain: he is one of my buddies; this you are jealous, he is a friend of mine; how do you possess so strong ah...
You know, the end of a lot of love, not necessarily he does not love you anymore, it may be that you let him disappointed in you, saved enough.
In fact, men treat feelings more eagerly, he does not want to, he loves the person he loves wholeheartedly, treat him as a spare tire, or monkey to play, perhaps, your occasional "provoke him to be jealous" will arouse his desire to win or lose, but at this time, you must also understand that you are also consuming his love for you, you are in his heart, will no longer be the girl who made him feel pure and clean.
Therefore, smart girls often calm men's emotions in a timely manner, but also give him affirmation, and will also maintain a safe distance from other members of the opposite sex, and do not let him think more.
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Secular, it is rough.
Love, on the other hand, is in this roughness, giving you the warmth that is added to the thin coolness of the world. So don't hurt the heart of someone who loves you deeply.
Fast-paced life, there are always some people who treat love as a transaction, as a moment of passion, but ignore the affection of someone who comes to you with a sincere heart.
If there is a person who really reassures you, you will find that you will easily provoke him, it is easy to provoke his inner ups and downs, provoke him to have emotions, and his love for you is the word "heart".
Because you use your heart, you will be "fiddled with"; because you are moved by the truth, you will be moved.
You have to be sober, this person who came for you, because he holds the heart of not leaving you and wants to spend the rest of his life with you... Therefore, he will worry about you, worry about you, and lose his temper with you when he can't find you; he will worry about you and lose his temper with you when you don't care about your body and can't take good care of yourself; he will be jealous of you, sad for you, and angry at you when you are too close to the other opposite sex.
You should also know:
In this life, people have met countless people, and there are many people who can be thrilled for you; but there are very few people who really put you in their hearts, so we must cherish this person who "loses his temper" for you, he really loves you.
Author, Frank Fox
Figure, network
May you find in my words the ordinary years, the strong affection! Thanks for your attention!